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Kathy116
Hey baby!
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Re: Just wanted to ask for some hugs- PPD is sever
Posted by casey31
Hi ladies-
I just wanted to ask for some hugs- all of you are so loving and supportive of other moms and I am at an all time low.
DH and I were blessed with our second child, Caitlin, on Thursday. We are so lucky that she is beautiful and healthy.
My PPD came back so severe, I cannot stop crying, shaking, cannot eat and cannot sleep. Unlike her brother, she had latched on like a champ and breastfeeding was going so well- but I am going to stop- it is too much and I am so overwhelmed and need to take ambien and effexor.
I am SO lucky to have my mom and DH. But, I have to get it together quickly. DS is only 16 months old- I think these pregnancies were too close together- two c-sections is a lot too.
Anyway, just wanted to ask for some hugs- I have never felt so low and scared in my life.
Hope you all are doing well. 
I'm not sure if what you are going through at this moment is considered PPD....I think what is happening to you right now is the "baby-blues" and they last for several weeks. If you don't feel better after these several weeks of your homones trying to balance themselves, then I think it is considered PPD.
I only make the distinction because most women go through those baby blues right after having a baby....but not everyone goes through PPD.
I had really bad baby blues for three weeks, and then all of a sudden, I began to feel like myself again.
I have the name of a wonderful RN who is heavily involved in Long Island PPD committees, and we've talked several times. She feels that no one should have to suffer with PPD, and there are options and treatments available, from medications to simply having a professional who can be there for you and just listen.
If you'd like her info, please FM me.
I hope you are feeling better soon 
Message edited 4/8/2008 11:49:16 AM.
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xiomyflor23
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Re: Just wanted to ask for some hugs- PPD is sever
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LMF123
My Boys.....
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Re: Just wanted to ask for some hugs- PPD is sever
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Juliet
Family is Complete!
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Re: Just wanted to ask for some hugs- PPD is sever
I had a rough time for the first 6 weeks, I know the pain of which you speak. I hope it passes soon.
Keep yourself surrounded by friends and family. Go shopping with DC. Remember to shower (I used to skip it sometimes when I felt really bad)
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saraH
happy birthday sweet kate!
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I know that God exsists, I held her in my arms...
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Re: Just wanted to ask for some hugs- PPD is sever
Talk to someone you feel close to. Your mom, a friend, whoever, just get it out.
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| Posted 4/8/08 1:30 PM |
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stickydust
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Re: Just wanted to ask for some hugs- PPD is sever
Just take it one hour at a time. Hopefully the medicine will kick in soon and you will feel much better. Now the the weather is getting nicer going out for walks may also help.
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| Posted 4/8/08 1:59 PM |
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betty
My boys
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Re: Just wanted to ask for some hugs- PPD is sever
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GraciesMom
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Re: Just wanted to ask for some hugs- PPD is sever
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| Posted 4/8/08 3:13 PM |
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debsey75
My two best friends!
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Re: Just wanted to ask for some hugs- PPD is sever
We are all here for you. Please let us know how we can help!
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| Posted 4/8/08 3:16 PM |
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hope07
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Re: Just wanted to ask for some hugs- PPD is sever
Im so sorry you are going through this! Its great the you are reaching out to your family who love you for help! Never feel bad or afraid to ask for help!!
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| Posted 4/8/08 6:17 PM |
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itsbabytime
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Re: Just wanted to ask for some hugs- PPD is sever
I'm so soo sorry you are going through this I remember how my emotions were the first two weeks and it was pretty bad at times - I had to stop BF for a period b/c i had an infection and i swear it was absolutely traumatizing to me b/c of the hormones. I hope this passes very very very soon and you are feeling better soon My heart goes out to you and your family
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Stacey1403
Where it all began....
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Re: Just wanted to ask for some hugs- PPD is sever
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| Posted 4/9/08 6:58 AM |
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DanaRenee
Fitness Junkie!
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Re: Just wanted to ask for some hugs- PPD is sever
I hope and pray that you feel better. You will get thru it 
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| Posted 4/9/08 8:17 AM |
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Mrs
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Re: Just wanted to ask for some hugs- PPD is sever
I am so sorry you are feeling this upset! I had the same feelings that lasted for 2 months with my first child. It does pass, and I just had to 'ride it' out with loved one support. I FORCED myself to go out, fresh air, meet other moms and just sometimes have 'me' time while DH stayed with baby. OR, what helped, is having my mom stay with DD while DH and I went out. YES, we did this when she was just 2 weeks old, BUT, I needed it! And, maybe, you need it too?
For me, it seemed hopeless, I cried all the time the full two months. I would cry harder when ppl told me how cute she is and how lucky I am to have her. So, in short, FM me any time if you want to talk to someone who REALLY gets it, but also know, it will pass...
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Bklyngrl
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Re: Just wanted to ask for some hugs- PPD is sever
hang in there - it will pass
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| Posted 4/9/08 9:37 AM |
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KristinasMama
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Re: Just wanted to ask for some hugs- PPD is sever
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Kidsaplenty
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Re: Just wanted to ask for some hugs- PPD is sever
I hope things get better for you.
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| Posted 4/9/08 9:48 AM |
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Ambersmom
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Re: Just wanted to ask for some hugs- PPD is sever
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mrsej
The cutest!
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Re: Just wanted to ask for some hugs- PPD is sever
The weather is supposed to be very nice these next couple of days. I think tomorrow it will hit 70 degrees. Try and get outside - I always feel a little better when the sunlight hits my face!
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| Posted 4/9/08 10:26 AM |
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BigB
C & J are 10!
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Re: Just wanted to ask for some hugs- PPD is sever
I had really bad baby blues for 2 weeks after I gave birth....I forced myself to shower everyday and go out everyday! I even went out when it rained! This really helped me get back to my old self! I wish you well! and Congrats on your new baby!
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| Posted 4/9/08 10:46 AM |
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Mom-2-Liam
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Re: Just wanted to ask for some hugs- PPD is sever
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Janice
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Re: Just wanted to ask for some hugs- updated
terrific update
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| Posted 4/9/08 11:11 AM |
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CathyB
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Re: Just wanted to ask for some hugs- updated
I'm glad you are starting to feel better.
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LIMOMx2
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Re: Just wanted to ask for some hugs- updated
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Gumpslilqtpie
Living the DREAM!!!
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Re: Just wanted to ask for some hugs- updated
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I just wanted to write and say that I am so overwhelmed and touched and grateful by all of you. It is SO helpful to hear how other people went through this and just to get hugs and FMs. Yesterday DH and I took Caitlin to the ped and it was sunny and that was so nice. Today I will try and make it to the park. The ambien is helping at night- when it is the worst for me.
I can't believe how generous and thoughtful everyone is, bringing meals to our home. I still can't believe it. DH is beyone amazed too. I am SO grateful and I can't wait to pay this forward to other mommies. My mom and DH are here for another week or so- I am very lucky to have so much support.
Thank you, thank you everyone.
Im so glad that you are feeling a little bit better. You'll make it through this!
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