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Sash
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Re: Post topics

Posted by KarenK122

And again the same thing over and over in this thread. If you don't like someone stop quoting them and talking to them. It's not really that hard. The kids are taught social skills in kindergarten.

It is making it impossible to enjoy or read anything on these boards anymore because of the constant bickering. Also, it is definitely not one sided. It's the same people over and over again. Just grow up.




Agreed! It’s so bizarre.

I also came on here to laugh at the Chrissy Teigen reference Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/15/21 7:56 PM
 
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lululu
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Re: Post topics

Posted by Sash

Posted by KarenK122

And again the same thing over and over in this thread. If you don't like someone stop quoting them and talking to them. It's not really that hard. The kids are taught social skills in kindergarten.

It is making it impossible to enjoy or read anything on these boards anymore because of the constant bickering. Also, it is definitely not one sided. It's the same people over and over again. Just grow up.




Agreed! It’s so bizarre.

I also came on here to laugh at the Chrissy Teigen reference Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



Thanks, I actually was laughing out loud when I wrote it!

Posted 6/15/21 8:43 PM
 

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Re: Post topics

Posted by chilltocam

Yup, I'm just an a$$hole hiding behind a screen. You got it, that's me Chat Icon

Or maybe when the same person continues to post over and over and over again about the same thing and ask the same questions, rfuses to believe any answers, and insists that everyone must agree with her or they are wrong, voicing an opinion (*gasp* that is DIFFERENT from that of the OP) is a very appropriate response



Is someone forcing u to reply though? Seriously, u can only control u, what u do, what u say. U can’t control others. Is it that hard to just ignore??

Posted 6/15/21 9:37 PM
 

lululu
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Re: Post topics

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by RainyDay

Posted by chilltocam

Yup, I'm just an a$$hole hiding behind a screen. You got it, that's me Chat Icon

Or maybe when the same person continues to post over and over and over again about the same thing and ask the same questions, rfuses to believe any answers, and insists that everyone must agree with her or they are wrong, voicing an opinion (*gasp* that is DIFFERENT from that of the OP) is a very appropriate response



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BINGO

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Poor VB, always the victim. Next time I'll be sure to bring my tiny little violin to the "discussion". LOL

Look, this is a public forum. People won't always "like" each other or like what one another has to say but who actually cares?? This isn't real life, it's entertainment. Lighten up.




Oh okay - I guess I read it all wrong then. Because from an outside perspective, the fact that you always go after her and can't seem to just let anything go makes it seem like you do care, a lot actually. I guess it's just me misreading. But you seem to take some pretty low blows sometimes, calling her stupid and ignorant. You constantly use the terms sweetie and honey which are so incredibly condescending. It just makes me wonder, not about VB and what her mindset is, but about you and a few others who just can't seem to let anything she says go. But I guess you are right, it's just a chat board, it's not "real life."

Funny how even on this post it can't be an explanation about why people need to reply over and over again to posts they don't like, but about why that poster shouldn't have been posting in the first place.

Posted 6/16/21 7:19 AM
 

Hofstra26
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Re: Post topics

Posted by lululu

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by RainyDay

Posted by chilltocam

Yup, I'm just an a$$hole hiding behind a screen. You got it, that's me Chat Icon

Or maybe when the same person continues to post over and over and over again about the same thing and ask the same questions, rfuses to believe any answers, and insists that everyone must agree with her or they are wrong, voicing an opinion (*gasp* that is DIFFERENT from that of the OP) is a very appropriate response



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BINGO

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Poor VB, always the victim. Next time I'll be sure to bring my tiny little violin to the "discussion". LOL

Look, this is a public forum. People won't always "like" each other or like what one another has to say but who actually cares?? This isn't real life, it's entertainment. Lighten up.




Oh okay - I guess I read it all wrong then. Because from an outside perspective, the fact that you always go after her and can't seem to just let anything go makes it seem like you do care, a lot actually. I guess it's just me misreading. But you seem to take some pretty low blows sometimes, calling her stupid and ignorant. You constantly use the terms sweetie and honey which are so incredibly condescending. It just makes me wonder, not about VB and what her mindset is, but about you and a few others who just can't seem to let anything she says go. But I guess you are right, it's just a chat board, it's not "real life."

Funny how even on this post it can't be an explanation about why people need to reply over and over again to posts they don't like, but about why that poster shouldn't have been posting in the first place.



Why do you care so much what anyone's motivation is with regards to VB? Do you actually spend your free time stressing over a bunch of strangers on a forum who don't get along? That's bizarre. It's funny to me that you felt the need to start a thread about it as if anyone owes you an explanation. Chat Icon

Posted 6/16/21 7:32 AM
 

lululu
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Re: Post topics

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by lululu

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by RainyDay

Posted by chilltocam

Yup, I'm just an a$$hole hiding behind a screen. You got it, that's me Chat Icon

Or maybe when the same person continues to post over and over and over again about the same thing and ask the same questions, rfuses to believe any answers, and insists that everyone must agree with her or they are wrong, voicing an opinion (*gasp* that is DIFFERENT from that of the OP) is a very appropriate response



Chat Icon



BINGO

Chat Icon Chat Icon

Poor VB, always the victim. Next time I'll be sure to bring my tiny little violin to the "discussion". LOL

Look, this is a public forum. People won't always "like" each other or like what one another has to say but who actually cares?? This isn't real life, it's entertainment. Lighten up.




