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Men!!! I swear, they are helpless!

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MissJones
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Men!!! I swear, they are helpless!

Seriously, DH is making a salad right now and asking me if we have oil and vinegar and if we have something to put it in. He's asking if people put onions in their salads. He's asking me if he bought salad dressing. Chat Icon Seriously, huh??? Yes, a bowl/cup/measuring cup/ramikin, I don't know, did you?

Posted 12/16/07 2:09 PM
 
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Arieschick29
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Re: Men!!! I swear, they are helpless!

Same thing with my DH right now...he's making lunch now ( 60 min after he said he would since he was playing a video game Chat Icon ) and this is what I hear:


"Where is the soup?"
"Is the small pot big enough?"
"Where is the medium pot?"
"Ow...I banged my hand on the counter!"
"You like your grilled cheese well done?"
"Do you want it cut vertically or diagonally?"


It wouldve been simpler to do it myself! Chat Icon

Posted 12/16/07 2:44 PM
 

marriedinportjeff
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Re: Men!!! I swear, they are helpless!

Posted by Arieschick29

Same thing with my DH right now...he's making lunch now ( 60 min after he said he would since he was playing a video game Chat Icon ) and this is what I hear:


"Where is the soup?"
"Is the small pot big enough?"
"Where is the medium pot?"
"Ow...I banged my hand on the counter!"
"You like your grilled cheese well done?"
"Do you want it cut vertically or diagonally?"


It wouldve been simpler to do it myself! Chat Icon



OMG, I think you married my husband Chat Icon Chat Icon

(The 'I banged my hand on the counter' gave it away Chat Icon )

Posted 12/16/07 2:47 PM
 

MissJones
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Re: Men!!! I swear, they are helpless!

OMG, DH just asked me if I wanted soup!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/16/07 3:02 PM
 

Arieschick29
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Re: Men!!! I swear, they are helpless!

Posted by marriedinportjeff

Posted by Arieschick29

Same thing with my DH right now...he's making lunch now ( 60 min after he said he would since he was playing a video game Chat Icon ) and this is what I hear:


"Where is the soup?"
"Is the small pot big enough?"
"Where is the medium pot?"
"Ow...I banged my hand on the counter!"
"You like your grilled cheese well done?"
"Do you want it cut vertically or diagonally?"


It wouldve been simpler to do it myself! Chat Icon



OMG, I think you married my husband Chat Icon Chat Icon

(The 'I banged my hand on the counter' gave it away Chat Icon )




LOL...well it was yummy anyway....it just grinds my gears when he cant do simple everyday things without involving me.... do you see me asking him those questions when I make dinner every single night? Chat Icon

Posted 12/16/07 4:09 PM
 

MissJones
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Re: Men!!! I swear, they are helpless!

Oh, might I add he was cleaning up a little before (I'm doing my online coursework today, so I am excused Chat Icon ) and you'd think with all his sighing and huffing that I'd never cleaned ever. It's hysterical...I know it's not directed at me, he has a cold, but you'd think he was ****** at me b/c he was cleaning YET AGAIN! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon


But I love him!

Posted 12/16/07 4:23 PM
 

klingklang77
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Re: Men!!! I swear, they are helpless!

I agree but on the other hand what happens if they do it wrong? I think they ask so many questions b/c they are afraid of doing it wrong.

Posted 12/16/07 5:14 PM
 

MissJones
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Re: Men!!! I swear, they are helpless!

Posted by klingklang77

I agree but on the other hand what happens if they do it wrong? I think they ask so many questions b/c they are afraid of doing it wrong.



Veeery good point Chat Icon

Posted 12/16/07 5:23 PM
 

TheDivaBrideandTeddyFrog
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Re: Men!!! I swear, they are helpless!

I think they ask so that they drive the point home that it WOULD be easier to just do it yourself..haha

Posted 12/16/07 5:36 PM
 

DancinBarefoot
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Re: Men!!! I swear, they are helpless!

Posted by klingklang77

I agree but on the other hand what happens if they do it wrong? I think they ask so many questions b/c they are afraid of doing it wrong.



I NEVER criticize DH when he does something. That is the sure fire way to make sure he doesn't do it again. If he is willing to cook/clean/change baby's diaper etc, I am going to do everything I can to encourage him to continue. IMHO, the mere fact that he is willing and able means he is doing it right.

Posted 12/16/07 9:28 PM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: Men!!! I swear, they are helpless!

Posted by DancinBarefoot

Posted by klingklang77

I agree but on the other hand what happens if they do it wrong? I think they ask so many questions b/c they are afraid of doing it wrong.



I NEVER criticize DH when he does something. That is the sure fire way to make sure he doesn't do it again. If he is willing to cook/clean/change baby's diaper etc, I am going to do everything I can to encourage him to continue. IMHO, the mere fact that he is willing and able means he is doing it right.



exactly, let's not look a gift horse in the mouth

if boosh criticized me when i was trying to do something nice, that would be the last time

Posted 12/16/07 10:05 PM
 

MissJones
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Re: Men!!! I swear, they are helpless!

Posted by QuoteTheRaven424

Posted by DancinBarefoot

Posted by klingklang77

I agree but on the other hand what happens if they do it wrong? I think they ask so many questions b/c they are afraid of doing it wrong.



I NEVER criticize DH when he does something. That is the sure fire way to make sure he doesn't do it again. If he is willing to cook/clean/change baby's diaper etc, I am going to do everything I can to encourage him to continue. IMHO, the mere fact that he is willing and able means he is doing it right.



exactly, let's not look a gift horse in the mouth

if boosh criticized me when i was trying to do something nice, that would be the last time




Hey...not criticizing, just venting!That's why I'm saying it here! Chat Icon

Posted 12/16/07 10:20 PM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: Men!!! I swear, they are helpless!

Posted by MissJones

Posted by QuoteTheRaven424

Posted by DancinBarefoot

Posted by klingklang77

I agree but on the other hand what happens if they do it wrong? I think they ask so many questions b/c they are afraid of doing it wrong.



I NEVER criticize DH when he does something. That is the sure fire way to make sure he doesn't do it again. If he is willing to cook/clean/change baby's diaper etc, I am going to do everything I can to encourage him to continue. IMHO, the mere fact that he is willing and able means he is doing it right.



exactly, let's not look a gift horse in the mouth

if boosh criticized me when i was trying to do something nice, that would be the last time




Hey...not criticizing, just venting!That's why I'm saying it here! Chat Icon



good deal Chat Icon

Posted 12/16/07 10:32 PM
 

klingklang77
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Re: Men!!! I swear, they are helpless!

Posted by DancinBarefoot

Posted by klingklang77

I agree but on the other hand what happens if they do it wrong? I think they ask so many questions b/c they are afraid of doing it wrong.



I NEVER criticize DH when he does something. That is the sure fire way to make sure he doesn't do it again. If he is willing to cook/clean/change baby's diaper etc, I am going to do everything I can to encourage him to continue. IMHO, the mere fact that he is willing and able means he is doing it right.



Well I guess you have a husband that knows how to clean. My DH had to be trained. He thought cleaning the shower meant spraying it with some windex and wiping it clean whilst the soap scum stayed there. He had never cleaned in his life before we got married. So I guess it depends on your DH.

ETA- I don't criticize I teach him how to do it right. It is all about the way you say it.

Message edited 12/17/2007 1:01:26 AM.

Posted 12/17/07 12:59 AM
 
 

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