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Linda1003
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Linda

Re: No Good News, but still need to speak to Dr.-Ever feel something is just not right? UPDATE AT BOTTOM

ok....Im glad everything is ok and normal... glad your body isn't being funky!!!!

Your game plan sounds terrific!!!

good luck sweetie!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/15/08 4:11 PM
 
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jlrj1219
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Re: No Good News, but still need to speak to Dr.-Ever feel something is just not right? UPDATE AT BOTTOM

Posted by MrsMichStein1118

Update:

Just got back. They said everything looks okay. It is one of two things

1. The spotting was my period, so CD 1 would be last Sunday, which would make me CD 9.

2. It is an early pregnancy that is waaaaayy too early to detect.

So, the game plan is as follows:

I am seeing my orthopedic surgeon tonight to get clearance to exercise. I am resuming my lunch walks with my buddy to de-stress. I am going to join yoga with her, and generally RELAX, which I am awful at.

If AF does not arrive within 3 1/2 weeks, I go for another blood preggo test. They said it is way too early to pick up anything, which means I was likely off in calculating my O period

I am going to pick up an OPK just to get to know my cycle, as I am assuming I am out for this month. I am in the 3 1/2WW!

Otherwise, I can drink in moderation and I can continue my rheumatoid injections.

Thanks to everyone for your support. I am okay with this, and I just want to send everyone major hugs and babydust!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



I'm glad you got answers! Enjoy yoga and your walks. The least you think about it the better you are and the faster the time will go!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/15/08 4:13 PM
 

maybeamommy
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Re: No Good News, but still need to speak to Dr.-Ever feel something is just not right? UPDATE AT BOTTOM

Sounds like a great plan!!!! (except for the yogaChat Icon)

Posted 12/15/08 4:31 PM
 

munchkinfacemama
LOVE

Member since 11/07

15800 total posts

Name:
Michelle

Re: No Good News, but still need to speak to Dr.-Ever feel something is just not right? UPDATE AT BOTTOM

Posted by lolipep

Posted by MrsMichStein1118

Update:

Just got back. They said everything looks okay. It is one of two things

1. The spotting was my period, so CD 1 would be last Sunday, which would make me CD 9.

2. It is an early pregnancy that is waaaaayy too early to detect.

So, the game plan is as follows:

I am seeing my orthopedic surgeon tonight to get clearance to exercise. I am resuming my lunch walks with my buddy to de-stress. I am going to join yoga with her, and generally RELAX, which I am awful at.

If AF does not arrive within 3 1/2 weeks, I go for another blood preggo test. They said it is way too early to pick up anything, which means I was likely off in calculating my O period

I am going to pick up an OPK just to get to know my cycle, as I am assuming I am out for this month. I am in the 3 1/2WW!

Otherwise, I can drink in moderation and I can continue my rheumatoid injections.

Thanks to everyone for your support. I am okay with this, and I just want to send everyone major hugs and babydust!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



I'm sooo glad to hear you're ok
how do you feel about the answers the Dr. gave you?
Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon
have fun with yoga and yes please try to destress!!Chat Icon



Thanks! That is what my credit line is for. I am happy because I have a direction and a plan, and a new beautiful handbag Chat Icon

I am putting things in perspective-

1. A LOT is going on in my life right now...this is a happy thing and I can't s u c k the joy out of it
2. This is my first month trying. I have been on a lot of meds for RA and this is another month off of that dangerous drug, which would make it 5 months.
3. No one ruled anything out, so what is getting upset going to do? I could be early preggo and what is wasting my time getting upset going to do?
4. People have it so much worse-terminal illness, homelessness, horrible health issues, losses. I am fortunate to have a DH who loves me to death, two adorable snuggly kitties, and a supportive family (my family), and a load of nieces and nephews. And a new Gucci Chat Icon
5. If lets say, I get preggo in the next few months, I won't have to fast on Yom Kippor
6. I can work on diet and exercise and really try to lose some weight, which would make me infinitely happy! Seize the opportunity.


So, that is my long winded revelation. And I have to learn to relax!