Oh okay - I guess I read it all wrong then. Because from an outside perspective, the fact that you always go after her and can't seem to just let anything go makes it seem like you do care, a lot actually. I guess it's just me misreading. But you seem to take some pretty low blows sometimes, calling her stupid and ignorant. You constantly use the terms sweetie and honey which are so incredibly condescending. It just makes me wonder, not about VB and what her mindset is, but about you and a few others who just can't seem to let anything she says go. But I guess you are right, it's just a chat board, it's not "real life."

Funny how even on this post it can't be an explanation about why people need to reply over and over again to posts they don't like, but about why that poster shouldn't have been posting in the first place.



Why do you care so much what anyone's motivation is with regards to VB? Do you actually spend your free time stressing over a bunch of strangers on a forum who don't get along? That's bizarre. It's funny to me that you felt the need to start a thread about it as if anyone owes you an explanation. Chat Icon



Why do you care so much what other people start threads about? You are seriously an odd one. I'm not sure what made you think that I was "stressing over a bunch of strangers." Not one thing I wrote indicates that I am stressed out about it. I'm simply curious, mostly if you are this much of an ass hole in real life or if it's just your internet persona. I find it fascinating actually! For example, are you this argumentative with your family members that don't agree with you?

Posted 6/16/21 8:01 AM
 

Hofstra26
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Re: Post topics

Posted by lululu

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by lululu

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by RainyDay

Posted by chilltocam

Yup, I'm just an a$$hole hiding behind a screen. You got it, that's me Chat Icon

Or maybe when the same person continues to post over and over and over again about the same thing and ask the same questions, rfuses to believe any answers, and insists that everyone must agree with her or they are wrong, voicing an opinion (*gasp* that is DIFFERENT from that of the OP) is a very appropriate response



Chat Icon



BINGO

Chat Icon Chat Icon

Poor VB, always the victim. Next time I'll be sure to bring my tiny little violin to the "discussion". LOL

Look, this is a public forum. People won't always "like" each other or like what one another has to say but who actually cares?? This isn't real life, it's entertainment. Lighten up.




Oh okay - I guess I read it all wrong then. Because from an outside perspective, the fact that you always go after her and can't seem to just let anything go makes it seem like you do care, a lot actually. I guess it's just me misreading. But you seem to take some pretty low blows sometimes, calling her stupid and ignorant. You constantly use the terms sweetie and honey which are so incredibly condescending. It just makes me wonder, not about VB and what her mindset is, but about you and a few others who just can't seem to let anything she says go. But I guess you are right, it's just a chat board, it's not "real life."

Funny how even on this post it can't be an explanation about why people need to reply over and over again to posts they don't like, but about why that poster shouldn't have been posting in the first place.



Why do you care so much what anyone's motivation is with regards to VB? Do you actually spend your free time stressing over a bunch of strangers on a forum who don't get along? That's bizarre. It's funny to me that you felt the need to start a thread about it as if anyone owes you an explanation. Chat Icon



Why do you care so much what other people start threads about? You are seriously an odd one. I'm not sure what made you think that I was "stressing over a bunch of strangers." Not one thing I wrote indicates that I am stressed out about it. I'm simply curious, mostly if you are this much of an ass hole in real life or if it's just your internet persona. I find it fascinating actually! For example, are you this argumentative with your family members that don't agree with you?



You seem to care a lot which is why you felt the need to start a thread about it and why you're not letting this go. I'm "fascinated" at why you're so emotionally invested in VB.

The general consensus on VB is she's a passive aggressive, condescending a$$hole who harps on things simply to hear herself talk. She's repetitive and redundant and NEVER listens to the answers anyone gives her. She's blown through countless screen names, caused endless drama, has been kicked off multiple times and has had weird obsessions with a few posters on here. That's exactly why many have little to no tolerance for her.

Perhaps you can move on with your day now? Chat Icon

Posted 6/16/21 8:13 AM
 

lululu
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Re: Post topics

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by lululu

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by lululu

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by RainyDay

Posted by chilltocam

Yup, I'm just an a$$hole hiding behind a screen. You got it, that's me Chat Icon

Or maybe when the same person continues to post over and over and over again about the same thing and ask the same questions, rfuses to believe any answers, and insists that everyone must agree with her or they are wrong, voicing an opinion (*gasp* that is DIFFERENT from that of the OP) is a very appropriate response



Chat Icon



BINGO

Chat Icon Chat Icon

Poor VB, always the victim. Next time I'll be sure to bring my tiny little violin to the "discussion". LOL

Look, this is a public forum. People won't always "like" each other or like what one another has to say but who actually cares?? This isn't real life, it's entertainment. Lighten up.




Oh okay - I guess I read it all wrong then. Because from an outside perspective, the fact that you always go after her and can't seem to just let anything go makes it seem like you do care, a lot actually. I guess it's just me misreading. But you seem to take some pretty low blows sometimes, calling her stupid and ignorant. You constantly use the terms sweetie and honey which are so incredibly condescending. It just makes me wonder, not about VB and what her mindset is, but about you and a few others who just can't seem to let anything she says go. But I guess you are right, it's just a chat board, it's not "real life."

Funny how even on this post it can't be an explanation about why people need to reply over and over again to posts they don't like, but about why that poster shouldn't have been posting in the first place.



