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Scary situation for my family tommorow...( long, sorry)

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dm24angel
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Scary situation for my family tommorow...( long, sorry)

I know I have asked for many prayers lately, Must be a bad year Chat Icon But Im asking again....

My Aunt married a very sick man 11 years ago. She has lived with SEVERE mental abuse now for a long time.

We are not 100% sure what his problem is, but its apparent he suffers from mental illness of one form or another....or many forms...

He is ADDICTED to my aunt, and acts like a child a LOT...He is 100% not all there mentally...

For example...he once picked up a stick to hit my Mom with when our house burnt down because he refused to allow my aunt to drive us to a motel because we might Smell up the car like smoke Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Another time my mom asked him in a snow storm to take his shoes off when he came in her house( on her Birthday) and he called her a F-ing ***** while throwing the Birthday cake and her and threated my Uncle who had just had a heart attack..We had to call the police on this instance...

At said Uncles Funeral in April in front of 50 people he said to my aunt loudly" Why do you care, your families a bunch of C U N *S! And Said, your Brother died because he didnt care about himself, serves you all right...and he made at least 10 scenes thereafter ..

At my daughters funeral he cursed us all out at the gravesite because we didnt want to go to a diner afterwards..

They are not allowed to have internet because he fears people ( who???) will find him or steal his identity...

His typical actions are disconnecting the phone while me or my mom ( her ONLY family) are talking to her and wondering afterwards if shes ok or he lost it on her

This is getting long Im sorry, but My aunt finally found after her brothers death, the strength to leave him. She has advised the police of all recent incidents, and She is dropping him at the train station tommorow ( he takes the train to BK for work) and having the movers come an hour later and has an apt set up....wrote him a letter and is just leaving......He has no idea, and he is going to flip.

We are not sure if he will try to kill himself or her or my mom, whom he hates, as he has threated to do all of the above MANY times...

My aunt and my Mom are terrified and I can do nothing but pray that this goes smoothly and please if anyone has time , pray for them as well.

We think he will have a breakdown and hopefully end up in the hospital...Hes come close before....

Pray for the best ...please...

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Message edited 9/29/2005 9:04:51 PM.

Posted 9/29/05 8:54 PM
 
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Re: Scary situation for my family tommorow...( long, sorry)

I am so sorry that you and your family have to deal with someone like this.

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Posted 9/29/05 8:59 PM
 

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Oh my gosh Donna!! I will pray for the safety of your family!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/29/05 9:02 PM
 

FeliciaDP

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Re: Scary situation for my family tommorow...( long, sorry)

Oh my goodness Donna, what a horribly sad and tragic situation Chat Icon

I am so sorry that your aunt has had to endure this abuse all these years... and I'm sorry you and your Mom has been affected by it so much as well.. but I am so glad to hear yoru Aunt is leaving , as scary as that is, and hopefully will get her life back on track.. she deserves that much

I know the next few days are going to be awfully upsetting/scary and all those other things combined ...but I pray for you all and hope that this situation is resolved in a calm and peaceful fashion

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Posted 9/29/05 9:06 PM
 

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Re: Scary situation for my family tommorow...( long, sorry)

Donna, my prayers are with your family, especially your Aunt. She is very courageous and brave to be making this break, for her own safety and sanity. I hope she doesn't back pedal when the hysterics start in...so I'll give extra prayers for her to be strong and stand up to himChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/29/05 9:08 PM
 

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Posted 9/29/05 9:14 PM
 

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Posted 9/29/05 9:17 PM
 

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Posted 9/29/05 9:54 PM
 

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That is so scary!!!!!!!!!!!!! I hope your family is safe!!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/29/05 10:12 PM
 

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Posted 9/29/05 10:23 PM
 

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Re: Scary situation for my family tommorow...( long, sorry)

OMG Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon -- I will certainly be praying for your family's safety!!! You guys should have a plan in place to watch out for each other (cell phones, meeting place, whatever) while this happens tomorrow and in the weeks following. This is really scary!!!

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Posted 9/29/05 10:33 PM
 

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Posted 9/29/05 11:31 PM
 

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Posted 9/30/05 6:47 AM
 

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Posted 9/30/05 7:06 AM
 

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Re: Scary situation for my family tommorow...( long, sorry)

I pray for your aunt and family.

Mental illness is so hard to deal with. ( my mom is mentally ill- )

I hope that he gets the help he needs and leaves all of you alone.

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Posted 9/30/05 7:56 AM
 

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Re: Scary situation for my family tommorow...( long, sorry)

You have my prayers. It is a terrible situation that your aunt and family are in. You aunt is amazing to have finally gathered up the strength to leave. Definitely have the police on notice. While she is still his wife, she may want to try to have him locked up in a mental institution, but I don't know anything about how you do that.

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Posted 9/30/05 8:05 AM
 

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Re: Scary situation for my family tommorow...( long, sorry)

Holy Cr@p Donna.....

I Chat Icon that this mand doesn't come after your aunt at her job or hunt her down to try to hurt her. May you and your family be the support system she needs!

Good for her to find the strength to leave a man that is not good for her. No man is worth that abuse.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/30/05 8:54 AM
 

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Re: Scary situation for my family tommorow...( long, sorry)

Donna:
OMG I am terrified just reading your story your poor aunt and family. You & your mom better be so careful because judging from the situation he is going to think she (your aunt) will run to you guys. This must be so scary for you & your family my prays are with you. I hope the police are understanding to the situation and can assist your family in case a problem occurs. This guy is not just going to disappear! Good Luck. Chat Icon Chat Icon
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Posted 9/30/05 8:59 AM
 

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Oh my God! I am so sorry to hear this! You and your family are in my prayers and I hope everything works out for the best. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/30/05 9:15 AM
 

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I am sorry to hear about this terrible situation. I hope things work out for the best.
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Posted 9/30/05 10:04 AM
 

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I pray everything works for aunt and your family.

Posted 9/30/05 11:07 AM
 

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Re: Scary situation for my family tommorow...( long, sorry)

OMG I am so sorry your aunt and family had to endure all this I hope everything works out for your family and that your uncle doesn't do anything drastic to anyone in the family


Can your family get a restraining or der agains him?

Please keep us posted on this situation.

Posted 9/30/05 11:15 AM
 

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Posted 9/30/05 2:32 PM
 

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Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon for your aunt, your mom, and you....and the rest of your family!

Posted 9/30/05 2:46 PM
 

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Donna! I am so sorry your family is going through this- your aunt is a STRONG woman for leaving!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/30/05 2:54 PM
 
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