Question about CM, sorry too much info

Today is CD11 for me and last night DH and I bd'ed. I just noticed, (sorry for sharing TMI) but some clear/whitish stretchy CM kind of like EWCM.



UPDATE: I just noticed even more which looks exactly like the EWCM I see during O. Let's say I am O, does that mean I am at the moment? How often should we bd? I am thinking tonight and every other night afterwards until the 17th.

Like sfp0701 mentioned it could be sperm but would it be 24 hours later?


I didn't have morning CM, this just happened tonight. Oh well, we will bd anyway, it won't hurt

Message edited 9/12/2007 8:41:28 PM.

Re: Question about CM, sorry too much info

it could be both. I read that people often mistake sperm for EWCM. If you bd at night the sperm in the am can be confused for EWCM

Re: Question about CM, sorry too much info

Message edited 9/12/2007 8:40:56 PM.

Re: Question about CM, sorry too much info

doesn't hurt to BD!!!!!

Re: Question about CM, sorry too much info

Now that you still see it I would say it is probaby EWCM. I haven't found anything conclusive about when exactly you O based on EWCM. It could be when you see it and it could be the next day. Go BD!!!! Good Luck!

Re: Question about CM, sorry too much info

I could seriously cry right now. It's like this just isn't meant to be for me. Last night DH and I agreed we would bd when he was done with his work (he works on a report every Wednesday night for work and it has to be completed by Thursday mornings) well, of course out of all nights I may have O last night. So we decided once he is done he would wake me up. This morning he said he tried but I was out cold so he just went to bed.

We did bd the night before and definitely plan to tonight but I feel like I may have missed my chance.

I am sorry girls for some reason it seems to get harder and harder each month.

Is this normal? Do you take it this seriously as well or am I just losing my mind?

Re: Question about CM, sorry too much info

Ok Relax! Sperm can live for 3 days. Do it tonight. It could be that you are O today. What is your CM like now?

I know this is hard. That is why I am soo not stressing this month. I am checking the boards but mostly to see how everyone is doing. You have to just push all thoughts out of your head. It is hard but you can do it.

I too have the same situation. We bded friday morning. Then that night I thought we were O ( I saw EWCM) but we were so tired from fllying all night, and then meeting up with friends in ATL and whatnot. We tried to BD but it just didn't happen if you know what I mean. THe next morning we slept late and had to run to the wedding and didn't have time to BD. That night...well lets just say we both got a little tipsy. we planned on Bding anyway and we both passed out before we were even laying down..lol

So in conclusion... lol.. this IS hard but you do have to relax.. I know you want to hit me because I wanted to hit everyone that said that last month... I thought it was impossible.. but it isn't. You have to try so hard to make peace with it and do things that relax you. watch tv, get a pedicure, get a massage, go out to dinner or make a nice one with DH.. It will happen for all of us.. I don't know when but it will.

Here is some hugs because I know how you feel

Message edited 9/13/2007 9:10:03 AM.

Re: Question about CM, sorry too much info

Posted by sfp0701

Ok Relax! Sperm can live for 3 days. Do it tonight. It could be that you are O today. What is your CM like now?

I know this is hard. That is why I am soo not stressing this month. I am checking the boards but mostly to see how everyone is doing. You have to just push all thoughts out of your head. It is hard but you can do it.

I too have the same situation. We bded friday morning. Then that night I thought we were O ( I saw EWCM) but we were so tired from fllying all night, and then meeting up with friends in ATL and whatnot. We tried to BD but it just didn't happen if you know what I mean. THe next morning we slept late and had to run to the wedding and didn't have time to BD. That night...well lets just say we both got a little tipsy. we planned on Bding anyway and we both passed out before we were even laying down..lol

So in conclusion... lol.. this IS hard but you do have to relax.. I know you want to hit me because I wanted to hit everyone that said that last month... I thought it was impossible.. but it isn't. You have to try so hard to make peace with it and do things that relax you. watch tv, get a pedicure, get a massage, go out to dinner or make a nice one with DH.. It will happen for all of us.. I don't know when but it will.

Here is some hugs because I know how you feel

Message edited 9/13/2007 9:37:24 AM.

Re: Question about CM, sorry too much info

Wet CM can also be fertile, so don't lose hope. I know how hard it is too, when everyone around you seems pg and you aren't yet (I work in a high school and we have so many pg girls. It makes me so upset to see). DH and I have been trying for what feels like a long while now, and nothing yet. And some times the very same thing happened to me where DH had to work late and we missed a chance to BD. It stinks. But I agree with the advice to relax, it can only help.

Have faith, I believe it will happen for ALL of us girls.

Re: Question about CM, sorry too much info

Posted by Chai77

Wet CM can also be fertile, so don't lose hope. I know how hard it is too, when everyone around you seems pg and you aren't yet (I work in a high school and we have so many pg girls. It makes me so upset to see). DH and I have been trying for what feels like a long while now, and nothing yet. And some times the very same thing happened to me where DH had to work late and we missed a chance to BD. It stinks. But I agree with the advice to relax, it can only help.

Have faith, I believe it will happen for ALL of us girls.