Why do you care so much what anyone's motivation is with regards to VB? Do you actually spend your free time stressing over a bunch of strangers on a forum who don't get along? That's bizarre. It's funny to me that you felt the need to start a thread about it as if anyone owes you an explanation. Chat Icon



Why do you care so much what other people start threads about? You are seriously an odd one. I'm not sure what made you think that I was "stressing over a bunch of strangers." Not one thing I wrote indicates that I am stressed out about it. I'm simply curious, mostly if you are this much of an ass hole in real life or if it's just your internet persona. I find it fascinating actually! For example, are you this argumentative with your family members that don't agree with you?



You seem to care a lot which is why you felt the need to start a thread about it and why you're not letting this go. I'm "fascinated" at why you're so emotionally invested in VB.

The general consensus on VB is she's a passive aggressive, condescending a$$hole who harps on things simply to hear herself talk. She's repetitive and redundant and NEVER listens to the answers anyone gives her. She's blown through countless screen names, caused endless drama, has been kicked off multiple times and has had weird obsessions with a few posters on here. That's exactly why many have little to no tolerance for her.

Perhaps you can move on with your day now? Chat Icon



Hmmm - I never asked what the consensus is on VB yet here you go again, offering your opinion. I'm not curious about what makes her tick, she's pretty transparent. It's you that peaks my interest a little more. I really do find you fascinating - pretending not to care about her but replying to every single post. Seems odd, but maybe you consider yourself the LIF Police? Or perhaps you just like to argue. If I had to guess, you've probably alienated a bunch of friends and family with your aggressive, argumentative nature.

Posted 6/16/21 8:16 AM
 

windyweather21
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Re: Post topics

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by lululu

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by lululu

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by RainyDay

Posted by chilltocam

Yup, I'm just an a$$hole hiding behind a screen. You got it, that's me Chat Icon

Or maybe when the same person continues to post over and over and over again about the same thing and ask the same questions, rfuses to believe any answers, and insists that everyone must agree with her or they are wrong, voicing an opinion (*gasp* that is DIFFERENT from that of the OP) is a very appropriate response



Chat Icon



BINGO

Chat Icon Chat Icon

Poor VB, always the victim. Next time I'll be sure to bring my tiny little violin to the "discussion". LOL

Look, this is a public forum. People won't always "like" each other or like what one another has to say but who actually cares?? This isn't real life, it's entertainment. Lighten up.




Oh okay - I guess I read it all wrong then. Because from an outside perspective, the fact that you always go after her and can't seem to just let anything go makes it seem like you do care, a lot actually. I guess it's just me misreading. But you seem to take some pretty low blows sometimes, calling her stupid and ignorant. You constantly use the terms sweetie and honey which are so incredibly condescending. It just makes me wonder, not about VB and what her mindset is, but about you and a few others who just can't seem to let anything she says go. But I guess you are right, it's just a chat board, it's not "real life."

Funny how even on this post it can't be an explanation about why people need to reply over and over again to posts they don't like, but about why that poster shouldn't have been posting in the first place.



Why do you care so much what anyone's motivation is with regards to VB? Do you actually spend your free time stressing over a bunch of strangers on a forum who don't get along? That's bizarre. It's funny to me that you felt the need to start a thread about it as if anyone owes you an explanation. Chat Icon



Why do you care so much what other people start threads about? You are seriously an odd one. I'm not sure what made you think that I was "stressing over a bunch of strangers." Not one thing I wrote indicates that I am stressed out about it. I'm simply curious, mostly if you are this much of an ass hole in real life or if it's just your internet persona. I find it fascinating actually! For example, are you this argumentative with your family members that don't agree with you?



You seem to care a lot which is why you felt the need to start a thread about it and why you're not letting this go. I'm "fascinated" at why you're so emotionally invested in VB.

The general consensus on VB is she's a passive aggressive, condescending a$$hole who harps on things simply to hear herself talk. She's repetitive and redundant and NEVER listens to the answers anyone gives her. She's blown through countless screen names, caused endless drama, has been kicked off multiple times and has had weird obsessions with a few posters on here. That's exactly why many have little to no tolerance for her.

Perhaps you can move on with your day now? Chat Icon



The general consensus? Doesn’t this show you that not EVERYONE feels the same way you do?

Posted 6/16/21 8:18 AM
 

windyweather21
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Re: Post topics

Posted by lululu

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by lululu

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by lululu

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by RainyDay

Posted by chilltocam

Yup, I'm just an a$$hole hiding behind a screen. You got it, that's me Chat Icon

Or maybe when the same person continues to post over and over and over again about the same thing and ask the same questions, rfuses to believe any answers, and insists that everyone must agree with her or they are wrong, voicing an opinion (*gasp* that is DIFFERENT from that of the OP) is a very appropriate response



Chat Icon



BINGO

Chat Icon Chat Icon

Poor VB, always the victim. Next time I'll be sure to bring my tiny little violin to the "discussion". LOL

Look, this is a public forum. People won't always "like" each other or like what one another has to say but who actually cares?? This isn't real life, it's entertainment. Lighten up.




