Just got a shower invite in the mail...

and I log onto the gift registry to find out...that DH's cousin and I would have shared the SAME exact due date

I mean, I knew she was preggo and all and due around the same month....but the same DAY? I don't mean to sound so negative but I feel like this child is going to be a constant reminder to me of "what if".

It is alright though, i am not jealous. I am very happy for them....just kinda brings the MC to my mind more than i'd like to think about it.



On a positive note....I already mentioned that DH and I are planning to start TTC again this month. We took a break for 5 months, and I definately feel ready now. AF just came this week so I am now on CD 4. Looking forward to a BD-fest next week!

Re: Just got a shower invite in the mail...

I dont blame you. I would feel the same way. Youre a better person then I am though because I think I would be jealous

Not that I cant be happy for people but I cant help but be jealous of any woman who does not have to go through this.

Good luck with the bd'ing this weekend!!

Re: Just got a shower invite in the mail...

Ugh...that's rough. I'm sorry I agree with Lisa...you're a better person than I because I have to admit I would probably feel a little jealous.

Hopefully it will be your turn soon Good luck next week

Re: Just got a shower invite in the mail...

ugh. I'm so sorry.

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Aw I'm so sorry, I know that stings, but admire your positivity

goodluck this week!!!

Re: Just got a shower invite in the mail...

Your a better person that me. I would definetly be jealous. That's really rough but you have a great outlook on it.

Good Luck this week!