Mad Mama Rant: kid at her school - note to the little brat who hurt my kid

You hurt my kid you little snot nosed wench. I see you and girl.. I KNOW YOU! From first day of school I saw how you were and what you would do to have your way, get your way and how you used tears as a weapon. I warned the principal, I warned the teacher. I specifically said one day this girl will go too far and I will be beyond upset. Today is that day. Honestly surprised it wasn't actually worse but my dear evil spawn child, when my kid ends up in the nurse's and you say it was an accident and cry... , danged spiffy I called your nonsense out.

Heck ya I informed the nurse who wouldn't give me your name WHO you were.

I know you spit on her seat at breakfast because she wasn't fast enough to talk to you.

I know you threw rocks in her face and said it was just a game.

I saw you tell her you wouldn't hit her as she hesitated down the slide only to nearly slap her. I was fast enough to give you the death stare but not interfere and when you hit her and said "It was just a game" I informed you that you PROMISED not to hit her.

I saw you push another child into a wall for not wanting to give you her toy.

I also saw you give a girl a lightsaber for her birthday then proceed to steal it form her holding over your head (as you are much much taller) and saying you brought it to the party its YOUR toy. Nevermind it was a gift. Because it was cool. How cruel?

I also saw you lie to her and say you wouldn't give it back because AJ wanted a turn and yes I *MADE* You give it to AJ. Even when you said "But AJ didn't ask for it" Yes but you said it was her turn so now it is.

I heard you cry because no one wanted you sitting with them because you are MEAN. I watched as teachers listen to your tears and give you what you want and force others to give you attention because you just need it.

I watched at a party as children ran for the piñata candy and you shoved then cried and each child (including my own) gave you more candy than you could hold, only so you could get angry and take candy from each child that you wanted best.

You cried when I told my daughter NOT to play with you.

You cried when I told you that you were lying about the game.

I am here

I am my daughter's defender

Today you shoved my child and grabbed her crotch because she kissed a boy (a topic I will have with my daughter later) and hurt her bad enough that she had to go to a nurse and also examine herself for injury.

So yes. I am now pulling in counselors and moving your actions up the later. You are a spoiled entitled little girl with an evil streak. I don't care you live in the big house behind the gated community with all the money. Girl.. I'm a pro at being bullied and to hell if you think I'll let you do it to my child!

I am one pissed off mama!

Let the battle begin!

Re: Mad Mama Rant: kid at her school - note to the little brat who hurt my kid

OMG! How has the school not intervened when it comes to this girl? Has the school even talked to her parents about this? I am so sorry this happened to your daughter.

Mad Mama Rant: kid at her school - note to the little brat who hurt my kid

Oh wow. What a little brat. Makes you wonder what's going on at her house.

Mad Mama Rant: kid at her school - note to the little brat who hurt my kid

Well just got off the phone with the Vice Principal.
I explained how upset I am. Also this isn't just a scratch on the knee, a bloody nose, a shove into the dirt.. This girl grabbed my daughter's CROTCH! (our VP is a guy). I explained that crosses the line of normal abusive behavior and I reserve my right to press charges for sexual assault. My daughter and this monster are currently in aftercare right now. They went to inform them the two girls are to stay separated. Frankly I want that little brat out of my daughter's class!

Message edited 12/10/2014 5:17:02 PM.

Mad Mama Rant: kid at her school - note to the little brat who hurt my kid

Oh my god!!! I'm so glad you've escalated this! I can't believe its gone on this long without the school doing something sooner. I once bit a girl when I was 8 and you bet the school took action and my butt was whipped that night. (I had trouble after my parents divorce and I was tormented as a child because of that.)

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I would absolutely move to have this child removed from your daughter's class. I agree with you 100%. The girl clearly has issues that the school needs to look into because this definitely comes from somewhere but that can't be at your daughter's expense. I would document everything!!

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I would be livid! Good luck with this situation. I hope your daughter is protected from this little girl.

