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So Nervous!!
Today I got a BFP and I am super excited, but I can't help but be a little nervous. I am just so afraid it will end like my last pregnancy and I know I can't think like that but it's hard...thanks for letting me vent and get this out- DH just keeps telling me not to feel this way so I knew I could vent to you girls!
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Posted 3/29/10 11:46 PM |
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babylove628
mommy of two!
Member since 11/09 2733 total posts
Name: Maggie
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Re: So Nervous!!
On top of all the things that suck about having a miscarriage I think the worst is that it never leaves you, even when you get that BFP. I will keep you in my prayers, remember every pregnancy is different and you will have a healthy baby in 9 months, think positive sweetie.
I wish you all the best
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Posted 3/30/10 8:54 AM |
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zoe282
We have our miracle!
Member since 8/08 3634 total posts
Name: Jen
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Re: So Nervous!!
I'm so excited for your BFP! But I see where you are coming from! I feel like you need to try to do your best and look at the odds...they are in your favor to have a healthy pregnancy....thats what I try to remind myself.
Even if they say 20% miscarraige...they should say 80% success!
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Posted 3/30/10 8:55 AM |
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jerseychick
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Member since 4/09 3923 total posts
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Re: So Nervous!!
First of all, congrats on your BFP!!!!
I totally understand where you're coming from, but like OP said, try to remember that every pregnancy is different. I know that is so much easier said than done though. I'm not gonna lie...the first few weeks were so hard and I was so scared and stressing myself out. But then I started to realize that I had no control over what was going to happen to this pregnancy, and that stressing out about it wasn't going to help me or the baby. That's what helped me finally start to relax a little bit. As the days and weeks go by, I hope you are able to relax too, but what you're feeling right now is totally normal!
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Posted 3/30/10 10:38 AM |
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elizabeth78
LIF Adolescent
Member since 4/09 644 total posts
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Re: So Nervous!!
Congrats on your BFP!
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Posted 3/30/10 5:17 PM |
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BabysMomma29
Due with Baby #2!
Member since 10/08 2004 total posts
Name: Tricia aka MattandTricia07
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Re: So Nervous!!
Congratulations!!!
Try to enjoy it- I know how difficult it is. I'm 21 weeks and I still worry about
If you need to talk, I'm here.
Congrats again!!
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Posted 3/30/10 11:26 PM |
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bride07
Ava Rose you are an angel!!!
Member since 3/09 6115 total posts
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Re: So Nervous!!
Congratulations!!! Try not to let your nerves get the best of you, I am sure everything will be ok!!
Lot's of prayers your way.
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Posted 3/31/10 8:41 AM |
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Babyaholic
Thankful
Member since 6/09 1459 total posts
Name: D
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Re: So Nervous!!
Congratulations! I am sure it is natural to be nervous, especially when you have experienced a loss. I am sure after you see the doctor your mind will be more at ease.
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Posted 3/31/10 12:55 PM |
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autumn
Mommy to 2 divas
Member since 9/07 3389 total posts
Name: Lisa
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Re: So Nervous!!
congrats on your BFP I don't think the worry will ever go away from anyone who has experienced a M/C. My advice is to try and enjoy the pregnancy and have faith you and your baby will be fine
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Posted 4/2/10 12:00 PM |
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BeachGal
LIF Adult
Member since 2/10 2827 total posts
Name: J
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Re: So Nervous!!
Congrats!
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Posted 4/2/10 10:04 PM |
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Re: So Nervous!!
Thank You ladies for all your kind words and support, I'm so glad to have a place to go when I need some advice and support!
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Posted 4/4/10 10:21 AM |
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