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pjay
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Re: let me know your opinion...

Posted by shazza211

First I am sorry to here about your GrandmaChat Icon ! I found out I was PG the day my grandpa passed and I too was planning on putting off telling my parents but my sister convinced me otherwise. So, I told my parents the following day and they were thrilled and said how the circle of life is an amazing thing. This blessing may ease your family's grief, I know it did for mine.



the circle of life really is amazing... so many of u have similiar stories. i am still deciding what to do. I just got a call back from the med center confirming my BW preg test was positive.. so now i know for sure (not that i was thinking the 5 OTC preg tests were all lying)Chat Icon

Posted 4/24/08 10:17 AM
 
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betty
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Re: let me know your opinion...

I'm so sorry for your lossChat Icon .

I think you should tell her before. It would give her something nice to think about in her time of sorrow.

Posted 4/24/08 10:19 AM
 

Xelindrya
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Re: let me know your opinion...

My $.02
If you were planning on telling her this weekend anyway, then go ahead and tell her.


Posted 4/24/08 10:25 AM
 

Goldi0218
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Leslie

Re: let me know your opinion...

So sorry for you loss. I think perhaps knowing that you are expecting may make things a little bit easier for her.

Posted 4/24/08 10:26 AM
 

Karebaby
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Re: let me know your opinion...

Posted by vmystique33

Oh wow I am so sorry for your loss !!Chat Icon Chat Icon

Thats a hard decision but if you feel it would make your mother feel better and excited I dont see why not and you can share with her that you told your grandma before she passed Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon


I agree with this. It probably will make her feel better, especially knowing that you told yoiur Grandma before she passed.

I am so sorry for your family's loss.Chat Icon

Posted 4/24/08 10:29 AM
 

Saltricia
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Patricia

Re: let me know your opinion...

i'm so sorry for your lossChat Icon and i think it is wonderful you had the opportunity to tell her before she passed.

i would wait until after the service. let your mom grieve and then i think this wonderful news of yours will help her afterwards!

Posted 4/24/08 11:32 AM
 

wannabemom
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oh I am so sorry Chat Icon

but it was wonderful that you could share your good news with her before you passed.

I think you should tell you mom ASAP, and you should mention that grandma knew too.... I think that would be very comforting to her Chat Icon

Posted 4/24/08 12:32 PM
 

twinkletoes807
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I am so sorry for your loss. Chat Icon I would probably tell your Mom about the baby. I have read many times, that when one member of a family dies, one is one the way to take his/her place. Remind your Mom that your Grandma will be your guardian angel and will watch over you and the baby. I would also tell her that you already told your Grandma before she passed. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/24/08 1:04 PM
 

tabrtm
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I would tell your mom. My brother told my mother the day before my grandpa died and it really helped her get through it.

Posted 4/24/08 2:24 PM
 
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