Posted 12/15/08 4:32 PM
 

munchkinfacemama
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Member since 11/07

15800 total posts

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Michelle

Re: No Good News, but still need to speak to Dr.-Ever feel something is just not right? UPDATE AT BOTTOM

Posted by maybeamommy

Sounds like a great plan!!!! (except for the yogaChat Icon)



Yes, I knew you would say that!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/15/08 4:33 PM
 

munchkinfacemama
LOVE

Member since 11/07

15800 total posts

Name:
Michelle

Re: No Good News, but still need to speak to Dr.-Ever feel something is just not right? UPDATE AT BOTTOM

Posted by jlrj1219

Posted by MrsMichStein1118

Update:

Just got back. They said everything looks okay. It is one of two things

1. The spotting was my period, so CD 1 would be last Sunday, which would make me CD 9.

2. It is an early pregnancy that is waaaaayy too early to detect.

So, the game plan is as follows:

I am seeing my orthopedic surgeon tonight to get clearance to exercise. I am resuming my lunch walks with my buddy to de-stress. I am going to join yoga with her, and generally RELAX, which I am awful at.

If AF does not arrive within 3 1/2 weeks, I go for another blood preggo test. They said it is way too early to pick up anything, which means I was likely off in calculating my O period

I am going to pick up an OPK just to get to know my cycle, as I am assuming I am out for this month. I am in the 3 1/2WW!

Otherwise, I can drink in moderation and I can continue my rheumatoid injections.

Thanks to everyone for your support. I am okay with this, and I just want to send everyone major hugs and babydust!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



I'm glad you got answers! Enjoy yoga and your walks. The least you think about it the better you are and the faster the time will go!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon


Absolutely!

Posted 12/15/08 4:33 PM
 

munchkinfacemama
LOVE

Member since 11/07

15800 total posts

Name:
Michelle

Re: No Good News, but still need to speak to Dr.-Ever feel something is just not right? UPDATE AT BOTTOM

Posted by Linda1003

ok....Im glad everything is ok and normal... glad your body isn't being funky!!!!

Your game plan sounds terrific!!!

good luck sweetie!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



Thanks babe-good luck to you. What you said on the chat really made me think how lucky I am and how important it is not to get overly wrapped up in TTC, and enjoy married life, because you don't get this time back!

For you and everyone else in the 2WW Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/15/08 4:34 PM
 

wants2bmommy
So in Love!

Member since 11/08

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Re: No Good News, but still need to speak to Dr.-Ever feel something is just not right? UPDATE AT BOTTOM

r u really stressed and maybe thats why af has not come yet? you have a lot giong on studying, the baby the holidays its a lot to take all at once

were you on bc?

my prayers are with u best of luck

Posted 12/15/08 5:39 PM
 

k-diggity
stay classy.......

Member since 6/08

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Re: No Good News, but still need to speak to Dr.-Ever feel something is just not right? UPDATE AT BOTTOM

Posted by MrsMichStein1118

Posted by lolipep

Posted by MrsMichStein1118

Update:

Just got back. They said everything looks okay. It is one of two things

1. The spotting was my period, so CD 1 would be last Sunday, which would make me CD 9.

2. It is an early pregnancy that is waaaaayy too early to detect.

So, the game plan is as follows:

I am seeing my orthopedic surgeon tonight to get clearance to exercise. I am resuming my lunch walks with my buddy to de-stress. I am going to join yoga with her, and generally RELAX, which I am awful at.

If AF does not arrive within 3 1/2 weeks, I go for another blood preggo test. They said it is way too early to pick up anything, which means I was likely off in calculating my O period

I am going to pick up an OPK just to get to know my cycle, as I am assuming I am out for this month. I am in the 3 1/2WW!

Otherwise, I can drink in moderation and I can continue my rheumatoid injections.

Thanks to everyone for your support. I am okay with this, and I just want to send everyone major hugs and babydust!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



I'm sooo glad to hear you're ok
how do you feel about the answers the Dr. gave you?
Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon
have fun with yoga and yes please try to destress!!Chat Icon



Thanks! That is what my credit line is for. I am happy because I have a direction and a plan, and a new beautiful handbag Chat Icon

I am putting things in perspective-

1. A LOT is going on in my life right now...this is a happy thing and I can't s u c k the joy out of it
2. This is my first month trying. I have been on a lot of meds for RA and this is another month off of that dangerous drug, which would make it 5 months.
3. No one ruled anything out, so what is getting upset going to do? I could be early preggo and what is wasting my time getting upset going to do?
4. People have it so much worse-terminal illness, homelessness, horrible health issues, losses. I am fortunate to have a DH who loves me to death, two adorable snuggly kitties, and a supportive family (my family), and a load of nieces and nephews. And a new Gucci Chat Icon
5. If lets say, I get preggo in the next few months, I won't have to fast on Yom Kippor
6. I can work on diet and exercise and really try to lose some weight, which would make me infinitely happy! Seize the opportunity.


