Oh my God....I am so sorry for you. This has totally floored me...after all you've been through to add this to the pot. I pray that you have the strength to get through this and I know you will emerge stronger after this is behind you.
Jen - I've missed you and think of you often! I'm so sorry that you are now dealing with this horrible event. You have been through more than anyone should have to endure and I wish I had the words to make you feel better. I am always here for you!