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I am so sorry to read this. There is no way grabbing at another child's crotch is normal six year old behavior. I would ask the school to call CPS on this girl and her family. To me, it screams of abuse.

I truly hope that you beautiful daughter is ok. I would not let this go. I would demand they move the other child and if they have pushback, threaten to sue the school because unfortunately that is sometimes the only way thing happen. But I would only use that option as a last resort.

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Mad Mama Rant: kid at her school - note to the little brat who hurt my kid

Lets be clear.. she KNOWS its not ok and she KNOWS its wrong.
This girl plays her parents like fiddles. Oh mommy mommy, mommy! It was an accident. I'll never do it again.. booohoooo (fountains from her eyes) and the mother starts stern then says "its ok sweetie, just say sorry" no you little twerp I will NOT accept your apology you conniving little piece of crap.

Her PARENTS have let her become entitled and they don't fight her at all. "But I wanted to wear this and I told my mommy I just HAD TO!" yeah you stupid fool its 50 outside going down to 30 and YOU just NEEDED to wear a mini skirt and transparent shirt? sure.. Then when you get cold you take away OTHER people's jackets because your leather jacket is 'too cold'. You stole my daughter's fairy toy off her bag the first DAY and when I demanded it back you cried and RIPPED IT and said "I don't want it, its broken anyway."

She is a spoiled little brat.

She demanded that the bday girl from this weekend wear the gray leather jacket she gave her for her bday "Because I say so" seriously. The little girl wore it the next day (it was 70!). PS: who gives a gift at a 7yr old's classmate party of a leather jacket and light saber? And no the parents aren't that close at all. Frankly the bday girl's mom was shocked how dramatic and needed this little girl was!

She is a girl who is used to getting HER way
She is a girl who's parents paycheck can buy her what she wants
She is Veruca Salt with tears as weapons

When kids were asked what do you want to be when you grow up.

She said: "A rock star" when asked what kind of music she said "I will be rich and famous and everyone will have to love me because I'm always the best my Dad said so"

Mad Mama Rant: kid at her school - note to the little brat who hurt my kid

wow...I just have no words..

sorry for your DD and all the other kids though!

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I am sitting here with my jaw on the floor. I am so sorry that your daughter and all the other kids are being bullied by this little brat. You are a very good mama and probably handling it much better than I would be. I would be a raging lunatic with the school right now.

Mad Mama Rant: kid at her school - note to the little brat who hurt my kid

Just a status update:

I have asked the Principal (with copy to teacher) to provide me a copy of the District's policy and procedures of handling the contact my daughter suffered.

I have already told them I reserve the right to legal action.

Re: Mad Mama Rant: kid at her school - note to the little brat who hurt my kid

This little girl messed with the wrong child's mama!

I can't believe the school tolerates this child's behavior in this day and age of anti-bullying.

I'm so sorry your daughter has to deal with this type of treatment from another girl at school. It's very sad.

Re: Mad Mama Rant: kid at her school - note to the little brat who hurt my kid

Your poor daughter that she had to go through that. I
Hope she's ok. I would be livid!

I suggest taking all that anger you have and placing it on that school, unless I'm reading wrong - how the hell did all that happen without consequences? I would've been raised hell at the school and it would've been that child seeking help or gone from the school. I completely understand why you are angry at the girl but you need to be angry at the school. I would've had a problem with the spit and hitting - the school would've needed to do something ASAP, write something up and a meeting with the parents.

My son got written up last year for having tantrums and screaming like a maniac, I can't even imagine if he spit or did half that sh!t to someone.

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Mad Mama Rant: kid at her school - note to the little brat who hurt my kid

I just read your update.. So the girl is still in the class and they will be in aftercare together? What did the actual school do?

Re: Mad Mama Rant: kid at her school - note to the little brat who hurt my kid

omg, I cannot believe what I just read! Your poor DD!

