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KaKa2323
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Just ruined my New Years

I had my first IUI on 12/20 and was supposed to go this Sat for a beta. DH and I both had this feeling it was going to work. Well yesterday I decided to just do one at work and its a BFN. I'm pretty sure it would show something at this point. Just got into a fight with DH because I don't want to do anything or go anywhere now

Posted 12/31/14 11:31 AM
 
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TyReseGreen
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Just ruined my New Years

That's early to be testing most ladies don't get BFP until 13 or 14dpiui

Message edited 12/31/2014 11:43:46 AM.

Posted 12/31/14 11:39 AM
 

KaKa2323
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Just ruined my New Years

Do you think I should still go on Saturday for a beta. I just thought it would show something, because it lists 0.5-1 week, 1-2 weeks and so on. I figured if I was it would at least come back with a very low number at this point

Posted 12/31/14 11:46 AM
 

ANewDayHasCome
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Just ruined my New Years

Too early!

Posted 12/31/14 11:48 AM
 

TyReseGreen
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Just ruined my New Years

Of course you would go for your beta. You're testing too early. If that was days past a FET cycle(IVF). Then I would say its a true negative but not past an IUI.

Posted 12/31/14 11:58 AM
 

TyReseGreen
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Just ruined my New Years

Also if you're testing bfn then you know the trigger is out your system so when you get a BFP it's a true one. Trigger stays in for 10 days.

Posted 12/31/14 12:02 PM
 

MrsPetro2B
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Re: Just ruined my New Years

Posted by KaKa2323

Do you think I should still go on Saturday for a beta. I just thought it would show something, because it lists 0.5-1 week, 1-2 weeks and so on. I figured if I was it would at least come back with a very low number at this point


YES! You def. should go. Still early!

Posted 12/31/14 12:05 PM
 

nycgirl
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Re: Just ruined my New Years

Go out anyway!
Drink.
I remember feeling the same with failed IUIs (though you are still to early to test...).
IF can take a long time.
Don't stop your life for it!

Posted 12/31/14 12:47 PM
 

Michelle1110
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Just ruined my New Years

Go out! My iui last year was 12/26 and I got my bfp 1/6 suppppppppper faint. You have time!

Posted 12/31/14 1:14 PM
 

MrsD121011
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Just ruined my New Years

I didnt get my BFP until 12 days past O. It was super light and I took a second test the same to be sure and got a BFN that same day even though I was. Each day after it got darker. I would def go Saturday and enjoy tonight. In the long run you will be glad you did.

Posted 12/31/14 4:29 PM
 

SummerMom
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Re: Just ruined my New Years

Wait, you did a digital? Those are less sensitive than the other tests. Totally possible to get a BFN at 11 dpo and still be in the running. If you'd gotten a bfn on a pink-line test at 12 or 13 dpo, I'd say you were probably out, but not definitely. A digi at 11 dpo? Go out tonight and have fun and test again on Friday!

Posted 12/31/14 5:40 PM
 

ANewDayHasCome
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Just ruined my New Years

Good luck tomorrow morning!!!

Posted 1/2/15 8:13 PM
 

KaKa2323
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Just ruined my New Years

Thank you! I have been testing everyday, like a nut, but I still have a tiny bit of hope left.

Posted 1/3/15 8:02 AM
 

WantBabyNbr2
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Just ruined my New Years

Good luck!!

Posted 1/3/15 8:05 AM
 

TyReseGreen
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Re: Just ruined my New Years

Good Luck todayChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/3/15 8:14 AM
 

Athee
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Re: Just ruined my New Years

Good luck today!!

Posted 1/3/15 10:08 AM
 

KaKa2323
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Just ruined my New Years

Thanks ladies, but I knew it. BFN. On to the next one.

Posted 1/4/15 11:04 AM
 

ANewDayHasCome
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Re: Just ruined my New Years

Dust yourself off and try again. It will happen. Chat Icon

Posted 1/4/15 11:57 AM
 

nycgirl
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Re: Just ruined my New Years

First time is the worst.
Hang in there!

Posted 1/4/15 1:45 PM
 

MrsPetro2B
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Re: Just ruined my New Years

I'm so sorry. Sending Chat Icon Chat Icon for next time Chat Icon

Posted 1/4/15 1:59 PM
 

2BirdsofaFeather
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Re: Just ruined my New Years

I am sorry.

Posted 1/4/15 2:31 PM
 

hoping2013
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Just ruined my New Years

I am sorry...bfns suck. You will get stronger and wil get through this. I hate to say this but it will be helpful to you to realistically understand that it can take several Iuis before a BFP. Like someone earlier said, you are going to have to see the long road to keep sanity and strength.

Posted 1/4/15 6:04 PM
 

TyReseGreen
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Re: Just ruined my New Years

Posted by hoping2013

I am sorry...bfns suck. You will get stronger and wil get through this. I hate to say this but it will be helpful to you to realistically understand that it can take several Iuis before a BFP. Like someone earlier said, you are going to have to see the long road to keep sanity and strength.



I am so sorryChat Icon
I do agree with the above poster.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon for your next cycle.

Posted 1/4/15 6:54 PM
 

NYCGirl80
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Re: Just ruined my New Years

Posted by hoping2013

I am sorry...bfns suck. You will get stronger and wil get through this. I hate to say this but it will be helpful to you to realistically understand that it can take several Iuis before a BFP. Like someone earlier said, you are going to have to see the long road to keep sanity and strength.



I totally agree. IUIs can work, but don't work 100% of the time.

Posted 1/4/15 8:47 PM
 

KaKa2323
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Re: Just ruined my New Years

Posted by NYCGirl80

Posted by hoping2013

I am sorry...bfns suck. You will get stronger and wil get through this. I hate to say this but it will be helpful to you to realistically understand that it can take several Iuis before a BFP. Like someone earlier said, you are going to have to see the long road to keep sanity and strength.



I totally agree. IUIs can work, but don't work 100% of the time.

I'm fully aware that they don't work 100% of the time, the first time or EVER for that matter but thanks for the reminder, because that is my only option at the moment. I don't think I was being unrealistic in hoping that after two and half years of trying that my first one just might work, I was actually trying to be optimistic.

Posted 1/4/15 9:20 PM
 
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