Good update. As far as more cooking, DH needs to realize that you too work outside the home. When you come home at 7:30 at night, does he cook the meal ? Do the kids have to wait until then to eat ?

DH is retired, and I still cook most nights when I come home from work. DH and cooking don't go together. But he understands and will not complain if we have grilled cheese sandwiches, breakfast for dinner, leftovers, a huge salad. He'll even suggest picking something up to make things easier.