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Acerone
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Mom Charged With Murder 53 Years Later

Mom Charged With Murder 53 Years Later
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James Klokow had watched enough TV shows to know that police have a lot more tools today to solve tough cases than they did when he was a little boy.

And so, on a summer day two years ago, the 55-year-old Sheboygan, Wis., man walked into his city's police department and told detectives what he believed: that his mother killed his baby sister five decades earlier.

Now Ruby Klokow, 74, stands charged with second-degree murder in the March 1, 1957, death of 7-month-old Jeaneen Marie Klokow. She is scheduled to appear for a preliminary hearing Wednesday afternoon in Sheboygan County Circuit Court.


The charges, filed last week, came after two police detectives listened to James Klokow's suspicions and then dusted off the files from an original police investigation that declared the death an accident -– the girl's mother said the baby had fallen from a sofa and hit her head.

But this time, in an interview with police detectives, Ruby Klokow "stated she shouldn't have had any children, wished that she never had children, and knew she was 'mean' to them," according to the criminal complaint.

The charge of second-degree murder no longer even exists in Wisconsin. Klokow was charged based on the criminal statutes as written in 1957, police said in a news release. She faces up to 25 years in prison, if convicted. The charge is about the same as a reckless homicide charge today.

At an initial court appearance on Tuesday, Klokow was ordered held on a $10,000 cash bond. Dressed in a red jail jumpsuit, she repeatedly asked the court commissioner to explain what a preliminary hearing is and how to get a lawyer, according to the Sheboygan Press.

"I don't think it's going to make any difference if I have an attorney or not," she added, according to the newspaper.

At the time of Jeaneen's death, Klokow was an overwhelmed mother of four battling her own childhood trauma, she told the detectives in the initial interview last year, according to the criminal complaint.

After interviewing other family members and reviewing a detailed autopsy report of the death, the detectives decided last summer to exhume the remains of Jeaneen and another child, Scott Klokow, who was found dead in his crib in 1964.

A forensic pathologist discovered Jeaneen had three scalp bruises and two brain hemorrhages, which he said were consistent with abuse rather than an accidental fall, the criminal complaint said. The detectives then went back to interview Klokow again.

This time, they said, she admitted she was frustrated that both Jeaneen and James Jr. were crying at the same time, so she grabbed Jeaneen from her stroller and threw her toward the couch, the complaint said. The baby, she said, let out a "different kind of cry" and her eyes looked strange, according to the complaint.

"We have to recognize it was something that happened in 1957 ... and it wasn't intentional, although it was reckless," Sheboygan District Attorney Joe DeCecco told the Sheboygan Press.


"She had a lot of kids at a relatively young age, she wasn't happy in her marriage, there was a lot of drinking going on there and she had a temper."

The criminal complaint details a long list of other abuse against the children, including allegations that she broke James Jr.'s arm and nose in separate incidents, and injured his knees by kicking him with steel-toed boots on multiple occasions.

The complaint also says she made younger brother Bruce stand in a corner with a paper bag on his head at the age of 5 or 6 while she hit each of his toes with a hammer. And Ruby Klokow's mother and a sister both said they had seen Bruce bleeding from the face while sitting in his crib, according to the complaint, which notes that Bruce Klokow is mentally handicapped.

Although the statute of limitations has expired on the other abuse allegations, DeCecco said they were included in the complaint because the statute under which Klokow was charged requires prosecutors to prove she caused the death "through dangerous conduct, evincing a depraved mind."

No charges have been filed in Scott Klokow's death.

"She talked very freely about Jeaneen," DeCecco said, according to local news affiliate Fox 11. "She adamantly denied having anything to do with Scott."

Sheboygan police detective Paul Olsen, who investigated the case with detective Paul Hammann, told the Milwaukee Journal Sentinel that James Klokow first came forward because he'd been watching television shows about solving old crimes and hoped that with the advancements in forensics "maybe something could be done."

But, Olsen added, it's a shame that no one either helped or prosecuted Ruby Klokow back in the late 1950s.

"It's a different world now," he told the newspaper.

Posted 2/7/11 12:32 PM
 
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Cheeks24
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Re: Mom Charged With Murder 53 Years Later

That's kind of crazy!

Posted 2/7/11 12:36 PM
 

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Re: Mom Charged With Murder 53 Years Later

They can make all the excuses about it was a different time and people drank and she had anger issues-I will still never understand how someone can hurt a child. a baby. Their own flesh and blood.

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Posted 2/7/11 12:39 PM
 

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If all of this was documented, HOW were those babies not taken away from this woman? What a sad, sad shame. Chat Icon

Posted 2/7/11 12:40 PM
 

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OMG that story was horrifying and heartbreaking.Chat Icon
What a monster she is.

Wait..so 2 of her children were killed but she's only being charged in the death of 1? I hope they can bring charges against her for Scott's death.
IF she did it of course.

