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So we go to pick up my son from daycare and(UPDATED)

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Kellish
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So we go to pick up my son from daycare and(UPDATED)

He has a field trip on Friday. Guess where? They are going to see some group perform and play drums. The cost $8. Okay only problem I have is that the "filed trip' is in the class nextdoor. Yeah less than 10 feet. Now I would think that the cost of tuition would include an "assembly". Or atleast that is what they called it in school when I was coming up. I am thinking to myself well what the heck are they going to do with the kids who don't attend the "field trip". I guess since it Friday was going to be his last day I think I will stay home with him on Friday. We can have some Mommy and me time.


I really want to write the director and give her a little piece of mine.


Okay Vent over.

Message edited 2/27/2008 4:39:36 PM.

Posted 2/27/08 1:53 AM
 
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turkeybaby
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Re: So we go to pick up my son from daycare and

That is absolutely ridciulous. There should be no reason why you would have to pay for something like that. After all, it is taking place at the daycare and you already pay tutition.

I remember when I sent my son to daycare at a private home in Westchester, the owner would always do fundraisers to raise money for new toys for the kids. I was so mad so I pulled him out. What was my $350 a week going towards??

Sorry you have to deal with this.Chat Icon

Posted 2/27/08 6:16 AM
 

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Re: So we go to pick up my son from daycare and

that's insane! Chat Icon

although my kids preschool had the zoo/pet den people come in with a few animals, and we had to pay per child also.

what type of show is it ?

yes, its really annoying. mommy time is WAY more precious! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 2/27/2008 6:22:49 AM.

Posted 2/27/08 6:22 AM
 

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Re: So we go to pick up my son from daycare and

That is really very annoying! Never heard of that!

Posted 2/27/08 6:57 AM
 

Kellish
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Re: So we go to pick up my son from daycare and

Oh Yeah and the best part is that he is only 2 years old.Chat Icon

Posted 2/27/08 7:51 AM
 

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Re: So we go to pick up my son from daycare and

That is annoying. When my dd was in daycare on long island her daycare place had a guy come in with his guitar every week and sing to the kids. It was included in the monthly fee.

I would definitely say something to the director. It can't hurt for her to hear your feelings on it.

Posted 2/27/08 7:55 AM
 

Kellish
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Re: So we go to pick up my son from daycare and

Posted by smiles

That is annoying. When my dd was in daycare on long island her daycare place had a guy come in with his guitar every week and sing to the kids. It was included in the monthly fee.

I would definitely say something to the director. It can't hurt for her to hear your feelings on it.




I am going to talk to her.

Posted 2/27/08 7:59 AM
 

Kellish
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Re: So we go to pick up my son from daycare and

I just left the daycare center where I asked the director what are the plans for the children who don't "attend" the field trip in the next classroom. She say " Oh well, I guess I will have to stay in the office with him, But I sure that he will want to be with his classmates". I said to her " why is my child being punished because we don't want him to go on this $8 fieldtrip? Her response was " Well talk to his father about and let me know on Thursday."


B tch. I don't need to talk to his father, MY HUSBAND!!!!I am his mother and that is the bottom line B tch!!!!!!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 2/27/2008 4:39:18 PM.

Posted 2/27/08 4:39 PM
 

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Re: So we go to pick up my son from daycare and(UPDATED)

did you ask why it was so much money when they are only going a few feet away?

Posted 2/27/08 4:44 PM
 

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Re: So we go to pick up my son from daycare and(UPDATED)

After your last update...I would totally send him to school..and basically force her to sit in a room with him to watch him. Punish her for being so idiotic.

Speak with his father...tell her you are the boss in the family, no need to speak to anyone.Chat Icon

Posted 2/27/08 4:44 PM
 

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Re: So we go to pick up my son from daycare and(UPDATED)

Tell her you expect him to have just as much attention & interaction that you're paying for. He shouldn't be sitting in the office while she works.Chat Icon

Posted 2/27/08 4:45 PM
 

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Re: So we go to pick up my son from daycare and(UPDATED)

The nerve of her! Someone should lock her in that office. Chat Icon

Posted 2/27/08 4:49 PM
 

Kellish
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Re: So we go to pick up my son from daycare and(UPDATED)

Posted by neener1211

After your last update...I would totally send him to school..and basically force her to sit in a room with him to watch him. Punish her for being so idiotic.

Speak with his father...tell her you are the boss in the family, no need to speak to anyone.Chat Icon





I was thinking that but I would have to KILL her if she messed with my baby!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted 2/27/08 4:51 PM
 

Kellish
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Re: So we go to pick up my son from daycare and(UPDATED)

Posted by dm24angel

did you ask why it was so much money when they are only going a few feet away?



