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Irishgrl1017
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One of those days...advice pls
Hi all
I am an "oldie" and have really been absent from the boards which I'm really sorry about. Busy with the little guy!!
Anyhow. I was currently all set the past few weeks with a fet cycle. Preparing myself that I will be pregnant this wknd after the transfer. Things were great until I got my updt immune panel results today. Dr b cancelled the cycle due to elevated numbers and he did not feel comfortable going through w it
So here I am today so mentally exhausted from preparing myself for baby 2. Dr appts. Meds. Shots. Blood work
Now I have to start a new protocol and add more meds and change my diet to gf. I feel so defeated and almost like I don't want to go through this again. I have a beautiful baby boy. And I so badly want him to have a sibling. But selfishly I don't want to keep going through this either. Help. Advice. Opinions. I need someone to talk w
Thanks 
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Anne44
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Re: One of those days...advice pls
I felt the same way last summer. I love my DD so much and wish I could give her a sibling but I just can't go through treatment anymore. She was conceived after our 2nd ivf cycle, and almost 3 years of ttc. We attempted another cycle when DD was almost 18 months. It was so trying emotionally and physically that my DH and I decided we are done for now. It was not an easy decision, and not sure the right decision, but was right for us at the time. 
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| Posted 6/9/14 9:24 PM |
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Re: One of those days...advice pls
Wish I had some words of wisdom but I don't. There are days when it doesn't seem as bad as the first time and days where it is worse. I hate having to take my precious time away from DD for appointments but also know it's the only chance of giving her a sibling. No o e should have to go through this hell a second time. I am so done with drs , meds, early appts, driving out of my way and trying to just be grateful for what I do have.
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| Posted 6/9/14 10:23 PM |
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LoLaBlue
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Re: One of those days...advice pls
you have been through it once and got your DS and you know you want a sibling for him so as crappy as this news is you have to move ahead & stay positive.
You have been through it once before so you know what to expect.
I will be starting the process again next mo and although I am dreading this doing it all again, I so badly want a sibling for DD.
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| Posted 6/10/14 8:16 AM |
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Irishgrl1017
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Re: One of those days...advice pls
Thank you all for the words. So depressing Going to think it all over during the next few days. Just seems more stuff us popping up this time. Do I count my blessings and call it quits. Or trudge on?!?! 
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| Posted 6/10/14 8:39 PM |
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beanie571
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One of those days...advice pls
Stay positive - as hard as it is. I had a hard time getting pregnant with my 1st - and even harder with my second, but I don't regret a second of it! So worth sticking it out and rolling with the punches!! You can do this!
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| Posted 6/10/14 9:15 PM |
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Irishgrl1017
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Re: One of those days...advice pls
Posted by beanie571
Stay positive - as hard as it is. I had a hard time getting pregnant with my 1st - and even harder with my second, but I don't regret a second of it! So worth sticking it out and rolling with the punches!! You can do this!
. I hope I can. Thanks 
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