Oh okay - I guess I read it all wrong then. Because from an outside perspective, the fact that you always go after her and can't seem to just let anything go makes it seem like you do care, a lot actually. I guess it's just me misreading. But you seem to take some pretty low blows sometimes, calling her stupid and ignorant. You constantly use the terms sweetie and honey which are so incredibly condescending. It just makes me wonder, not about VB and what her mindset is, but about you and a few others who just can't seem to let anything she says go. But I guess you are right, it's just a chat board, it's not "real life."

Funny how even on this post it can't be an explanation about why people need to reply over and over again to posts they don't like, but about why that poster shouldn't have been posting in the first place.



Why do you care so much what anyone's motivation is with regards to VB? Do you actually spend your free time stressing over a bunch of strangers on a forum who don't get along? That's bizarre. It's funny to me that you felt the need to start a thread about it as if anyone owes you an explanation. Chat Icon



Why do you care so much what other people start threads about? You are seriously an odd one. I'm not sure what made you think that I was "stressing over a bunch of strangers." Not one thing I wrote indicates that I am stressed out about it. I'm simply curious, mostly if you are this much of an ass hole in real life or if it's just your internet persona. I find it fascinating actually! For example, are you this argumentative with your family members that don't agree with you?



You seem to care a lot which is why you felt the need to start a thread about it and why you're not letting this go. I'm "fascinated" at why you're so emotionally invested in VB.

The general consensus on VB is she's a passive aggressive, condescending a$$hole who harps on things simply to hear herself talk. She's repetitive and redundant and NEVER listens to the answers anyone gives her. She's blown through countless screen names, caused endless drama, has been kicked off multiple times and has had weird obsessions with a few posters on here. That's exactly why many have little to no tolerance for her.

Perhaps you can move on with your day now? Chat Icon



Hmmm - I never asked what the consensus is on VB yet here you go again, offering your opinion. I'm not curious about what makes her tick, she's pretty transparent. It's you that peaks my interest a little more. I really do find you fascinating - pretending not to care about her but replying to every single post. Seems odd, but maybe you consider yourself the LIF Police? Or perhaps you just like to argue. If I had to guess, you've probably alienated a bunch of friends and family with your aggressive, argumentative nature.




I would love to meet her IRL to see if she is the same way but I am betting on it, she is.
Guess she never plans to teach again as these posts are so damaging to getting a job the way she treats people.

Posted 6/16/21 8:20 AM
 

Hofstra26
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Re: Post topics

Posted by lululu

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by lululu

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by lululu

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by RainyDay

Posted by chilltocam

Yup, I'm just an a$$hole hiding behind a screen. You got it, that's me Chat Icon

Or maybe when the same person continues to post over and over and over again about the same thing and ask the same questions, rfuses to believe any answers, and insists that everyone must agree with her or they are wrong, voicing an opinion (*gasp* that is DIFFERENT from that of the OP) is a very appropriate response



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BINGO

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Poor VB, always the victim. Next time I'll be sure to bring my tiny little violin to the "discussion". LOL

Look, this is a public forum. People won't always "like" each other or like what one another has to say but who actually cares?? This isn't real life, it's entertainment. Lighten up.




Oh okay - I guess I read it all wrong then. Because from an outside perspective, the fact that you always go after her and can't seem to just let anything go makes it seem like you do care, a lot actually. I guess it's just me misreading. But you seem to take some pretty low blows sometimes, calling her stupid and ignorant. You constantly use the terms sweetie and honey which are so incredibly condescending. It just makes me wonder, not about VB and what her mindset is, but about you and a few others who just can't seem to let anything she says go. But I guess you are right, it's just a chat board, it's not "real life."

Funny how even on this post it can't be an explanation about why people need to reply over and over again to posts they don't like, but about why that poster shouldn't have been posting in the first place.



Why do you care so much what anyone's motivation is with regards to VB? Do you actually spend your free time stressing over a bunch of strangers on a forum who don't get along? That's bizarre. It's funny to me that you felt the need to start a thread about it as if anyone owes you an explanation. Chat Icon



Why do you care so much what other people start threads about? You are seriously an odd one. I'm not sure what made you think that I was "stressing over a bunch of strangers." Not one thing I wrote indicates that I am stressed out about it. I'm simply curious, mostly if you are this much of an ass hole in real life or if it's just your internet persona. I find it fascinating actually! For example, are you this argumentative with your family members that don't agree with you?



You seem to care a lot which is why you felt the need to start a thread about it and why you're not letting this go. I'm "fascinated" at why you're so emotionally invested in VB.

The general consensus on VB is she's a passive aggressive, condescending a$$hole who harps on things simply to hear herself talk. She's repetitive and redundant and NEVER listens to the answers anyone gives her. She's blown through countless screen names, caused endless drama, has been kicked off multiple times and has had weird obsessions with a few posters on here. That's exactly why many have little to no tolerance for her.

Perhaps you can move on with your day now? Chat Icon



Hmmm - I never asked what the consensus is on VB yet here you go again, offering your opinion. I'm not curious about what makes her tick, she's pretty transparent. It's you that peaks my interest a little more. I really do find you fascinating - pretending not to care about her but replying to every single post. Seems odd, but maybe you consider yourself the LIF Police? Or perhaps you just like to argue. If I had to guess, you've probably alienated a bunch of friends and family with your aggressive, argumentative nature.



You really need a life. I'm actually embarrassed for you that you not only started this thread but that you keep going. Sad.

