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Kind of personal question, but those who are actively TTC
Do you engage in any non-BD sex anymore? 
Last month, we had fun, but we definitely were "BD"ing
Last night, AF was just finishing up, and we did the deed - just for fun. I have to say, it was nice to know we can still do that, even when trying...
I was worried that TTC would get in the way of romance (hence my screen name) but so far, it hasn't. In fact, it adds a fun little element to it, especially when we are doing it for fun, when there is no chance of me ovulating....
Does that make sense? Anyone else in this boat with me? 
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Posted 1/12/09 4:26 PM  |
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maybeamommy
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Re: Kind of personal question, but those who are actively TTC
Well I'm in a different boat now.. but I know what you mean!
We no longer have to BD for baby-making purposes, so it's all just for fun for us!
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MrsPJB2007
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Re: Kind of personal question, but those who are actively TTC
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Re: Kind of personal question, but those who are actively TTC
Totally know what you mean-now that I am 6DPO, we are BDing for sheer fun! This is the reward for the BDing that is all about getting swimmies to eggs! No putting legs up, no pressure! I think it is a healthy thing for our relationships with our DHs, to remind us that we still need the fire in our relationship!
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Re: Kind of personal question, but those who are actively TTC
Yes.....We talked about this fro the begining, although the goal is to get pg, we don't want it to ever "feel" like work. I think there is a HUGE amount of intamicy in the act of s e x and that should never be compared to anything
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MrsRbk
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Re: Kind of personal question, but those who are actively TTC
Posted by maybeamommy
Well I'm in a different boat now.. but I know what you mean!
We no longer have to BD for baby-making purposes, so it's all just for fun for us!
Honestly... going through IF and all the treatments.. this part was the PLUS side to it! None of the stress associated with having to time things just right.
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Re: Kind of personal question, but those who are actively TTC
i dont tell DH when I'm O'ing because i want to make sure he always enjoys and it doesnt feel any pressure. i have it in the back of my mind when doing the deed but i still DEFINITELY enjoy it! 
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thiadora
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Re: Kind of personal question, but those who are actively TTC
Posted by waiting4ablessing
i dont tell DH when I'm O'ing because i want to make sure he always enjoys and it doesnt feel any pressure. i have it in the back of my mind when doing the deed but i still DEFINITELY enjoy it!
This is my "plan" too. DH wants to just let whatever happens, happen.
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4PsInaPod
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Re: Kind of personal question, but those who are actively TTC
yes we totally still do the deed for fun!!
I think you have too, ya know!
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| Posted 1/12/09 7:41 PM |
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Re: Kind of personal question, but those who are actively TTC
Posted by MrsPJB2007
DH and i have always been big on the banging. 
all of your posts really crack me up!
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| Posted 1/12/09 9:38 PM |
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CrankyPants
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Re: Kind of personal question, but those who are actively TTC
We do, but a lot less than we used to so as to save up energy, etc for the marathon that starts around CD 12.
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CrankyPants
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Re: Kind of personal question, but those who are actively TTC
Posted by MrsPJB2007
DH and i have always been big on the banging. forum.
We have always been "okay" on the banging
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| Posted 1/13/09 9:02 AM |
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antoinette
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Re: Kind of personal question, but those who are actively TTC
we do but after the o week marathon- I needed a little break.... I think our issue was that we bd too much this cycle- we bd every day starting at 5 days before o and till 3 days after, only skipping one day in between . Next time we will do every other day and then we (I) wont be so exhausted.
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| Posted 1/13/09 9:31 AM |
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SuperLRN
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Re: Kind of personal question, but those who are actively TTC
We still engage in non BD sex. It always feel better, more relaxing knowing we can do it without trying to get a job done.
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| Posted 1/13/09 11:57 AM |
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nferrandi
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Re: Kind of personal question, but those who are actively TTC
We have non TTC sex. And I actually feel like it's more frequent then TTC sex. For some reason around the right time of the month, one of us is sick, working late, not in the mood etc... 
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