May those children now rest in peaceChat Icon

Posted 2/7/11 12:46 PM
 

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Re: Mom Charged With Murder 53 Years Later

Things like this are crazy, I see tv shows about these kinds of things all the time...

Posted 2/7/11 1:03 PM
 

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Re: Mom Charged With Murder 53 Years Later

all i can say is wow!!

Posted 2/7/11 1:06 PM
 

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Re: Mom Charged With Murder 53 Years Later

sick sick people, and it's so sad. If you are that miserable being a mother, be brave enough to give them to someone who really wants them.

Posted 2/7/11 1:12 PM
 

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Re: Mom Charged With Murder 53 Years Later

"so she grabbed Jeaneen from her stroller and threw her toward the couch, the complaint said. The baby, she said, let out a "different kind of cry" and her eyes looked strange,..."

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Posted 2/7/11 1:13 PM
 

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Re: Mom Charged With Murder 53 Years Later

Horrifying Chat Icon I just have to believe that someone who can do something like this must have some kind of mental disease/illness. It's just too sickening to even comprehend Chat Icon

Posted 2/7/11 1:34 PM
 

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Re: Mom Charged With Murder 53 Years Later

As parents we all have our limits but hitting your kid's toe with a hammer IS abuse. I don't care how tired you are.

Posted 2/7/11 1:40 PM
 

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Re: Mom Charged With Murder 53 Years Later

I can't imagine how this ate away at this poor man for all those years. Imagine stuffing such atrocities down and having no where to go with them. This must have done a number on him mentally.

Posted 2/7/11 2:27 PM
 

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I shouldn't have read that. I'm sick to my stomach. Chat Icon

Posted 2/7/11 2:36 PM
 

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Re: Mom Charged With Murder 53 Years Later

This wasn't just a frustrated mom with four kids. What they described is torture.

Posted 2/7/11 2:43 PM
 

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Re: Mom Charged With Murder 53 Years Later

Posted by nrthshgrl

This wasn't just a frustrated mom with four kids. What they described is torture.



I absolutely agree. I feel sick after reading that. Those poor children!!!!!!!!!!

Posted 2/7/11 3:14 PM
 

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Re: Mom Charged With Murder 53 Years Later

OMG IS ALL I CAN SAY....

SOMEONE SHOULD PUT A PAPERBAG ON HER HEAD AND HIT EACH OF HER TOES WITH A HAMMER....

Posted 2/7/11 3:22 PM
 

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those poor children.. crazy womenChat Icon

Posted 2/7/11 3:43 PM
 

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Posted by julesrbf

If all of this was documented, HOW were those babies not taken away from this woman? What a sad, sad shame. Chat Icon



I wonder the same. I feel sick to my stomach

Posted 2/7/11 3:43 PM
 

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Re: Mom Charged With Murder 53 Years Later

This is a very sad situation. I cringed when they talked about her hitting her child's toes with a hammer. Chat Icon
I mean who does that sort of thing to their own child!! Chat Icon

Posted 2/7/11 3:45 PM
 

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Re: Mom Charged With Murder 53 Years Later

That woman is sick.
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Posted 2/7/11 6:54 PM
 

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Re: Mom Charged With Murder 53 Years Later

I don't know how I feel about this.

She's 74 years old now and she's going to sit there in prison...

This was 50 years ago... she was probably a completely different person.

My grandma is 74 years old. I can't imagine a little old lady her age going to prison.Chat Icon

Things were different in those days for women. They frequently suffered depression while being trapped at home with all their kids - expected to take care of so many things at once.

I'm not in any way, shape or form justifying what happened -- but she probably WAS in need of therapy and ... no one went to therapy back then.

I just don't really see the point of making a little old lady suffer out her last years in the world for something she has probably been haunted by for so long already.

Posted 2/7/11 7:04 PM
 

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Re: Mom Charged With Murder 53 Years Later

Not to excuse her behavior - I am very vocal about how I feel about people who abuse, neglect their children (let alone kill them) but there was so little support back then for moms with PPD, and substance abuse was very hush hush. Relationship and marriage problems were never spoken about. I can imagine a woman in her 20's with that many young children could snap with no resources available for her.,

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Posted 2/7/11 7:25 PM
 

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oh god, that's sickening! Chat Icon

Posted 2/7/11 8:09 PM
 

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This story is horrific Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/7/11 9:26 PM
 

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Re: Mom Charged With Murder 53 Years Later

Posted by smdl

As parents we all have our limits but hitting your kid's toe with a hammer IS abuse. I don't care how tired you are.



and kicking their knees with steel toe boots!!

she's a murder and an abuser. she should be on trial for more than just 1 murder and she should also be on trial for abuse.

it's terrible that the mother and sister of this monster saw signs and didn't do anything about it.

it's also tragic that no one investigated this stuff and she didn't get caught back then.

what an awful story. glad she's been arrested now at the very least.

Posted 2/8/11 1:06 AM
 
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