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Redhead
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Scam or Jam

So i was at the supermarket
As i was leaving a girl (young looking) came up to me and told me how she was a Stonybrook student and was driving her car when it ran out of gas...

Her car was on Commack Rd (not far but yet there is a gas station right at the corner from where we were). SHe said her friend was coming to pick her up but would it be possible to lend her some money to pay for the gas...

Since i have been in the situation myself i gave her some money...

As i drove off i was thinking about the good deed yet i thought....if her friend was coming to pick her up...she couldn't loan her a few bucks to get some gas?

Why was she at the supermarket and not by a gas station or her car?

So then i started thinking....was this a scam?

What do you think?

Posted 3/12/06 1:19 PM
 
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mrswask
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Re: Scam or Jam

Definitely sounds like a scamChat Icon - that's what you get for doing a good deed - nasty people who prey on the goodness of others!Chat Icon

Posted 3/12/06 1:23 PM
 

twobabies
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Re: Scam or Jam

who knows if it was a scam or not, just think if she really did need gas, you did a really nice deed.Chat Icon

Posted 3/12/06 1:24 PM
 

KangaMom
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Re: Scam or Jam

Hard to say but you did a nice thing anyway and what goes around comes around Chat Icon

Posted 3/12/06 1:26 PM
 

MissJones
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Re: Scam or Jam

Sounds scam-ish, but when you're in those situations, you don't always think clearly. Either way, good karma for you! Chat Icon

Posted 3/12/06 1:31 PM
 

Marcie
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Re: Scam or Jam

That is a toss up - I think it was probably a scam Chat Icon

Posted 3/12/06 1:34 PM
 

suvenR
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Re: Scam or Jam

It's hard to tell. DH and I were approached in a mall parking lot once. It was a guy in his late teens/early 20s saying that his car broke down and he just needed a dollar to get on the bus.

I gave it to him because I was afraid. It was dark, we were alone, etc.

ANYWHO, as we were driving away, he actually DID get on the bus! So, even though I was 100% convinced that he was up to no-good, he really wasn't.

So, ya never know...

Posted 3/12/06 1:37 PM
 

ssbride05
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Re: Scam or Jam

Posted by MicheleMaBelle

Hard to say but you did a nice thing anyway and what goes around comes around Chat Icon




I agree Chat Icon

Posted 3/12/06 1:43 PM
 

Redhead
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Re: Scam or Jam

thanks....i am leaning towards it being a scam tooChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/12/06 1:48 PM
 

Shanti
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Re: Scam or Jam

Posted by Redhead

thanks....i am leaning towards it being a scam tooChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



Even so, you behaved with the best of intentions so kudos to you!

Posted 3/12/06 1:49 PM
 

Redhead
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Re: Scam or Jam

Posted by DMcK

Posted by Redhead

thanks....i am leaning towards it being a scam tooChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



Even so, you behaved with the best of intentions so kudos to you!


yea true....

i actually had it happened to me and a stranger helped me out...

So i felt that it was my way of paying that back to someone else who was in need...

and although i know what i did was good, it still bothers me now

Posted 3/12/06 1:50 PM
 

lvdolphins
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Re: Scam or Jam

I was approached around Christmas time in Stop & Shop parking lot by an older man with the same story.
He goes my car is down there (and pointed over to Jericho Tpk) and I didnt give him anything..I just didnt trust the situation.
If your car is on Jericho TPk (gas stations around), why come to the supermarket?
I dont know.
It does sound like a scam, but if its not, Kudos to you for doing a good thing, and shame on me for not trusting the situationChat Icon

Posted 3/12/06 2:01 PM
 

Shorty
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Re: Scam or Jam

If she was desperate/ballsy enough to ask for it, she probably really needed it...for something....maybe not gas, but something.

Posted 3/12/06 2:15 PM
 

saraH
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Re: Scam or Jam

could have been a scam, but for $5 or $10, it really could have been looking for gas $$. good for you for helping her out though

Posted 3/12/06 3:05 PM
 

missus-hbradio
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Re: Scam or Jam

Hmmm it could have been a scam....but just incase it wasnt good for you on covering your karma!

Posted 3/12/06 3:09 PM
 

dottiemchugh
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Re: Scam or Jam

I think scam but I would have done exactly what you did.

Posted 3/12/06 3:44 PM
 

Redhead
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Re: Scam or Jam

thanks everyone..

i think i am just going to let myself think i helped someone...

works for me Chat Icon

Posted 3/12/06 4:28 PM
 
 

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