But feel free to keep at it, I'm enjoying the laughs. People who obsess over public forums and strangers are funny. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/16/21 8:24 AM
 

lululu
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Re: Post topics

Posted by Hofstra26

You really need a life. I'm actually embarrassed for you that you not only started this thread but that you keep going. Sad.

But feel free to keep at it, I'm enjoying the laughs. People who obsess over public forums and strangers are funny. Chat Icon Chat Icon



Sweetie, as you said, this is only a chat board! It's not real life! Why on earth would you possibly waste energy being embarrassed for someone in the fake world that is LIF?

Posted 6/16/21 8:26 AM
 

windyweather21
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Re: Post topics

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by lululu

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by lululu

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by lululu

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by RainyDay

Posted by chilltocam

Yup, I'm just an a$$hole hiding behind a screen. You got it, that's me Chat Icon

Or maybe when the same person continues to post over and over and over again about the same thing and ask the same questions, rfuses to believe any answers, and insists that everyone must agree with her or they are wrong, voicing an opinion (*gasp* that is DIFFERENT from that of the OP) is a very appropriate response



Chat Icon



BINGO

Chat Icon Chat Icon

Poor VB, always the victim. Next time I'll be sure to bring my tiny little violin to the "discussion". LOL

Look, this is a public forum. People won't always "like" each other or like what one another has to say but who actually cares?? This isn't real life, it's entertainment. Lighten up.




Oh okay - I guess I read it all wrong then. Because from an outside perspective, the fact that you always go after her and can't seem to just let anything go makes it seem like you do care, a lot actually. I guess it's just me misreading. But you seem to take some pretty low blows sometimes, calling her stupid and ignorant. You constantly use the terms sweetie and honey which are so incredibly condescending. It just makes me wonder, not about VB and what her mindset is, but about you and a few others who just can't seem to let anything she says go. But I guess you are right, it's just a chat board, it's not "real life."

Funny how even on this post it can't be an explanation about why people need to reply over and over again to posts they don't like, but about why that poster shouldn't have been posting in the first place.



Why do you care so much what anyone's motivation is with regards to VB? Do you actually spend your free time stressing over a bunch of strangers on a forum who don't get along? That's bizarre. It's funny to me that you felt the need to start a thread about it as if anyone owes you an explanation. Chat Icon



Why do you care so much what other people start threads about? You are seriously an odd one. I'm not sure what made you think that I was "stressing over a bunch of strangers." Not one thing I wrote indicates that I am stressed out about it. I'm simply curious, mostly if you are this much of an ass hole in real life or if it's just your internet persona. I find it fascinating actually! For example, are you this argumentative with your family members that don't agree with you?



You seem to care a lot which is why you felt the need to start a thread about it and why you're not letting this go. I'm "fascinated" at why you're so emotionally invested in VB.

The general consensus on VB is she's a passive aggressive, condescending a$$hole who harps on things simply to hear herself talk. She's repetitive and redundant and NEVER listens to the answers anyone gives her. She's blown through countless screen names, caused endless drama, has been kicked off multiple times and has had weird obsessions with a few posters on here. That's exactly why many have little to no tolerance for her.

Perhaps you can move on with your day now? Chat Icon



Hmmm - I never asked what the consensus is on VB yet here you go again, offering your opinion. I'm not curious about what makes her tick, she's pretty transparent. It's you that peaks my interest a little more. I really do find you fascinating - pretending not to care about her but replying to every single post. Seems odd, but maybe you consider yourself the LIF Police? Or perhaps you just like to argue. If I had to guess, you've probably alienated a bunch of friends and family with your aggressive, argumentative nature.



You really need a life. I'm actually embarrassed for you that you not only started this thread but that you keep going. Sad.

But feel free to keep at it, I'm enjoying the laughs. People who obsess over public forums and strangers are funny. Chat Icon Chat Icon



Is this NOT calling the kettle black? Wow.

Posted 6/16/21 8:28 AM
 

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I think there is a personality disorder, or maybe on the spectrum possibilities. It's hard when you see things through a neurotypical lens to stop yourself from trying to rebalance the toxic nature of some of the posts. I wish I could play that game too to rebalance the forum to one where we're all thinking along the same lines, but I can't. I want to say the same things, but I stop myself because I'm trying to see it through the lens of neurodiversity. It's hard not to say anything to some of these very different perspectives, so when I see it happening, I can totally understand.
it doesn't make it wrong or right - it just is. We are communicating. We all do it a little differently.
Some, way different.

Posted 6/16/21 8:28 AM
 

windyweather21
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Re: Post topics

Posted by KateBennetReel

I think there is a personality disorder, or maybe on the spectrum possibilities. It's hard when you see things through a neurotypical lens to stop yourself from trying to rebalance the toxic nature of some of the posts. I wish I could play that game too to rebalance the forum to one where we're all thinking along the same lines, but I can't. I want to say the same things, but I stop myself because I'm trying to see it through the lens of neurodiversity. It's hard not to say anything to some of these very different perspectives, so when I see it happening, I can totally understand.
it doesn't make it wrong or right - it just is. We are communicating. We all do it a little differently.
Some, way different.



Some have not grown up since middle school and don’t get that people will have differing ideas and our way of dealing with that is not cursing and calling them names and telling them to move on.
It’s like many think the world revolves around them and maybe it does in their real life as no one has ever set boundaries for them.

