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My BFP story - a sad update

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MarsB
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Martha

My BFP story - a sad update

I want to share my story for other women who are struggling with unexplained infertility. DH and I have been TTC for a year. I did 3 unmonitored cycles of Clomid with my gyn without success. After the 3rd cycle I made an appt with an RE. I went to the RE on CD19 and my progesterone test showed that I had ovulated already. DH and I had only BD 2 and 4 days prior to that blood test. I wasn't hopeful. So I was just waiting to get AF, so we could move forward with our next cycle of Clomid and IUI. DH and I had vacation plans and we were leaving for the UK on 16 DPO. I tested on 10 DPO, 12 DPO and 14 DPO all BFN. On 16 DPO I still didn't get AF, so I called the RE so that I could get the prescription for Clomid in case I needed to start while I was away. I just kept thinking if AF shows while I'm away and I miss my Clomid start date, then we're out another cycle. I saw the RE, had some blood work done, and picked up my Clomid 6 hours before my flight. On our 2nd day in London I checked my voicemail and had a msg from the doctor's office. "We have the results of your blood test and you are indeed pregnant." I just got back into the country last night and will be going in for another blood test tomorrow to confirm. I am in complete shock. After all that we had gone through, OPKs, temping, clomid, timed BD and to find out while we're on vacation in another country that we got pregnant during what I thought was an inbetween cycle just blows my mind. I always hated when ppl would say "it'll happen as soon as you stop trying", but I'm now proof. If you have unexplained infertility there is still hope. Thanks for reading my story and best wishes to all of the women TTC.


I don't want my update to discourage anyone. And I want to say thank you to all of you for your well wishes. I went back in for bloodwork on Thursday and my levels had dropped from the week prior. I was told late Thursday afternoon that I would soon experience a miscarriage. I went back in on Friday for more bloodwork and an exam to confirm. Unfortunately, they were right. I was loosing the pregnancy. I have never felt such sadness. With the help of my doctors, DH and my family I am trying to focus on the positive - I was able to get pregnant. My RE said that puts me in a whole new category. So I'm trying to stay strong and focus on this and stay hopeful for the future. Thank you again for the well wishes and for the support and just for giving me a place to express my feelings. Good luck to everyone!

Message edited 9/23/2012 10:32:09 AM.

Posted 9/19/12 11:24 AM
 
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mrsm-2011
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Theresa

Re: My BFP story

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Congrats! Happy and Healthy 9 months for you and baby!

Posted 9/19/12 11:52 AM
 

carie0803
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Member since 2/12

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Name:
Cary

Re: My BFP story

Congrats!! Thank you for sharing your wonderful news... sure gives us lots of hope after having BFN results.

Thank you!

Posted 9/19/12 12:38 PM
 

IveGotAFeeling
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of life!

Re: My BFP story

CONGRATS!!! It definitely gives me hope that it might actually happen one day for us. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/19/12 12:48 PM
 

StaceyWill
It's a girl!!!

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Re: My BFP story

Congrats!!

Posted 9/19/12 12:55 PM
 

ourlivesstartnow2012
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My BFP story

CONGRATS!!!!

Posted 9/19/12 1:20 PM
 

clotheshorse
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Re: My BFP story

Wonderful story. Thank you for sharing. Best wishes.

Posted 9/19/12 1:28 PM
 

pteradactylmama
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Heather

Re: My BFP story

congrats! and thanks for sharing!

Posted 9/19/12 1:57 PM
 

ThinkingOf2
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Re: My BFP story

Congrats!

Posted 9/19/12 2:49 PM
 

moonmist09
Thank you, St. Gerard!

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Antonella

My BFP story

COngratulations!!!!!!!!!!1 a very happy & healthy pregnancy ahead!

Posted 9/19/12 2:50 PM
 

Lillies
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Re: My BFP story

Congrats to you and wishing you a healthy pregnancy ahead!! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/19/12 3:20 PM
 

phoenix913
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V

Re: My BFP story

Congrats! What a great story!

Posted 9/19/12 3:33 PM
 

LInMI
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Re: My BFP story

Omg!! Congrats and best of luck!!!

Posted 9/19/12 4:23 PM
 

SryMrsJackson
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Just call me D

Re: My BFP story

Congrats!!!!

Posted 9/19/12 7:25 PM
 

gina409
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Re: My BFP story

congrats

Posted 9/19/12 7:31 PM
 

LoLaBlue
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Re: My BFP story

congrats!

Posted 9/20/12 8:07 AM
 

TaraVinny
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Tara

Re: My BFP story

wow that's a great story. thank you for sharing. good luck with everything!

Posted 9/21/12 8:57 PM
 

Jan1975
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Sarah

Re: My BFP story - a sad update

SO sorry to hear your updateChat Icon

Posted 9/24/12 9:29 PM
 

gina409
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i am so sorry for your lossChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/24/12 10:53 PM
 

luvnlife
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So sorry for you! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/25/12 4:57 AM
 

pteradactylmama
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Heather

Re: My BFP story - a sad update

I am so sorry for your loss. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/25/12 6:34 AM
 

StaceyWill
It's a girl!!!

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Stacey

Re: My BFP story - a sad update

I'm so sorry!!

Posted 9/25/12 8:22 AM
 

phoenix913
LIF Adult

Member since 5/05

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V

Re: My BFP story - a sad update

I'm so sorry for your loss. Chat Icon

Posted 9/25/12 8:37 AM
 

moonmist09
Thank you, St. Gerard!

Member since 2/11

5043 total posts

Name:
Antonella

My BFP story - a sad update

I'm so so sorry for your loss! Here's to hoping everything will get easier for you in the future!

Posted 9/25/12 9:46 AM
 

IveGotAFeeling
Always look on the bright side

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of life!

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I'm so sorry Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/25/12 11:20 AM
 
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