please stop down playing your feeling sweety! as for one of the families here going through the hard time's of life, i have to say this has been one of my safe havens for me. i do know what your are saying though. i get that sometime becasue of the fact it's been almost 4 months sence my sweet angel is gone and yes, i still have alot going on, but others that have medical and family problems right now, i try and tend to do the same thing. and it works actually by caring for others as they go through what they are and helping them when they need it, it helps me. i tend to hold back also... but when i need to i do post it, so please know i know how you are feeling!! i am here for you if you need ANYTHING
We are here for you I am sorry you are feeling sad. all you can do is when you think of them pray for them sometimes they come to us in thought also because they miss us too.if you ever need to talk fm me and just post how you are feeling never think you dont need to post because we are all going through something you are important too to us!
and yes, i still have alot going on, but others that have medical and family problems right now, i try and tend to do the same thing. and it works actually by caring for others as they go through what they are and helping them when they need it, it helps me. i tend to hold back also... but when i need to i do post it, so please know i know how you are feeling!! i am here for you if you need ANYTHING 