Posted 6/16/21 9:04 AM
 

chilltocam
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Re: Post topics

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by chilltocam

Yup, I'm just an a$$hole hiding behind a screen. You got it, that's me Chat Icon

Or maybe when the same person continues to post over and over and over again about the same thing and ask the same questions, rfuses to believe any answers, and insists that everyone must agree with her or they are wrong, voicing an opinion (*gasp* that is DIFFERENT from that of the OP) is a very appropriate response



You can’t just ignore them? Not interact? I pass by many posts because I am just not interested or it might annoy me but there is really no need to contribute to something and then have the nerve to complain about it.



If you had any clue how many times I refrain from responding to your inane posts and responses, you'd realize that I do ignore you as much as I can. But some of your posts are so outrageous that they require a response.

Not to mention, if you are free to post ALL THE FRIGGIN time about whatever you want (covid, masks, vaccines, covid, masks, vaccines, covid, masks, vaccines - repeat, repeat, repeat), I am more than free to respond any way I want.

Posted 6/16/21 9:40 AM
 

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Re: Post topics

Posted by chilltocam

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by chilltocam

Yup, I'm just an a$$hole hiding behind a screen. You got it, that's me Chat Icon

Or maybe when the same person continues to post over and over and over again about the same thing and ask the same questions, rfuses to believe any answers, and insists that everyone must agree with her or they are wrong, voicing an opinion (*gasp* that is DIFFERENT from that of the OP) is a very appropriate response



You can’t just ignore them? Not interact? I pass by many posts because I am just not interested or it might annoy me but there is really no need to contribute to something and then have the nerve to complain about it.



If you had any clue how many times I refrain from responding to your inane posts and responses, you'd realize that I do ignore you as much as I can. But some of your posts are so outrageous that they require a response.

Not to mention, if you are free to post ALL THE FRIGGIN time about whatever you want (covid, masks, vaccines, covid, masks, vaccines, covid, masks, vaccines - repeat, repeat, repeat), I am more than free to respond any way I want.



Yes of course you are free to respond but for one particular poster her constant response is along the lines of "why are you posting this? no one cares?" and then she goes on to continue to respond and berate the poster. Why not just move on? Everyone can post whatever they want but if I were bothered by one poster in particular that much, I probably would just pass over those posts. It's just intriguing what makes someone keep going back to certain posts and responding over and over.

Posted 6/16/21 10:30 AM
 

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Re: Post topics

Posted by lululu

Posted by Hofstra26

You really need a life. I'm actually embarrassed for you that you not only started this thread but that you keep going. Sad.

But feel free to keep at it, I'm enjoying the laughs. People who obsess over public forums and strangers are funny. Chat Icon Chat Icon



Sweetie, as you said, this is only a chat board! It's not real life! Why on earth would you possibly waste energy being embarrassed for someone in the fake world that is LIF?



Lululu, it obviously gets her panties in a twist and is totally obsessed. I imagine her waiting on posts by Windy or anyone she don't like and jumping on it like a crazed maniac. Probably has lifamilies open all the time on her computer... just sitting there waiting to start slamming on her keyboard like a 13 year old. I would love to meet Hofstra in person to see if shes as much of a douche in real life.

Posted 6/16/21 11:09 AM
 

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Re: Post topics

Posted by chilltocam

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by chilltocam

Yup, I'm just an a$$hole hiding behind a screen. You got it, that's me Chat Icon

Or maybe when the same person continues to post over and over and over again about the same thing and ask the same questions, rfuses to believe any answers, and insists that everyone must agree with her or they are wrong, voicing an opinion (*gasp* that is DIFFERENT from that of the OP) is a very appropriate response



You can’t just ignore them? Not interact? I pass by many posts because I am just not interested or it might annoy me but there is really no need to contribute to something and then have the nerve to complain about it.



If you had any clue how many times I refrain from responding to your inane posts and responses, you'd realize that I do ignore you as much as I can. But some of your posts are so outrageous that they require a response.

Not to mention, if you are free to post ALL THE FRIGGIN time about whatever you want (covid, masks, vaccines, covid, masks, vaccines, covid, masks, vaccines - repeat, repeat, repeat), I am more than free to respond any way I want.



So why do you feel the need? Do you jump into every conversation that annoys you IRL? Do you have no self control to walk away?
It all makes no sense.

Posted 6/16/21 11:37 AM
 

chilltocam
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Re: Post topics

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by chilltocam

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by chilltocam

Yup, I'm just an a$$hole hiding behind a screen. You got it, that's me Chat Icon

Or maybe when the same person continues to post over and over and over again about the same thing and ask the same questions, rfuses to believe any answers, and insists that everyone must agree with her or they are wrong, voicing an opinion (*gasp* that is DIFFERENT from that of the OP) is a very appropriate response



You can’t just ignore them? Not interact? I pass by many posts because I am just not interested or it might annoy me but there is really no need to contribute to something and then have the nerve to complain about it.



If you had any clue how many times I refrain from responding to your inane posts and responses, you'd realize that I do ignore you as much as I can. But some of your posts are so outrageous that they require a response.

Not to mention, if you are free to post ALL THE FRIGGIN time about whatever you want (covid, masks, vaccines, covid, masks, vaccines, covid, masks, vaccines - repeat, repeat, repeat), I am more than free to respond any way I want.



