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bettybcafe
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Renting and telling the landlord..
Sorry if this is a stupid question We rent an upstairs apartment in a two story house. The bottom floor belongs to my landlords mother. Is it mandatory to tell your landlord once you're pregnant? Like, I know a lease has to include everyone who is living in the apartment...but do they need to know when you're pregnant or after the baby is born? Just curious...
Message edited 9/16/2010 5:10:22 PM.
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Posted 9/16/10 5:09 PM |
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WhitneyL
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Re: Renting and telling the landlord..
I'm not sure if the same rules apply since you are in a house, but we had DS while we lived in an apartment complex and we didn't tell them.
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Posted 9/16/10 6:30 PM |
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wants-2-b-a-mommy
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Re: Renting and telling the landlord..
i wouldn't think it would matter until they are a bit older.
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Posted 9/16/10 7:59 PM |
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BabyFactory
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Re: Renting and telling the landlord..
Why would you need to tell them anything at all.
Even if you were going to rent a new apartment, they aren't allowed to discriminate against people w/ children. Of course they wouldn't tell you that children are the reason they won't rent to you, but still.
It's like when an apartment listing says "suitable for 2" when it's a 2 BR. It usually means they prefer people without kids. If they came out and said "no kids", it's discrimination.
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Posted 9/16/10 10:34 PM |
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bettybcafe
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Re: Renting and telling the landlord..
Posted by BabyFactory
Why would you need to tell them anything at all.
Even if you were going to rent a new apartment, they aren't allowed to discriminate against people w/ children. Of course they wouldn't tell you that children are the reason they won't rent to you, but still.
It's like when an apartment listing says "suitable for 2" when it's a 2 BR. It usually means they prefer people without kids. If they came out and said "no kids", it's discrimination.
I just thought you would have to tell the landlord because the rent might need to be adjusted since now theres an extra person living in the apartment. I dont know, maybe Im over thinking this I tend to do that a lot and Im not even TTC yet I dont think my landlord would discriminate..I was just curiuos on what the protocol would be.
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Posted 9/17/10 12:02 AM |
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BabyFactory
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Re: Renting and telling the landlord..
Posted by bettybcafe
I just thought you would have to tell the landlord because the rent might need to be adjusted since now theres an extra person living in the apartment. I dont know, maybe Im over thinking this I tend to do that a lot and Im not even TTC yet I dont think my landlord would discriminate..I was just curiuos on what the protocol would be.
I do that too. We aren't TTC yet either, but I still look around the bedroom of my apartment and re-arrange furniture in my head to make room for baby stuff.
I also pick out baby bedding online everytime a pregnant friend of mine shows me what they picked out.
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Posted 9/17/10 8:03 AM |
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My4GirlsMyLife
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Re: Renting and telling the landlord..
When I lived in a complex I learned that we were only allowed to have 2 in a 1 br 3 ppl in a 2 br and 4 ppl in a 3 br. IDK if it is a NY law ,but I don't see why they need to know .
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Posted 9/17/10 9:16 AM |
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AngnShaun
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Re: Renting and telling the landlord..
I wouldnt tell them... i worked in property managemend for 5 years ...
do you have an actual lease? or rental agreement?
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Posted 9/17/10 9:44 AM |
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BabyHopes15
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Re: Renting and telling the landlord..
It depends if you like where you are living and intend to live there for a little while. I'm all about not burning any bridges. Maybe as a common curtesy when you're far along in your pregnancy you could tell them. Until then, tell her not to mind the sounds of the !
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Posted 9/17/10 9:54 AM |
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bettybcafe
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Re: Renting and telling the landlord..
Posted by BabyFactory
Posted by bettybcafe
I just thought you would have to tell the landlord because the rent might need to be adjusted since now theres an extra person living in the apartment. I dont know, maybe Im over thinking this I tend to do that a lot and Im not even TTC yet I dont think my landlord would discriminate..I was just curiuos on what the protocol would be.
I do that too. We aren't TTC yet either, but I still look around the bedroom of my apartment and re-arrange furniture in my head to make room for baby stuff.
I also pick out baby bedding online everytime a pregnant friend of mine shows me what they picked out.
OMG! I was doing this yesterday with DH. I was like, "Ok, we'll put the crib over there and I want to keep the queen size bed in the room just in case my mom has to stay over" The crazy thing is that DH was all into the coversation!
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Posted 9/17/10 7:16 PM |
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bettybcafe
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Re: Renting and telling the landlord..
Posted by BabyHopes15
It depends if you like where you are living and intend to live there for a little while. I'm all about not burning any bridges. Maybe as a common curtesy when you're far along in your pregnancy you could tell them. Until then, tell her not to mind the sounds of the !
Fortunatly our bedroom is over her living room..so at night when we shes sleeping...
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Posted 9/17/10 7:16 PM |
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meli722
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Re: Renting and telling the landlord..
i think it depends on what it says in your lease agreement. i dont think you have to tell them you are expecting, just have to add your newborn to the leave when you give birth, this is how it works where i live. within 30 days of giving birth, you have to provide them with the childs BC so they can add them
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Posted 9/18/10 1:30 PM |
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