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You know what? Some people are just evil - I fully 150% believe it.
There may be nothing at all 'going on' in her home, other than the fact that her parents are equally a$$holes .........

Some people are genuinely more selfless/selfish by nature, some more agressive/passive etc .......it's what you TEACH your kidsa about right, wrong, how to treat people etc that makes them who they are, and determine HOW THEY BEHAVE.

This kid, is just an a$$hole. It seems to be a simple explanation.

I'm so sorry you guys have to deal with this - especially NOW, when your daughter is only 6 years old! This crap shouldn't be an issue until at LEAST 12/13 !!

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Posted by Xelindrya

Posted by Sash

Your poor daughter that she had to go through that. I
Hope she's ok. I would be livid!

I suggest taking all that anger you have and placing it on that school, unless I'm reading wrong - how the hell did all that happen without consequences? I would've been raised hell at the school and it would've been that child seeking help or gone from the school. I completely understand why you are angry at the girl but you need to be angry at the school. I would've had a problem with the spit and hitting - the school would've needed to do something ASAP, write something up and a meeting with the parents.

My son got written up last year for having tantrums and screaming like a maniac, I can't even imagine if he spit or did half that sh!t to someone.

Oh I'm pissed at the school alright. They nearly let it go because it was an isolated, first time incident and she said she was sorry. It must be accidental.

I called b*llsh1t on that real quick. Oh I'm calling the school now



I want it CLEAR I am going on written record that the first time may not be the last time but I sure as hell don't want it said if I had an issue I should have said something the first time. Oh I'm not saying it, I'm SCREAMING IT

Even mentioning my right to counsel and legal recourse made them stop. I have the right to report this to the police. My friend's son had a police report filed against him and his parents had to go to court over something a lot less than this but it was a boy touching a girl. I'm being Gender equal. Boy or girl.. NO ONE touches my daughter's CROTCH!

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Posted by MarisaK

You know what? Some people are just evil - I fully 150% believe it.
There may be nothing at all 'going on' in her home, other than the fact that her parents are equally a$$holes .........

Some people are genuinely more selfless/selfish by nature, some more agressive/passive etc .......it's what you TEACH your kidsa about right, wrong, how to treat people etc that makes them who they are, and determine HOW THEY BEHAVE.

This kid, is just an a$$hole. It seems to be a simple explanation.

I'm so sorry you guys have to deal with this - especially NOW, when your daughter is only 6 years old! This crap shouldn't be an issue until at LEAST 12/13 !!

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Mad Mama Rant: kid at her school - note to the little brat who hurt my kid

I'm so sorry your little girl has to deal with this. Good for you for being so proactive ! Nothing gets done when you aren't. I must say, I feel sorry for the instigator too because she is obviously being raised by people who've never taught her empathy or limits. I'm sure this will be the first of many incidents she is involved in.

Mad Mama Rant: kid at her school - note to the little brat who hurt my kid

Got the procedures copy and here's what I found:

CATEGORY I OFFENSES--MANDATORY EXPULSIONS TEC 37.007

Students SHALL BE expelled and referred to the Juvenile Justice Academy (JJA) for any of the following offenses if committed on school property or while attending a school-sponsored or school-related activity on or off of school property:



3. Behavior containing the elements of the following offenses under the Texas Penal Code:

a. Aggravated assault, sexual assault, aggravated sexual assault.


CATEGORY II OFFENSES

Students SHALL BE placed in a disciplinary alternative education placement (DAEP) or MAY BE expelled and referred to the Juvenile Justice Academy (JJA), if students:



c. Engages in aggravated assault, sexual assault, or aggravated sexual assault.


CATEGORY IV OFFENSES

Students MAY BE placed in a DAEP for offenses while on school property, at any school facility, at any school-sponsored or school-related activity, or on a school bus, if students:



13. Engage in fighting and/or habitual fighting, or repeated commission of physical abuse or threat of physical abuse.