DH and I talked the other night...I told him that I would like a fall baby next (if it works out) so that would mean either trying for a baby this jan/feb/march or wait until DD is 2 and start trying which would make them almost 3 years apart.

DH wasnt too happy about the time difference if we waited. The only thing holding me back this winter is financial...it would be difficult for a year...which i am guessing we would make it through, just until we have a couple loans paid off (about 2 years from now)

We would also have to move...if we get the house we are currently looking at problem solved...if not we would have to see if we could move to a dif. rental house that his family owns. (there arent a lot of houses for sale in our price range in our area)

WWYD in this situation? Im totally torn on what to do...I know financially it would be better to wait and have a lot of money freed up...but on the other hand it would be about a year of penny pinching which i guess isnt the end of the world, but i am a little high strung when it comes to money...i really wanted my children closer together then my brothers and i were and if we wait they wont be.

thanks for any advice you can throw my way Chat Icon