So why do you feel the need? Do you jump into every conversation that annoys you IRL? Do you have no self control to walk away?
It all makes no sense.



Self-control??? OMG! When have you ever passed up the opportunity to respond to a post??? You are hysterical! when I see you post completely wrong and/or dangerous information, I feel the need to respond. And yes, sometimes even when you just post something that is utterly (that's the correct spelling, not udderly, like on a cow) ridiculous, I CHOOSE to respond. And guess what - I can respond to any post I want to, in any way I want to. Sorry, not sorry if you don't like it. And if what is on this board is RL, I can't imagine anyone being able to deal with you, so don't even go there. You really need to take a look in the mirror

Posted 6/16/21 12:12 PM
 

windyweather21
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Re: Post topics

Posted by chilltocam

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by chilltocam

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by chilltocam

Yup, I'm just an a$$hole hiding behind a screen. You got it, that's me Chat Icon

Or maybe when the same person continues to post over and over and over again about the same thing and ask the same questions, rfuses to believe any answers, and insists that everyone must agree with her or they are wrong, voicing an opinion (*gasp* that is DIFFERENT from that of the OP) is a very appropriate response



You can’t just ignore them? Not interact? I pass by many posts because I am just not interested or it might annoy me but there is really no need to contribute to something and then have the nerve to complain about it.



If you had any clue how many times I refrain from responding to your inane posts and responses, you'd realize that I do ignore you as much as I can. But some of your posts are so outrageous that they require a response.

Not to mention, if you are free to post ALL THE FRIGGIN time about whatever you want (covid, masks, vaccines, covid, masks, vaccines, covid, masks, vaccines - repeat, repeat, repeat), I am more than free to respond any way I want.



So why do you feel the need? Do you jump into every conversation that annoys you IRL? Do you have no self control to walk away?
It all makes no sense.



Self-control??? OMG! When have you ever passed up the opportunity to respond to a post??? You are hysterical! when I see you post completely wrong and/or dangerous information, I feel the need to respond. And yes, sometimes even when you just post something that is utterly (that's the correct spelling, not udderly, like on a cow) ridiculous, I CHOOSE to respond. And guess what - I can respond to any post I want to, in any way I want to. Sorry, not sorry if you don't like it. And if what is on this board is RL, I can't imagine anyone being able to deal with you, so don't even go there. You really need to take a look in the mirror



If you notice, I don’t post to every thread as I am not interested and maybe some annoy me too but I don’t go on them and say nobody cares, go away. Do you realize how immature it is? Hofstra seems to be the same way IRL so this is not just because I annoy her.

I do pretty well in life actually with a long marriage and many friends so I don’t think I am the problem, but thanks for trying to point that out.

Posted 6/16/21 12:27 PM
 

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Re: Post topics

Posted by chilltocam

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by chilltocam

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by chilltocam

Yup, I'm just an a$$hole hiding behind a screen. You got it, that's me Chat Icon

Or maybe when the same person continues to post over and over and over again about the same thing and ask the same questions, rfuses to believe any answers, and insists that everyone must agree with her or they are wrong, voicing an opinion (*gasp* that is DIFFERENT from that of the OP) is a very appropriate response



You can’t just ignore them? Not interact? I pass by many posts because I am just not interested or it might annoy me but there is really no need to contribute to something and then have the nerve to complain about it.



If you had any clue how many times I refrain from responding to your inane posts and responses, you'd realize that I do ignore you as much as I can. But some of your posts are so outrageous that they require a response.

Not to mention, if you are free to post ALL THE FRIGGIN time about whatever you want (covid, masks, vaccines, covid, masks, vaccines, covid, masks, vaccines - repeat, repeat, repeat), I am more than free to respond any way I want.



So why do you feel the need? Do you jump into every conversation that annoys you IRL? Do you have no self control to walk away?
It all makes no sense.



Self-control??? OMG! When have you ever passed up the opportunity to respond to a post??? You are hysterical! when I see you post completely wrong and/or dangerous information, I feel the need to respond. And yes, sometimes even when you just post something that is utterly (that's the correct spelling, not udderly, like on a cow) ridiculous, I CHOOSE to respond. And guess what - I can respond to any post I want to, in any way I want to. Sorry, not sorry if you don't like it. And if what is on this board is RL, I can't imagine anyone being able to deal with you, so don't even go there. You really need to take a look in the mirror



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She has so much self control that she's been kicked off this forum and has had to change her name countless times. LOLOLOL

Posted 6/16/21 12:36 PM
 

windyweather21
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Re: Post topics

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by chilltocam

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by chilltocam

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by chilltocam

Yup, I'm just an a$$hole hiding behind a screen. You got it, that's me Chat Icon

Or maybe when the same person continues to post over and over and over again about the same thing and ask the same questions, rfuses to believe any answers, and insists that everyone must agree with her or they are wrong, voicing an opinion (*gasp* that is DIFFERENT from that of the OP) is a very appropriate response



You can’t just ignore them? Not interact? I pass by many posts because I am just not interested or it might annoy me but there is really no need to contribute to something and then have the nerve to complain about it.



If you had any clue how many times I refrain from responding to your inane posts and responses, you'd realize that I do ignore you as much as I can. But some of your posts are so outrageous that they require a response.