Didn't even bother. Its not even the money. It is the point. Also, they have fundraiser through the year to cover this .

Posted 2/27/08 4:53 PM
 

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Re: So we go to pick up my son from daycare and(UPDATED)

Posted by DirtyDiapers

Posted by neener1211

After your last update...I would totally send him to school..and basically force her to sit in a room with him to watch him. Punish her for being so idiotic.

Speak with his father...tell her you are the boss in the family, no need to speak to anyone.Chat Icon





I was thinking that but I would have to KILL her if she messed with my baby!!!!!!!!!!!!!



There should be no messing...if she is the director, she should be giving the same care to your son that he would have had if there wasn't a field trip.

And if she doesn't comply, then you can report her.

Posted 2/27/08 4:55 PM
 

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Re: So we go to pick up my son from daycare and(UPDATED)

I think this is one of those "cut your nose off to spite..." situations. It is illogical as to why they have parents pay for a "field trip" in the building, but to send your DS in and have him sit in the office would be punishing your son IMO. I would just keep him home like you said Chat Icon

Posted 2/27/08 8:24 PM
 

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Re: So we go to pick up my son from daycare and(UPDATED)

WOW. Do a lot of daycares do things like that? I'd be annoyed.

Posted 2/27/08 8:28 PM
 

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Re: So we go to pick up my son from daycare and(UPDATED)

That is not a field trip. A field trip has a class or group of kids LEAVE the building. What it is a poor allocation of the tuition you probably have already paid and they need to fund the musical group.

Posted 2/27/08 8:33 PM
 

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Re: So we go to pick up my son from daycare and(UPDATED)

Posted by nrthshgrl

Tell her you expect him to have just as much attention & interaction that you're paying for. He shouldn't be sitting in the office while she works.Chat Icon



ITA. That "Director" is a raging moron.

Posted 2/27/08 9:29 PM
 

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Re: So we go to pick up my son from daycare and(UPDATED)

We have field trips at my center that are at an extra cost, but the children leave the building (game farm,disney on ice, planetarium, aquarium, etc.) it is completely optional and if parents choose not to send their child there is always a teacher that stays with them in the classroom. When we have people come in to entertain the children we eat the costs ourselves, we never ask the parents for money. I would be upset too.

Message edited 2/27/2008 10:16:14 PM.

Posted 2/27/08 10:15 PM
 

Kellish
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Re: So we go to pick up my son from daycare and(UPDATED)

Posted by Stacey1403

We have field trips at my center that are at an extra cost, but the children leave the building (game farm,disney on ice, planetarium, aquarium, etc.) it is completely optional and if parents choose not to send their child there is always a teacher that stays with them in the classroom. When we have people come in to entertain the children we eat the costs ourselves, we never ask the parents for money. I would be upset too.





I am just glad that his last day is Friday. I have had it with this daycare.

Posted 2/27/08 10:20 PM
 

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Re: So we go to pick up my son from daycare and(UPDATED)

Posted by DirtyDiapers

Posted by Stacey1403

We have field trips at my center that are at an extra cost, but the children leave the building (game farm,disney on ice, planetarium, aquarium, etc.) it is completely optional and if parents choose not to send their child there is always a teacher that stays with them in the classroom. When we have people come in to entertain the children we eat the costs ourselves, we never ask the parents for money. I would be upset too.





I am just glad that his last day is Friday. I have had it with this daycare.




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Posted 2/27/08 10:22 PM
 

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Re: So we go to pick up my son from daycare and(UPDATED)

I just got a letter home asking for $7 from DDs elementary school for people who are coming in to teach them something about timeChat Icon so annoying

Posted 2/27/08 11:13 PM
 

Kellish
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Re: So we go to pick up my son from daycare and(UPDATED)

Posted by MamaNDaddyof3

I just got a letter home asking for $7 from DDs elementary school for people who are coming in to teach them something about timeChat Icon so annoying




So your telling me that this BS just does not stopChat Icon

Posted 2/28/08 5:39 AM
 

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Re: So we go to pick up my son from daycare and(UPDATED)

Posted by Reese1106

Posted by nrthshgrl

Tell her you expect him to have just as much attention & interaction that you're paying for. He shouldn't be sitting in the office while she works.Chat Icon



ITA. That "Director" is a raging moron.



ITA. The tuition you pay if for your child to get daycare. Not sit in someone's office. I would have a HUGE problem with that. The fact that a kid does not go to a "field trip at 2" should not consitute a probleme for a daycare. Just tell them to get the personel to cover for the daycare service you are already paying for. DC is entitled to a room with toys, activities, diaper change, etc... just like any other day DC is at daycare.

Posted 2/28/08 6:12 AM
 
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