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pjay
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Name: PJAY
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Re: let me know your opinion...
Posted by shazza211
First I am sorry to here about your Grandma ! I found out I was PG the day my grandpa passed and I too was planning on putting off telling my parents but my sister convinced me otherwise. So, I told my parents the following day and they were thrilled and said how the circle of life is an amazing thing. This blessing may ease your family's grief, I know it did for mine.
the circle of life really is amazing... so many of u have similiar stories. i am still deciding what to do. I just got a call back from the med center confirming my BW preg test was positive.. so now i know for sure (not that i was thinking the 5 OTC preg tests were all lying)
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Posted 4/24/08 10:17 AM |
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betty
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Name: Beth
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Re: let me know your opinion...
I'm so sorry for your loss .
I think you should tell her before. It would give her something nice to think about in her time of sorrow.
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Posted 4/24/08 10:19 AM |
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Xelindrya
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Name: Veronica
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My $.02 If you were planning on telling her this weekend anyway, then go ahead and tell her.
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Posted 4/24/08 10:25 AM |
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Goldi0218
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Name: Leslie
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Re: let me know your opinion...
So sorry for you loss. I think perhaps knowing that you are expecting may make things a little bit easier for her.
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Posted 4/24/08 10:26 AM |
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Karebaby
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Name: Karyn
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Re: let me know your opinion...
Posted by vmystique33
Oh wow I am so sorry for your loss !!
Thats a hard decision but if you feel it would make your mother feel better and excited I dont see why not and you can share with her that you told your grandma before she passed
I agree with this. It probably will make her feel better, especially knowing that you told yoiur Grandma before she passed.
I am so sorry for your family's loss.
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Posted 4/24/08 10:29 AM |
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Saltricia
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Member since 8/07 1035 total posts
Name: Patricia
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Re: let me know your opinion...
i'm so sorry for your loss and i think it is wonderful you had the opportunity to tell her before she passed.
i would wait until after the service. let your mom grieve and then i think this wonderful news of yours will help her afterwards!
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Posted 4/24/08 11:32 AM |
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wannabemom
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Member since 12/07 7364 total posts
Name: aka marriedinportjeff
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oh I am so sorry
but it was wonderful that you could share your good news with her before you passed.
I think you should tell you mom ASAP, and you should mention that grandma knew too.... I think that would be very comforting to her
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Posted 4/24/08 12:32 PM |
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twinkletoes807
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Name: Gabi
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Re: let me know your opinion...
I am so sorry for your loss. I would probably tell your Mom about the baby. I have read many times, that when one member of a family dies, one is one the way to take his/her place. Remind your Mom that your Grandma will be your guardian angel and will watch over you and the baby. I would also tell her that you already told your Grandma before she passed.
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Posted 4/24/08 1:04 PM |
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tabrtm
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I would tell your mom. My brother told my mother the day before my grandpa died and it really helped her get through it.
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Posted 4/24/08 2:24 PM |
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