Possible Cheating Husband?

Goofing off, I went onto the personals and to my shock I found a personal ad (which has to be paid for in order to post a picture) that a friend of mine posted. He's a MARRIED man! They are trying to have another baby. What is he thinking? Should I print the ad an anonomously send it to his wife? Should I just pretend I didn't see it? Opinions?

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Wow...it has the guy's picture??? What an arse! I would mail it anonymously.

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Posted by LadyLainez

Wow...it has the guy's picture??? What an arse! I would mail it anonymously.

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Mmmmm, that's a tough one. You don't want to get involved, but at the same time you don't this poor woman to conceive another child with this pig of a man. Sending it in the mail anonymously sounds like a good idea. Don't put a return address on it. Even if she thinks it's a joke, she could always go online and see his ad for herself. I HATE when people do this sort of stuff...it's just so selfish and mean.

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sad...truly sad

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well there are web sites out there offered to married men & women who want to explore open relationships....***??? They were talking about it on the news!

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i would definetely mail it anonmously to his wife than let him explain to her why he is being a worthlsee piece of garbage who has to cheat on his wife!

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what a sneaky no good bastar*. rat his as* out. if he is stupid enough to go on a website and put his pic, this jerk deserves to get caught!!!! can you tell im mad.

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I don't think I could ever look at him the same way again. I truly thought he was a nice guy! What an a$$hole. A part of me wants to send it, but then it would be my fault if they break up. I'd be the cause..........I don't know if I could live with that. Does that sound stupid or what.

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Mail it

Let the Basstard get what he deserves

Scott

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Posted by IluvBo

then it would be my fault if they break up. I'd be the cause..........I don't know if I could live with that. Does that sound stupid or what.

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I think I'm gonna do some investigating. See if the post is for real or not. I don't want to do anything until I am 100% sure he's being an a$$hole. And to think I really liked him. I know his wife isn't a saint, by no means, but to do something like this.....................ooooohhhhhh I'm getting mad.

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OMG!!! That's horrible. I guess I kind of agree with the other poster - mail it to her without using your name or anything.

Maybe they're into swinging?

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Posted by IluvBo

I think I'm gonna do some investigating. See if the post is for real or not. I don't want to do anything until I am 100% sure he's being an a$$hole. And to think I really liked him. I know his wife isn't a saint, by no means, but to do something like this.....................ooooohhhhhh I'm getting mad.

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Posted by danielleandscott

Posted by IluvBo

I think I'm gonna do some investigating. See if the post is for real or not. I don't want to do anything until I am 100% sure he's being an a$$hole. And to think I really liked him. I know his wife isn't a saint, by no means, but to do something like this.....................ooooohhhhhh I'm getting mad.

Create a fake email address and send him a fake email and see if he replies....May as well see if it is him.
Scott

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This doesnt shock me, I came across an ad on craigslist under singles that a guy wrote "unhappily married and looking for some fun" and this jerkoff posted his picture too and i was always thinking IMAGINE IF HIS WIFE SAW THIS... it would NOT be ur fault if they did break up, i would def rat his a$$ out, "anonimously" of course.

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I would send it to his wife. She has to know, put yourself in her shoes...wouldn't you want to know?!

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Are you 100% sure it's him? If so I would definitely call your friend and let her know ESPECIALLY since they are trying for have a baby. If you don't have proof, get it first because chances are your friend will believe her husband.

I was in a similar situation w/my first marriage. My ex was having an affair at work and my sister worked there and heard tons of rumors. I told her until she has proof of it, then I wanted to know. Well she got me the proof I needed and it made my decision a heck of a lot easier.

Also, this may not be the first time this guy has done this and your friend may be aware of it and having the proof she needs might make her decision easier!

Good luck and let us know what happens.

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I'd mail it and let her confront her husband. My cousin is going through this now. Her DH cheated on her, said he wanted to leave her and their 2 kids. Then he changed his mind, they went to counseling, etc. She thought things were getting better and they got pregnant with their 3rd baby 4 months ago. He asked for a divorce days after they got back from our family reunion last month. She's so stressed out now, but fortunately she is very close to her family, so they can help her. They live in Ohio, so DH & I can't do a whole lot more than offer moral support. It sux!

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I am 1,000,000,000% sure its him. Pictures don't lie and on top of it all, he puts his real town he lives in, etc. How tall he is, his weight, etc. Men are so friggen stupid. Well I took some of your advice girls and I created a fake name and sent him an email. Since I know him so well, I knew what would draw his attention. I'm hoping that it is a mistake......if not, I am definately going to put a copy of the personal in the mail and send it to his wife. Poor thing, as much as she's not the greatest person in the world...........she doesn't deserve this. NO WOMAN DOES!

Thanks girls and I'll keep you guys posted.

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I'm so sorry to hear that. My thoughts and prayers are with her!

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definetely keep us posted and your welcome.