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Sensitive issue re rape--this time not a stranger (for us)

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sometimesmommy
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Sensitive issue re rape--this time not a stranger (for us)

Hey ladies,
Just wanted to say hi and that I miss you.I come on but not as much as before....Alot has happened but the issue that has impacted the most happened to one of DH's family members....

One of his cousins in Jamaica had their two year old daughter raped. She was playing with her siblings and other kids and this guy who knew her lured her away and by the time the kids ran to get an adult and they found her it was too late, he had defiled that poor baby. When he heard the commotion he jumped off her and took off running but some adults caught him and BEAT HIS A$$. although he was caught in the act--legally its GREAT. but other news isnt good. She is broken..physically and emotionally. her father wasnt at home--which DH said was good because he would have killed him and ended up in jail not able to give her the care she needs.

Its been hard because everytime we look at DD we think the same thing. it could have been her. This is a guy who EVERYONE knew. Had dinner with. We hung out with him when we went to Jamaica. Shows that you never know the true predators.

When I see little girls so tiny and care free that poor baby flashes in front of my eyes and it wont go away....
Chat Icon One of the reasons I havent checked out anyones pics or even taken new ones...I have to shake this off and try not to keep my girls in a bubble.

ETA: I showed this post to DH. He now understands why I come on hereChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 4/14/2009 8:24:56 AM.

Posted 4/13/09 8:45 AM
 
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I don't know what to say. That is just horrible.

Posted 4/13/09 8:47 AM
 

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Re: Sensitive issue re rape--this time not a stranger (for us)

He should be killed!!!

I am so sorry for this little girl and everyone involved Chat Icon

Posted 4/13/09 8:48 AM
 

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Re: Sensitive issue re rape--this time not a stranger (for us)

Im so sorry.....

I remember reading reports of how predators are chosing victims so young b/c they dont want to run the risk of HIV...

It's so sad.

Posted 4/13/09 8:49 AM
 

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Re: Sensitive issue re rape--this time not a stranger (for us)

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I am so sorry!

The monster should die! She is just a baby.Chat Icon

Posted 4/13/09 8:50 AM
 

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Re: Sensitive issue re rape--this time not a stranger (for us)

Awful.... I'm just sick to my stomach. I'm crying for that poor baby.

I pray that she heals, emotionally and physically, and I pray she can return to a normal childhood. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/13/09 8:51 AM
 

nicrae
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Re: Sensitive issue re rape--this time not a stranger (for us)

People make me sick. What kind of human being does that to a baby?

I am so sorry! Chat Icon

Posted 4/13/09 8:51 AM
 

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May healing come to your family

Posted 4/13/09 8:52 AM
 

jerseypanda
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Re: Sensitive issue re rape--this time not a stranger (for us)

Oh no! That is the most disgusting thing I have ever heard. I hope that man rots in jail and karma comes back to bite him.

I also pray for that little baby, that she may somehow be able to heal and move past this terrible thing. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/13/09 8:52 AM
 

pinkandblue
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Re: Sensitive issue re rape--this time not a stranger (for us)

what a sick son of a *****

who DOES this type of stuff to a baby

that poor child, I hope she can recover from this...ugh, 2 years old? The same age as my sweet baby....Chat Icon

Posted 4/13/09 8:54 AM
 

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Re: Sensitive issue re rape--this time not a stranger (for us)

That is so horrible, my heart breaks for this little girl and your family. I hope that this man goes to jail for a very long time so he can't hurt anyone else. I hope you and your family can begin to heal. My prayers are with you.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/13/09 8:56 AM
 

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Re: Sensitive issue re rape--this time not a stranger (for us)

OMG. That is disgusting. Chat Icon Really, 2 years old?! That is just beyond words. Chat Icon

I am so sorry your family is going through this. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/13/09 8:57 AM
 

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Re: Sensitive issue re rape--this time not a stranger (for us)

OMG this is so horrible. I am so sorry for this little girl.

Posted 4/13/09 8:58 AM
 

sometimesmommy
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Re: Sensitive issue re rape--this time not a stranger (for us)

Posted by MDF

That is so horrible, my heart breaks for this little girl and your family. I hope that this man goes to jail for a very long time so he can't hurt anyone else. I hope you and your family can begin to heal. My prayers are with you.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon


We hope they kill him. I asked God to forgive me.

Posted 4/13/09 8:58 AM
 

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Re: Sensitive issue re rape--this time not a stranger (for us)

i am so very sorry, what a horrific thing to happen to such a sweet, innocent little girl. i am so sorry you and your family are dealing with this Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/13/09 9:00 AM
 

headoverheels
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Re: Sensitive issue re rape--this time not a stranger (for us)

Posted by sometimesmommy

Posted by MDF

That is so horrible, my heart breaks for this little girl and your family. I hope that this man goes to jail for a very long time so he can't hurt anyone else. I hope you and your family can begin to heal. My prayers are with you.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon


We hope they kill him. I asked God to forgive me.



IMO, that seems like a perfectly reasonable thing to wish for.

Posted 4/13/09 9:00 AM
 

jerseypanda
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Re: Sensitive issue re rape--this time not a stranger (for us)

Posted by sometimesmommy

Posted by MDF

That is so horrible, my heart breaks for this little girl and your family. I hope that this man goes to jail for a very long time so he can't hurt anyone else. I hope you and your family can begin to heal. My prayers are with you.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon


We hope they kill him. I asked God to forgive me.



Something tells me that when he is in jail and the other inmates find out what he did... he will probably wish he were dead.

Posted 4/13/09 9:02 AM
 

JenandMikey
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Re: Sensitive issue re rape--this time not a stranger (for us)

i cant stop crying right nowChat Icon i have my own issues with this kind of topic and i hope to God that someone kills him and I mean a painful long drawn out death, God forgive me for saying this, but I mean it with all of my heart


and may this poor poor baby and her family find a normal childhood/life again very soonChat Icon

Posted 4/13/09 9:11 AM
 

Porrruss
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Re: Sensitive issue re rape--this time not a stranger (for us)

My stomach rolled as I read that- and my heart aches. I'm looking at my DD who is almost the same age and I cannot for the life of me IMAGINE the kind of pain your family is dealing with.

My prayers are with your cousin and her beautiful baby girl. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/13/09 9:12 AM
 

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Posted 4/13/09 9:28 AM
 

JennZ
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Re: Sensitive issue re rape--this time not a stranger (for us)

That story is AWFUL! Poor little girl will never be the same.Chat Icon

And he should have his balls put through a grinder.Chat Icon Chat Icon DISGUSTING "Man" and I use MAN very loosely!

Posted 4/13/09 9:33 AM
 

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Re: Sensitive issue re rape--this time not a stranger (for us)

OMG, how horrible. That poor baby!!

Posted 4/13/09 9:36 AM
 

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Posted 4/13/09 9:37 AM
 

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Re: Sensitive issue re rape--this time not a stranger (for us)

OMG This is just horrible! I can just give lots of Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon for the little girl and her family!Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/13/09 9:39 AM
 

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Re: Sensitive issue re rape--this time not a stranger (for us)

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I can't even imagine. I hope the vengeance that rains down on him is slow & painful. There is no punishment harsh enough when someone alters a child's life like that.

Posted 4/13/09 9:40 AM
 
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