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apples99
love my sunshine..

Member since 11/08

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me

Re: its over

o prunie.. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I'm so sorry for you.. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon for you

Posted 3/7/11 3:54 PM
 
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Domino
Always My Miracle

Member since 9/05

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Re: its over

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I am so sorry for your lossChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I never actually called my boss, I emailed him because I couldnt even verbalize what was going on. I did have DH call the next day to give him an update. I never asked for the time off and had no time left and they still paid me.

Posted 3/7/11 4:06 PM
 

Ready4aBaby
LIF Adolescent

Member since 12/10

833 total posts

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Re: its over

I am so sorry.. there are no words.. Chat Icon

Posted 3/7/11 4:23 PM
 

VeeJay
Love baby feet

Member since 2/09

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Re: its over

I am so sorry for your loss. Even as someone who has been in your situation twice, I truly wish there was something I could say to help you.
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ETA: As for your work situation, you need to tell them that it is a family emergency and you need the time off. Please take care of yourself.

Message edited 3/7/2011 4:25:58 PM.

Posted 3/7/11 4:24 PM
 

ricaim
LIF Adult

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Re: its over

I am so sorryChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/7/11 4:33 PM
 

lululu
LIF Adult

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Re: its over

I am sooooo sorry. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/7/11 4:37 PM
 

angel333
Sigh.....

Member since 3/10

1803 total posts

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AKS

Re: its over

OMG such horrible news.....I'm so sorry....Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/7/11 4:40 PM
 

Bops
My 3 wishes

Member since 12/07

13625 total posts

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Re: its over

My heart is broken for you.....so very unfair Chat Icon

Posted 3/7/11 5:00 PM
 

Daisy21
My Little Loves

Member since 6/10

1133 total posts

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Re: its over

There are no words

I'm so so sorry

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Posted 3/7/11 5:07 PM
 

FlowerWife
Positive Vibrations...

Member since 1/08

8423 total posts

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Re: its over

i saw your post on preg and my heart just dropped for you Chat Icon .
i am so sad to read this. i am so sorry for your loss.
i know its hard to believe this right now, but you will get through this and you will be OK. and you will get pregnant again!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/7/11 5:17 PM
 

classc1
LIF Adolescent

Member since 6/10

805 total posts

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Re: its over

So very sorry for your loss. Its all so unfair at times. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/7/11 5:24 PM
 

Dolphinsbaby
My 3 little guys!

Member since 12/10

2943 total posts

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Re: its over

Chat Icon I am so sorry. I know exactly how you feel. I had a sono at 7w2d and the baby's hb was perfect. I went for a 10wk sono and there was no heartbeat. I was devastated. Feel free to fm me if you ever need to talk.

The good thing about your job knowing you were pregnant is that they should be understanding. I took off a week. When I went back it was so hard, but good to take my mind off things. Sending you tons of Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/7/11 5:37 PM
 

SeptemberBride03
Love my Kiddos!

Member since 5/05

3228 total posts

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Re: its over

I'm so sorry for your loss!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/7/11 5:52 PM
 

bringonthebaby
Twins!

Member since 11/10

2334 total posts

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Re: its over

I am so sorry for your loss Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/7/11 5:58 PM
 

PennyCat
Just call me mommy :)

Member since 7/08

19084 total posts

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Jib

Re: its over

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon When I saw the subject line, I didn't even want to open your post!!! I am beyond words and SO sorry you have to deal with this!


The only advice I can give about the D&C (my procedure was different but similar) is that it is so much worse emotionally than anything else. Physically, it isn't much to fear. I think you have experienced the worst already, even. The initial shock just swallows you whole. I hate that ANYONE has to go through such he!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon FM me anytime!!!

Posted 3/7/11 6:21 PM
 

InShock
life is good

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Re: its over

I'm so sorry. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/7/11 6:50 PM
 

AnxiousPants
LIF Adolescent

Member since 10/09

864 total posts

Name:
EDD 10/22!

Re: its over

I am so very very sorry!!!!!!!

Posted 3/7/11 7:02 PM
 

Jenn1621
<3

Member since 5/05

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Re: its over

I am so very sorry to hear this. Having been there I know exactly how you feel and it just sucks. It's easy to say but in time it gets easier. I cried every day for 2 months and each day got a little bit easier. Like you, many people at work knew especially since I had gone through ivf, I told my boss and a close friend and ask them to let the rest of the people know so they wouldn't talk to me about it. It made things a lot easier with going back.
Take the time you need, cry as much as you want and just mourn with your dh. I'm here if you need to talk. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/7/11 7:07 PM
 

Irishgrl1017
It happened :)

Member since 9/08

1872 total posts

Name:
Colleen

Re: its over

I am SO sorry for your loseChat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/7/11 7:07 PM
 

marriedandttc
LIF Adolescent

Member since 10/08

873 total posts

Name:
lauren

Re: its over

I am so so sorry for your lose. I know how hard it can be and how devastated you must feel . I will keep you in my prays. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/7/11 7:21 PM
 

beanie571
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Re: its over

Oh no - I am SO sorry. I know how devastating this is. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/7/11 7:26 PM
 

BaseballWidow
*****

Member since 8/08

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Re: its over

Oh, Jenn, I am so very sorry to see this. I know there is nothing anyone can say or do for you right now. I will keep you and DH in my prayers and ask that you both have the strength to get through this and find peace and can heal quickly. This is really just the last thing I ever wanted to see for you...
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Posted 3/7/11 7:34 PM
 

FergieK
Loving my girls

Member since 7/09

2533 total posts

Name:
Fergie

Re: its over

OMG I am so sorry. There are no words..

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Posted 3/7/11 7:36 PM
 

hopingforbaby
We made a wish & you came true

Member since 2/10

2695 total posts

Name:
Me

Re: its over

I am so sorry for your loss..Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/7/11 8:40 PM
 

PurpleC
Miracles Do Come True

Member since 8/10

2287 total posts

Name:
Caren

Re: its over

I cried when I read your post. Im so sorry that you are going through this. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/7/11 9:00 PM
 
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