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MarisaK
HELLO Manolo !!
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OMG Peoplw - WHY do you CARE ?? Mind Your Business !!
Sorry, venting ..........
People are just so unbeleivably annoying. And I KNOW it's just going to get worse once the baby is born....but really? I have one in particular that is driving me insane -
Did I  and bark at you while YOU were PG for being a co dependent, lazy, needy, prima donna who refused to lift a finger 'in your condition' from the day you got your BFP??..........No, I did not - b/c it's none of my damn business and your behavoir did not affect me in any way .........Did I say anything about the fact that you always looked like you just rolled yourself out of bed, never bothered to even comb your hair b/c you were 'too tired' ? No, what the EFF did I care? Did I make b*tch at you or compare you to 'other PG women" I know regarding your behavoir, how you looked, how much weight you gained, how you dressed, carried yourself? No, I didn't - again, NOT my business. -
So WHY WHY WHY do you insist on lecturing me about how I shouldn't be wearing those shoes, walking that fast, commuting to the city, cleaning my bathroom, shopping, decorating, hosting parties, livingmy freakin life - etc etc etc. -
I am PREGNANT, not DEAD for God's sake !!!
Just b/c YOU laid on your fat arse for 9 months does not mean everyone is required to !! - And I'm sorry if I'm 'making you look bad' - that's YOUR hang up, not mine !! - I actually got b*tched at for 'looking too nice' the other night - I was out at a holiday party !!! - WHY would I not attempt to make myself look as good as possible ??
Shove it !!
Thank you - vent over.
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Re: OMG Peoplw - WHY do you CARE ?? Mind Your Business !!
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Re: OMG Peoplw - WHY do you CARE ?? Mind Your Business !!
WOW.
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ReiRei13
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Re: OMG Peoplw - WHY do you CARE ?? Mind Your Business !!
I hear ya!! I feel like your damned if you do and damned if you don't!!
I found out I was PG in June and had horrible M/S all summer, since I have summers off (teacher) i pretty much stayed in bed/house the entire summer being so sick! With that i get comments asking if I'm gonna go back to work, etc. or just "ride the pregnancy train"
Once the sickness ended and I was back to myself I get shiot for over-doing it!! We're pregnant, NOT DISABLED!!!
I swear- ya can't win
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MarisaK
HELLO Manolo !!
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Re: OMG Peoplw - WHY do you CARE ?? Mind Your Business !!
Posted by mzsocialworker1
WOW.
I know, harsh, sorry - but I'm just so freakin' mad !!!
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Re: OMG Peoplw - WHY do you CARE ?? Mind Your Business !!
No, that wasn't aimed at you! That was aimed at whoever you are talking about!
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sweetie101
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Re: OMG Peoplw - WHY do you CARE ?? Mind Your Business !!
Message edited 12/23/2008 4:34:20 PM.
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jaysee00
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Re: OMG Peoplw - WHY do you CARE ?? Mind Your Business !!
Thank you! I couldn't agree more. We most certainly are not DEAD, just pregnant.
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Arieschick29
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Re: OMG Peoplw - WHY do you CARE ?? Mind Your Business !!
Sounds like a friend of mine... she couldnt wait to get PG...then had a god awful prgenancy with hives, swelling etc. Had to wear sweats all 9 months and never had a belly- just got fat.
Well now anything I do is criticized- cant wear heels, dont move furniture to vaccuum, dont vacuum, dont eat this, dont do that....aAARGH!
I feel ya! Just because I still look like me and have had an easy pregnancy (knock on wood) I think shes jealous.
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lakadema
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Re: OMG Peoplw - WHY do you CARE ?? Mind Your Business !!
Seriously, some women usee pregnancy as an excuse to gain weight and be lazy in their appearance.
I feel like I should take better care of myself pregnant and it shows. People have definitely made some comments to me about the shoes I wear and always looking so done. I laugh. They are just jealous.
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bonitachyc
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Re: OMG Peoplw - WHY do you CARE ?? Mind Your Business !!
Posted by mzsocialworker1
WOW.
totally.
rock on with your bad self chica - "haters will be haters" 
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Re: OMG Peoplw - WHY do you CARE ?? Mind Your Business !!
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