Not to mention, if you are free to post ALL THE FRIGGIN time about whatever you want (covid, masks, vaccines, covid, masks, vaccines, covid, masks, vaccines - repeat, repeat, repeat), I am more than free to respond any way I want.



So why do you feel the need? Do you jump into every conversation that annoys you IRL? Do you have no self control to walk away?
It all makes no sense.



Self-control??? OMG! When have you ever passed up the opportunity to respond to a post??? You are hysterical! when I see you post completely wrong and/or dangerous information, I feel the need to respond. And yes, sometimes even when you just post something that is utterly (that's the correct spelling, not udderly, like on a cow) ridiculous, I CHOOSE to respond. And guess what - I can respond to any post I want to, in any way I want to. Sorry, not sorry if you don't like it. And if what is on this board is RL, I can't imagine anyone being able to deal with you, so don't even go there. You really need to take a look in the mirror



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She has so much self control that she's been kicked off this forum and has had to change her name countless times. LOLOLOL



You should have been kicked off a long time ago but it seems you just run every time someone bothers you as posters don’t get kicked off without someone contacting someone.

Posted 6/16/21 12:39 PM
 

Hofstra26
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Re: Post topics

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by chilltocam

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by chilltocam

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by chilltocam

Yup, I'm just an a$$hole hiding behind a screen. You got it, that's me Chat Icon

Or maybe when the same person continues to post over and over and over again about the same thing and ask the same questions, rfuses to believe any answers, and insists that everyone must agree with her or they are wrong, voicing an opinion (*gasp* that is DIFFERENT from that of the OP) is a very appropriate response



You can’t just ignore them? Not interact? I pass by many posts because I am just not interested or it might annoy me but there is really no need to contribute to something and then have the nerve to complain about it.



If you had any clue how many times I refrain from responding to your inane posts and responses, you'd realize that I do ignore you as much as I can. But some of your posts are so outrageous that they require a response.

Not to mention, if you are free to post ALL THE FRIGGIN time about whatever you want (covid, masks, vaccines, covid, masks, vaccines, covid, masks, vaccines - repeat, repeat, repeat), I am more than free to respond any way I want.



So why do you feel the need? Do you jump into every conversation that annoys you IRL? Do you have no self control to walk away?
It all makes no sense.



Self-control??? OMG! When have you ever passed up the opportunity to respond to a post??? You are hysterical! when I see you post completely wrong and/or dangerous information, I feel the need to respond. And yes, sometimes even when you just post something that is utterly (that's the correct spelling, not udderly, like on a cow) ridiculous, I CHOOSE to respond. And guess what - I can respond to any post I want to, in any way I want to. Sorry, not sorry if you don't like it. And if what is on this board is RL, I can't imagine anyone being able to deal with you, so don't even go there. You really need to take a look in the mirror



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She has so much self control that she's been kicked off this forum and has had to change her name countless times. LOLOLOL



You should have been kicked off a long time ago but it seems you just run every time someone bothers you as posters don’t get kicked off without someone contacting someone.



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You're literally the ONLY one who has been kicked off and had to create new profiles. Maybe ask yourself why. I'm certainly not your problem, you have your own issues.

Message edited 6/16/2021 12:43:32 PM.

Posted 6/16/21 12:42 PM
 

windyweather21
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Re: Post topics

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by chilltocam

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by chilltocam

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by chilltocam

Yup, I'm just an a$$hole hiding behind a screen. You got it, that's me Chat Icon

Or maybe when the same person continues to post over and over and over again about the same thing and ask the same questions, rfuses to believe any answers, and insists that everyone must agree with her or they are wrong, voicing an opinion (*gasp* that is DIFFERENT from that of the OP) is a very appropriate response



You can’t just ignore them? Not interact? I pass by many posts because I am just not interested or it might annoy me but there is really no need to contribute to something and then have the nerve to complain about it.



If you had any clue how many times I refrain from responding to your inane posts and responses, you'd realize that I do ignore you as much as I can. But some of your posts are so outrageous that they require a response.

Not to mention, if you are free to post ALL THE FRIGGIN time about whatever you want (covid, masks, vaccines, covid, masks, vaccines, covid, masks, vaccines - repeat, repeat, repeat), I am more than free to respond any way I want.



So why do you feel the need? Do you jump into every conversation that annoys you IRL? Do you have no self control to walk away?
It all makes no sense.



Self-control??? OMG! When have you ever passed up the opportunity to respond to a post??? You are hysterical! when I see you post completely wrong and/or dangerous information, I feel the need to respond. And yes, sometimes even when you just post something that is utterly (that's the correct spelling, not udderly, like on a cow) ridiculous, I CHOOSE to respond. And guess what - I can respond to any post I want to, in any way I want to. Sorry, not sorry if you don't like it. And if what is on this board is RL, I can't imagine anyone being able to deal with you, so don't even go there. You really need to take a look in the mirror



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She has so much self control that she's been kicked off this forum and has had to change her name countless times. LOLOLOL



You should have been kicked off a long time ago but it seems you just run every time someone bothers you as posters don’t get kicked off without someone contacting someone.



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You're literally the ONLY one who has been kicked off and had to create new profiles. Maybe ask yourself why. I'm certainly not your problem, you have your own issues.



You do realize this is not true whatsoever, right? I know many who have. You just don’t realize they are kicked off. Just like everyone kept telling me I just “forgot” my password and I could still use my old name. Same with other posters.

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