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Are any of DC named after relatives?

Forum Opinion Poll
Yes, either me or SO 9 12.68%
Yes, one degree away (Grandparent, Aunt, Cousin) 21 29.58%
Yes, multiple degrees away (Great grandparent, Family friend) 6 8.45%
Yes, Not anyone in particular, but it's a family name 2 2.82%
No, we actively tried to avoid family names 22 30.99%
No, but only because it's a name we liked, and it happened to not be a family name 11 15.49%
 

Kids named after relatives?

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Budjeg11
LIF Adult

Member since 4/11

2644 total posts

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Kids named after relatives?

First names - unique
Middle Names - My older daughter has my mother's first name and my younger daughter has the female version of my FIL's name

Posted 10/3/18 2:03 PM
 

NoPlaceLikeHome
LIF Toddler

Member since 10/15

429 total posts

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Kids named after relatives?

Middle names are after grandparents. Their first names are just ones we liked with no family ties.

Posted 10/3/18 2:52 PM
 

noni882
LIF Toddler

Member since 7/06

378 total posts

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Re: Kids named after relatives?

My DS is named after my DH. He is the 4th generation with this name so we felt obligated to keep it going Chat Icon

Posted 10/3/18 3:48 PM
 

AngnShaun
Sisters

Member since 1/10

21015 total posts

Name:
Ang

Kids named after relatives?

We actively avoid it. All of Shauns uncles on his mothers side have sons with the same name and now almost all of them have sons named after them...

we are having our 3rd girl so we dont have to worry about that. But even for girls names we actively avoid repeats.

Posted 10/3/18 4:47 PM
 

StaceyWill
It's a girl!!!

Member since 6/10

21539 total posts

Name:
Stacey

Re: Kids named after relatives?

Posted by AngnShaun

We actively avoid it. All of Shauns uncles on his mothers side have sons with the same name and now almost all of them have sons named after them...

we are having our 3rd girl so we dont have to worry about that. But even for girls names we actively avoid repeats.



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Posted 10/3/18 6:16 PM
 

drpepper318
MIR MIR MIR!

Member since 6/07

8274 total posts

Name:
me

Re: Kids named after relatives?

First names are unique within the family. My first 2, their middle names are after my dad and FIL. My third’s first name is actually the last name of DH’s grandmother (originally this wasn’t on purpose but it did turn out to be a nice tribute). Fourth will happen to have the same name as one of my cousins and one of DH’s cousins but not on purpose (it’s a pretty common name). I avoid using names of close relatives. I have the same first name as my mother and I have hated this my whole life so I wouldn’t do that to our kid.

Posted 10/3/18 9:27 PM
 

MichLiz213
Life is Good!

Member since 7/07

7979 total posts

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Kids named after relatives?

DS is named after DH, and the passing down of the first name goes back generations. DS has my dad’s first name as his middle name.

Posted 10/3/18 10:56 PM
 

Hofstra26
Love to Bake!

Member since 7/06

27915 total posts

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Re: Kids named after relatives?

Our kids aren't named after anyone, we wanted unique names that were all our own.

Posted 10/4/18 9:27 AM
 

PurpleC
Miracles Do Come True

Member since 8/10

2287 total posts

Name:
Caren

Kids named after relatives?

My husband and son have the same first name but different middle names. I loved my husband first name and wanted it for my first son. It does get confusing at times so I usually use me sons middle name along with his first name to clarify who Im talking to.

Posted 10/4/18 11:34 AM
 

MrsG823
Just call me Mommy.

Member since 1/11

5570 total posts

Name:
S

Kids named after relatives?

I actively avoided having dd name after a family member. Her first name is a name I love and we picked a middle name that starts with DH’s first initial- it is also a name I really like

Posted 10/4/18 8:53 PM
 

ali120206
2 Boys

Member since 7/06

17792 total posts

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Kids named after relatives?

My older son is named after both of his grandfathers (which also ends up being the same name as my father in law because his middle name is my fathers first name). We call him by his initials.

My second son has just a name we liked and has DHs name as his middle name. I had wanted to name him after DH and use the Irish form of his name but a lot of our friends used that name and half of our neighborhood seems to have that name so I’m glad we didn’t.

Posted 10/4/18 9:17 PM
 

myminions
LIF Toddler

Member since 2/14

454 total posts

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Re: Kids named after relatives?

the middle names for DS and DD are my husband's parents first names. His parents died a long time ago in the 1990's and I never met them. The middle name is also my Dad's middle name .

Posted 10/5/18 12:19 PM
 

lightblue
LIF Adult

Member since 1/17

2249 total posts

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Re: Kids named after relatives?

I guess I would be an "other" option. Dh is named after his father, and grandfather, etc. I did not want our son to have the same name as him to continue the "tradition" because having the same name as his dad has caused some issues (when applying for our mortgage, it recognized his dad's house as being my dh's property, also some issues when applying for car insurance all of my FIL's accidents came up). When DS was born we named him a variation of his name that we both liked.

Posted 10/5/18 12:24 PM
 

mommy2B3
2 boys 2 girls!!!!

Member since 7/08

3324 total posts

Name:
M

Re: Kids named after relatives?

Yes my DS1 was named after DH, but they have different middle names bc my DHs middle name is FILs name and he’s a terrible human being. DS2 has my DHs initials.

My middle name is my aunts name. She passed away at such a young age and my mom wanted to honor her name.

Posted 10/5/18 2:54 PM
 

VickiC
Rocking the party

Member since 5/05

4937 total posts

Name:
Vicki

Kids named after relatives?

We chose first names that we liked, but their middle names are our first names.

Posted 10/8/18 3:02 PM
 

DancinBarefoot
06ers Rock!!

Member since 1/07

9534 total posts

Name:
The One My Mother Gave Me ;-)

Re: Kids named after relatives?

My daughter is named for both paternal great-grandparents. First name = husband's paternal grandmother. Middle name = my paternal grandmother.

Posted 10/9/18 8:45 PM
 

MyBabyG
LIF Adolescent

Member since 1/15

793 total posts

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Kids named after relatives?

My dd's first name is not named after anyone in the family. Her middle name was my aunt's name and dh's grandmother.

Posted 10/10/18 9:01 AM
 

DiamondGirl
You are my I love you

Member since 7/09

18802 total posts

Name:
DiamondMama

Kids named after relatives?

Our son has the name that my paternal and DH's maternal grandfather both happened to have, we love the name and since it was special to both families we went with it. DS's middle name is my dad's first name (actually DS'S name is my dads name inverted lol DADSMIDDLE DADSFIRST)

Our DD is named after the college DH and I attended and met at

Posted 10/10/18 12:39 PM
 

ChristinaM128
LIF Adult

Member since 8/12

4043 total posts

Name:
Christina

Re: Kids named after relatives?

Our first dd is named after my great grandmother and has my mom’s middle name. DH vetoed our mothers’ names as first names (he didn’t like their names, not due to not wanting to name her after them in principle). Our second dd works out to be named symbolically after my grandfather but she’s not really named after anyone (his name means Easter in Italian and she’s Liliana, my Little Easter Lily), and has dh’s grandmother’s name as her middle name. If we had a boy, he’d be named after our dads in homage to the Italian tradition.

Message edited 10/13/2018 10:41:15 PM.

Posted 10/13/18 10:39 PM
 
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