So, that is my long winded revelation. And I have to learn to relax!



Here's for relaxingChat Icon and having a planChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/15/08 7:02 PM
 

chelle
It's a Good Life

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Isn't it obvious?

Re: No Good News, but still need to speak to Dr.-Ever feel something is just not right? UPDATE AT BOTTOM

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Posted 12/15/08 7:18 PM
 

Janice
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Re: No Good News, but still need to speak to Dr.-Ever feel something is just not right? UPDATE AT BOTTOM

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Posted 12/15/08 7:23 PM
 

Diana1215
Living on a prayer!!!

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Re: No Good News, but still need to speak to Dr.-Ever feel something is just not right? UPDATE AT BOTTOM

Glad to hear everything is ok! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/15/08 7:28 PM
 

DanandNette
Love my baby boy!

Member since 9/08

2830 total posts

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Jennette

Re: No Good News, but still need to speak to Dr.-Ever feel something is just not right? UPDATE AT BOTTOM

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I am really relieved to hear this. You have an incredible attitude! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/15/08 8:10 PM
 

jerseygirl
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Member since 11/08

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Re: No Good News, but still need to speak to Dr.-Ever feel something is just not right? UPDATE AT BOTTOM

I'm glad to hear nothing is wrong. Chat Icon On to next monthChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/15/08 8:44 PM
 

TheDivineMrsM
2 girls 4 me!

Member since 8/08

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Mama mama mama....

Re: No Good News, but still need to speak to Dr.-Ever feel something is just not right? UPDATE AT BOTTOM

Chat Icon I'm glad there's nothing wrong with your health! All the PPs are right, you're taking on a lot at one time. Definitely do whatever you can to de-stress. Take your DH and go for a his-and-hers massage!!

eta: Good luck Michelle!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 12/15/2008 10:17:51 PM.

Posted 12/15/08 10:16 PM
 

GenLCSW
Baby # 3 is here!!!

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Re: No Good News, but still need to speak to Dr.-Ever feel something is just not right? UPDATE AT BOTTOM

Posted by MrsMichStein1118

Update:

Just got back. They said everything looks okay. It is one of two things

1. The spotting was my period, so CD 1 would be last Sunday, which would make me CD 9.

2. It is an early pregnancy that is waaaaayy too early to detect.

So, the game plan is as follows:

I am seeing my orthopedic surgeon tonight to get clearance to exercise. I am resuming my lunch walks with my buddy to de-stress. I am going to join yoga with her, and generally RELAX, which I am awful at.

If AF does not arrive within 3 1/2 weeks, I go for another blood preggo test. They said it is way too early to pick up anything, which means I was likely off in calculating my O period

I am going to pick up an OPK just to get to know my cycle, as I am assuming I am out for this month. I am in the 3 1/2WW!

Otherwise, I can drink in moderation and I can continue my rheumatoid injections.

Thanks to everyone for your support. I am okay with this, and I just want to send everyone major hugs and babydust!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



lot and lots of Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/16/08 5:19 AM
 

Collyflower
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Member since 12/05

372 total posts

Name:
Colleen

Re: No Good News, but still need to speak to Dr.-Ever feel something is just not right? UPDATE AT BOTTOM

for next month Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon try to relax! I know it's eaiser said then done!

Posted 12/16/08 7:48 AM
 

sleepie76
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Re: No Good News, but still need to speak to Dr.-Ever feel something is just not right? UPDATE AT BOTTOM




Thanks! That is what my credit line is for. I am happy because I have a direction and a plan, and a new beautiful handbag Chat Icon

I am putting things in perspective-

1. A LOT is going on in my life right now...this is a happy thing and I can't s u c k the joy out of it
2. This is my first month trying. I have been on a lot of meds for RA and this is another month off of that dangerous drug, which would make it 5 months.
3. No one ruled anything out, so what is getting upset going to do? I could be early preggo and what is wasting my time getting upset going to do?
4. People have it so much worse-terminal illness, homelessness, horrible health issues, losses. I am fortunate to have a DH who loves me to death, two adorable snuggly kitties, and a supportive family (my family), and a load of nieces and nephews. And a new Gucci Chat Icon
5. If lets say, I get preggo in the next few months, I won't have to fast on Yom Kippor
6. I can work on diet and exercise and really try to lose some weight, which would make me infinitely happy! Seize the opportunity.


