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Theresa05
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Moms...
Are moms as clicky as girls were in HS?
Like at these play groups or is everyone super friendlie bc we all have kids..
HELLO common bond?
maybe me moving to the burbs with the heehaw's will show me the friendlies.. I HOPE
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Diana1215
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Re: Moms...
I can't with "Heehaws" lol
At places like Gymboree and Music Together, everyone is very friendly. They will all love you (except when you try to put them on a diet after the first day you meet them!!   )
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nrthshgrl
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Re: Moms...
From what I've seen yup.
I'm seeing it in my son's school. The ones that already know each other because they have older kids, the ones that were in nursery school together, the ones that are SAHMs with playdates.
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| Posted 3/28/08 1:52 PM |
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Theresa05
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Re: Moms...
Posted by Diana1215
I can't with "Heehaws" lol
At places like Gymboree and Music Together, everyone is very friendly. They will all love you (except when you try to put them on a diet after the first day you meet them!! )
D you say me helping lose weight and feel sexy is a bad thing I have an obesssion with dieting and sex and plastic surgery like people have with food 
I won't ever have any friends :(
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| Posted 3/28/08 1:53 PM |
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Theresa05
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Re: Moms...
Posted by nrthshgrl
From what I've seen yup.
I'm seeing it in my son's school. The ones that already know each other because they have older kids, the ones that were in nursery school together, the ones that are SAHMs with playdates.
I knew it
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| Posted 3/28/08 1:53 PM |
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2BEANS
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Re: Moms...
i would be your friend!
If somone is nice to me, i would befriend anyone, but im shy.
I heard some groups can be clique, but i havent done any yet.
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| Posted 3/28/08 1:57 PM |
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LIMOMx2
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Re: Moms...
Yes. Very.
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hbugal
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Re: Moms...
Unfortunately yes...
Although I have to say that, where I live, it's not that bad...
You have the PTA group, the soccer mom group, the brownie group, etc etc...but all the groups tend to overlap so we all mesh pretty well together...
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Diana1215
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Re: Moms...
Posted by Theresa05
Posted by Diana1215
I can't with "Heehaws" lol
At places like Gymboree and Music Together, everyone is very friendly. They will all love you (except when you try to put them on a diet after the first day you meet them!! )
D you say me helping lose weight and feel sexy is a bad thing I have an obesssion with dieting and sex and plastic surgery like people have with food
I won't ever have any friends :(
NOT AT ALL!!!! It's great to motivate people - I was totally kidding! 
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| Posted 3/28/08 1:58 PM |
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Theresa05
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Re: Moms...
Posted by BabySammie
i would be your friend!
If somone is nice to me, i would befriend anyone, but im shy.
I heard some groups can be clique, but i havent done any yet.
and I would be your friend.. I am super out going but I think my big mouth and super agressive natural scares people off and people do'nt ever get "me"
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| Posted 3/28/08 1:59 PM |
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2PreciousBlessings
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Re: Moms...
Yup!
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Re: Moms...
I wouldn't exactly compare it to HS because its just a different dynamic.
But I have noticed like Barbara mentioned people in the same situation seem to gravitate to each other. Which I think is normal as long as they are not bitchy about it. I don't expect or need to be friends with everyone KWIM?
For ex, in one of my local groups a mom said that some other girls were very clique-y, I was like why? because they are all talking with each other? They know each other its only natural, you just have to get in there and join in.
Some people are just shy, etc.
I've found that there were some moms I just had nothing in common with but I continue to go and su ck it up so that DS can socialize and make friends, it all works out 
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| Posted 3/28/08 2:00 PM |
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Theresa05
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Re: Moms...
I am gonna make my own clique
Moms who like surgery and sex and diets.... welcome :) 
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| Posted 3/28/08 2:00 PM |
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hbugal
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Re: Moms...
Posted by Theresa05
Posted by Diana1215
I can't with "Heehaws" lol
At places like Gymboree and Music Together, everyone is very friendly. They will all love you (except when you try to put them on a diet after the first day you meet them!! )
D you say me helping lose weight and feel sexy is a bad thing I have an obesssion with dieting and sex and plastic surgery like people have with food
I won't ever have any friends :(
If you move to Nesconset I'll make sure they are nice to you!!!
They wont dare argue with SuperMommy!!!!!!!!!!!
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2BEANS
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Re: Moms...
