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So Nervous!!

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HopingtobeaMOMin09
LIF Toddler

Member since 1/09

495 total posts

Name:
J

So Nervous!!

Today I got a BFP and I am super excited, but I can't help but be a little nervous. I am just so afraid it will end like my last pregnancy and I know I can't think like that but it's hard...thanks for letting me vent and get this out- DH just keeps telling me not to feel this way so I knew I could vent to you girls!

Posted 3/29/10 11:46 PM
 

babylove628
mommy of two!

Member since 11/09

2733 total posts

Name:
Maggie

Re: So Nervous!!

On top of all the things that suck about having a miscarriage I think the worst is that it never leaves you, even when you get that BFP. I will keep you in my prayers, remember every pregnancy is different and you will have a healthy baby in 9 months, think positive sweetie.

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Posted 3/30/10 8:54 AM
 

zoe282
We have our miracle!

Member since 8/08

3634 total posts

Name:
Jen

Re: So Nervous!!

I'm so excited for your BFP! But I see where you are coming from! I feel like you need to try to do your best and look at the odds...they are in your favor to have a healthy pregnancy....thats what I try to remind myself.

Even if they say 20% miscarraige...they should say 80% success!

Posted 3/30/10 8:55 AM
 

jerseychick
LIF Adult

Member since 4/09

3923 total posts

Name:

Re: So Nervous!!

First of all, congrats on your BFP!!!!

I totally understand where you're coming from, but like OP said, try to remember that every pregnancy is different. I know that is so much easier said than done though. I'm not gonna lie...the first few weeks were so hard and I was so scared and stressing myself out. But then I started to realize that I had no control over what was going to happen to this pregnancy, and that stressing out about it wasn't going to help me or the baby. That's what helped me finally start to relax a little bit. As the days and weeks go by, I hope you are able to relax too, but what you're feeling right now is totally normal! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/30/10 10:38 AM
 

elizabeth78
LIF Adolescent

Member since 4/09

644 total posts

Name:

Re: So Nervous!!

Congrats on your BFP!Chat Icon

Posted 3/30/10 5:17 PM
 

BabysMomma29
Due with Baby #2!

Member since 10/08

2004 total posts

Name:
Tricia aka MattandTricia07

Re: So Nervous!!

Congratulations!!!

Try to enjoy it- I know how difficult it is. I'm 21 weeks and I still worry about Chat Icon

If you need to talk, I'm here.

Congrats again!!

Posted 3/30/10 11:26 PM
 

bride07
Ava Rose you are an angel!!!

Member since 3/09

6115 total posts

Name:

Re: So Nervous!!



Congratulations!!! Try not to let your nerves get the best of you, I am sure everything will be ok!!


Lot's of prayers your way.

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Posted 3/31/10 8:41 AM
 

Babyaholic
Thankful

Member since 6/09

1459 total posts

Name:
D

Re: So Nervous!!

Congratulations! I am sure it is natural to be nervous, especially when you have experienced a loss. Chat Icon I am sure after you see the doctor your mind will be more at ease.

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Posted 3/31/10 12:55 PM
 

autumn
Mommy to 2 divas

Member since 9/07

3389 total posts

Name:
Lisa

Re: So Nervous!!

congrats on your BFPChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I don't think the worry will ever go away from anyone who has experienced a M/C. My advice is to try and enjoy the pregnancy and have faith you and your baby will be fineChat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/2/10 12:00 PM
 

BeachGal
LIF Adult

Member since 2/10

2827 total posts

Name:
J

Re: So Nervous!!

Congrats!

Posted 4/2/10 10:04 PM
 

HopingtobeaMOMin09
LIF Toddler

Member since 1/09

495 total posts

Name:
J

Re: So Nervous!!

Thank You ladies for all your kind words and support, I'm so glad to have a place to go when I need some advice and support!

Posted 4/4/10 10:21 AM
 
 

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