So, that is my long winded revelation. And I have to learn to relax!


Good for you!!!
This is great.

Although getting a BFN is no fun, I really do believe you need to keep it in perspective. Far worse things can happen to you in life. Focus on all the great things you have going on!
Try to roll with it & wait for it to happen.

It will happen!!!
Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/16/08 8:58 AM
 

MrsUta
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Member since 2/08

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Re: No Good News, but still need to speak to Dr.-Ever feel something is just not right? UPDATE AT BOTTOM

Hang in there

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Posted 12/16/08 9:17 AM
 

bellaluna
Baby come on out!

Member since 11/08

1934 total posts

Name:
Jess

Re: No Good News, but still need to speak to Dr.-Ever feel something is just not right? UPDATE AT BOTTOM

Posted by MrsMichStein1118

Update:

Just got back. They said everything looks okay. It is one of two things

1. The spotting was my period, so CD 1 would be last Sunday, which would make me CD 9.

2. It is an early pregnancy that is waaaaayy too early to detect.

So, the game plan is as follows:

I am seeing my orthopedic surgeon tonight to get clearance to exercise. I am resuming my lunch walks with my buddy to de-stress. I am going to join yoga with her, and generally RELAX, which I am awful at.

If AF does not arrive within 3 1/2 weeks, I go for another blood preggo test. They said it is way too early to pick up anything, which means I was likely off in calculating my O period

I am going to pick up an OPK just to get to know my cycle, as I am assuming I am out for this month. I am in the 3 1/2WW!

Otherwise, I can drink in moderation and I can continue my rheumatoid injections.

Thanks to everyone for your support. I am okay with this, and I just want to send everyone major hugs and babydust!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



Glad to hear you are ok and it sounds like you came up with a good plan . Lots of Chat Icon to you

Posted 12/16/08 9:29 AM
 

munchkinfacemama
LOVE

Member since 11/07

15800 total posts

Name:
Michelle

Re: No Good News, but still need to speak to Dr.-Ever feel something is just not right? UPDATE AT BOTTOM

Posted by sleepie76




Thanks! That is what my credit line is for. I am happy because I have a direction and a plan, and a new beautiful handbag Chat Icon

I am putting things in perspective-

1. A LOT is going on in my life right now...this is a happy thing and I can't s u c k the joy out of it
2. This is my first month trying. I have been on a lot of meds for RA and this is another month off of that dangerous drug, which would make it 5 months.
3. No one ruled anything out, so what is getting upset going to do? I could be early preggo and what is wasting my time getting upset going to do?
4. People have it so much worse-terminal illness, homelessness, horrible health issues, losses. I am fortunate to have a DH who loves me to death, two adorable snuggly kitties, and a supportive family (my family), and a load of nieces and nephews. And a new Gucci Chat Icon
5. If lets say, I get preggo in the next few months, I won't have to fast on Yom Kippor
6. I can work on diet and exercise and really try to lose some weight, which would make me infinitely happy! Seize the opportunity.


So, that is my long winded revelation. And I have to learn to relax!


Good for you!!!
This is great.

Although getting a BFN is no fun, I really do believe you need to keep it in perspective. Far worse things can happen to you in life. Focus on all the great things you have going on!
Try to roll with it & wait for it to happen.

It will happen!!!
Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon


Exactly! I am just going to relax and see what happens. I am trying to ignore the symptoms I am feeling, but the nausea is really bad today. I wonder if it could be something else, but the soreness and pain in my breasts is awful!

Posted 12/16/08 10:10 AM
 

kitkat32
LIF Adolescent

Member since 1/07

710 total posts

Name:
kate

Re: No Good News, but still need to speak to Dr.-Ever feel something is just not right? UPDATE AT BOTTOM

I just wanted to wish you good luck! Chat Icon Post a pic of the bag!!

Posted 12/16/08 7:59 PM
 
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