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PrincessP
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MIL issues

what do you do when MIL makes up all kinds of stuff to make you look bad to dh? Every event we have ever had...right before ...she made things look bad. I just had dd 8 weeks ago. she made going home from the hospital tragic and now tomm we have dds baby naming and she is starting her stuff again. I overheard her on his cell telling him that I decided not to send his sister an invitation to the baby naming tommorrow. Meanwhile, his sister chose 3 weeks ago to say to the mother she wasnt coming. She has been to New York 3xs and hasnt seen the baby because shes jealous of her brother.

Posted 1/27/07 6:44 PM
 
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rose825
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Re: MIL issues

ignore her and have as little to do with her as possible.

Sorry you have to deal with this at a time that should be happy for you both.

Posted 1/27/07 6:48 PM
 

CouponKT
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Re: MIL issues

I can tell you are TOTALLY STRESSED about this tomorrow!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Relax, and let the day go as it's gonna go and remember it's for GILLIAN! Don't let your in-laws bother you or it's going to ruin your day and you don't want that to happen.

Say to yourself "I will be calm and let things roll off my shoulder" - I think if you REALLY do it (and not just say it) you will feel better in the end!

GOOD LUCK!

Posted 1/27/07 6:53 PM
 

PrincessP
Big sister!!!!!!!!!!

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Re: MIL issues

Posted by BabyCote2006

I can tell you are TOTALLY STRESSED about this tomorrow!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Relax, and let the day go as it's gonna go and remember it's for GILLIAN! Don't let your in-laws bother you or it's going to ruin your day and you don't want that to happen.

Say to yourself "I will be calm and let things roll off my shoulder" - I think if you REALLY do it (and not just say it) you will feel better in the end!

GOOD LUCK!



Thanks! This just started after all my stress about planning the party. His mom came up with this an hr ago. I am going to have to learn like many women ...to write them off. Ive been trying to keep peace for my dh but I cant anymore. They have to back off.

Posted 1/27/07 6:58 PM
 
 

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