Posted by Theresa05
I am gonna make my own clique
Moms who like surgery and sex and diets.... welcome :)
how about 1 out of the 3 are we welcomed??
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| Posted 3/28/08 2:01 PM |
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nickipa
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Re: Moms...
I haven't dealt with the whole school age kids stuff yet as I have a newborn, but I was very lucky that a few moms in my neighborhood 'took me in'(we just moved to NJ, so I knew NO ONE!) So don't worry, there are nice people out there, you will make friends!
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Theresa05
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Re: Moms...
Posted by BabySammie
Posted by Theresa05
I am gonna make my own clique
Moms who like surgery and sex and diets.... welcome :)
how about 1 out of the 3 are we welcomed??
yes... that is a plan
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| Posted 3/28/08 2:02 PM |
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Theresa05
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Re: Moms...
Posted by hbugal
Posted by Theresa05
Posted by Diana1215
I can't with "Heehaws" lol
At places like Gymboree and Music Together, everyone is very friendly. They will all love you (except when you try to put them on a diet after the first day you meet them!! )
D you say me helping lose weight and feel sexy is a bad thing I have an obesssion with dieting and sex and plastic surgery like people have with food
I won't ever have any friends :(
If you move to Nesconset I'll make sure they are nice to you!!!
They wont dare argue with SuperMommy!!!!!!!!!!!
OMG heather I don't even know where that is
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hbugal
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Re: Moms...
Posted by Theresa05
Posted by hbugal
Posted by Theresa05
Posted by Diana1215
I can't with "Heehaws" lol
At places like Gymboree and Music Together, everyone is very friendly. They will all love you (except when you try to put them on a diet after the first day you meet them!! )
D you say me helping lose weight and feel sexy is a bad thing I have an obesssion with dieting and sex and plastic surgery like people have with food
I won't ever have any friends :(
If you move to Nesconset I'll make sure they are nice to you!!!
They wont dare argue with SuperMommy!!!!!!!!!!!
OMG heather I don't even know where that is
Smithtown area...right by the Smithaven Mall
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| Posted 3/28/08 2:03 PM |
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Theresa05
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Re: Moms...
Posted by nickipa
I haven't dealt with the whole school age kids stuff yet as I have a newborn, but I was very lucky that a few moms in my neighborhood 'took me in'(we just moved to NJ, so I knew NO ONE!) So don't worry, there are nice people out there, you will make friends!
Good I am moving to NJ too and it seemed so heehawish. I was lke everyone will die when they hear my accent when they say things like
OH GOLLY!!!!
I hope NJ has nice ladies to be friends with..
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jerseypanda
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Re: Moms...
Posted by Theresa05
Posted by nickipa
I haven't dealt with the whole school age kids stuff yet as I have a newborn, but I was very lucky that a few moms in my neighborhood 'took me in'(we just moved to NJ, so I knew NO ONE!) So don't worry, there are nice people out there, you will make friends!
Good I am moving to NJ too and it seemed so heehawish. I was lke everyone will die when they hear my accent when they say things like
OH GOLLY!!!!
I hope NJ has nice ladies to be friends with..
You know we NJ moms are just waiting to welcome you with open arms!!! Sex and diet addiction and all!!! 
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juanvi
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Re: Moms...
what if you just like sex and not surgery and dieting ? I'm shy so I like hanging out with outspoken people. Clique's are forever existing I think. STINKS!
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nickipa
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Re: Moms...
I can't wait for the next NJ GTG---I will be ready to come this time!
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| Posted 3/28/08 2:13 PM |
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PrincessP
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Re: Moms...
I am super friendly at all GTG's...I dont think there was anyone I thought was too clicky or nasty. I wasnt sure if you just meant LIF gtg's or other GTG's...BUT...I will say this...When I was in my early 20's (pre-degree), I was a nanny for 3 children and if I told you that some people gave me dirty looks like...why did I have 3 kids and was so young...I would so not be lying. So clicky in age groups...maybe? I dont know what the theory behind that was. BUT I guess I am allowed to have 1 (since she is my own and I am "of age" HA!)
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| Posted 3/28/08 2:19 PM |
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Gatsbygirl
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Re: Moms...
Sometimes. I find some other moms to be judgmental or really braggy about their kids. That was kind of off putting.
Yes there is a common bond, but styles of mothering are so different. Put yourself out there and try different things. I tried a few mom groups and met different people. You want to find someone you will click with and enjoy the time with!
Good luck!
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