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Someone said I need to lose weight today...

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beautyq115
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Someone said I need to lose weight today...

WHY do people say this crap to me...This woman I work with just started out asking me if I had really made it to 5'0 or was I under 5'0...ok bizarre and then just starts saying "I was kind of pretty but had a double chin" and that other people in the office are plugging away at losing "so they could help me"Chat Icon

I haven't been on this board in a while...I have fallen off the wagon and gained. I am really upset about it and then some freakin BEOCH needs to say somethingChat Icon

Message edited 4/17/2007 9:06:27 PM.

Posted 4/17/07 9:04 PM
 
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bklyngirl
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Re: Someone said I need to lose weight today...

kathleen...i've seen you in person. you look great. don't let them get to u. they're jut jealous of u

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Posted 4/17/07 9:12 PM
 

evnme
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Posted 4/17/07 9:16 PM
 

checka
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Re: Someone said I need to lose weight today...

Some people are so rude!
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Posted 4/17/07 9:37 PM
 

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Re: Someone said I need to lose weight today...

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Posted 4/18/07 8:05 AM
 

azoodie

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Re: Someone said I need to lose weight today...

W T F!!!!!!! OMG I have no words for how absolutely rude and inconsiderate that comment was to you. It's no one's place to tell you you need to lose weight, it is a very personal thing. Plus, I totally empathize with you because I have gained a lot of weight in the past couple of years and the last thing I need is someone to put me down because of it, especially since I'm sure you already feel self conscious of it.

Just try and let it roll of your back. You are a beautiful person and I really mean that. Screw em!!!

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Posted 4/18/07 8:26 AM
 

snowboardgirl
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Christine

Re: Someone said I need to lose weight today...

There are some f-ed up people in this world!!!! How rude!!!!????!! I saw your pics, you are beautiful. The person who said that is jealous, and probably an ugly dog that has no self confidence and has to put others down to make herself feel good. IGNOR HER!!!

Posted 4/18/07 9:29 AM
 

Ophelia
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remember, when Gulliver traveled....

Re: Someone said I need to lose weight today...

Kathleen, why can't you tell them to f*ck off. seriously, you have to work with the rudest bunch of b1tches on the planet if they really talk to you like that.

get mad instead of sad. that is bullshyt.Chat Icon

Posted 4/18/07 10:17 AM
 

Kissy331
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Re: Someone said I need to lose weight today...

Ignore her Kathleen! You are a beautiful girl! I personally don't think you need to loose any weight. We are our own worst critic, so don't listen to what others say, as long as you feel comfy in your own skin Chat Icon

Posted 4/18/07 10:53 AM
 

pinky
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Re: Someone said I need to lose weight today...

that is so rude. i am so sorry.

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Posted 4/18/07 11:11 AM
 

beautyq115
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Re: Someone said I need to lose weight today...

Thanks LadiesChat Icon

Posted 4/18/07 11:24 AM
 

Tracey
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Re: Someone said I need to lose weight today...

Wow!!! I can't believe someone had the audacity to say that to you! How completely rude and obnoxious!

I agree with the other posters, that person is obviously jealous of you, you are beautiful!


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Posted 4/18/07 11:24 AM
 

robynfs
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Re: Someone said I need to lose weight today...

Who says that!???!!!?!? Chat Icon Chat Icon

So sorry!

Posted 4/18/07 12:19 PM
 

MelissaMac
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Re: Someone said I need to lose weight today...

YOU are not fat.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I think people say this kind of stuff b/c they are insecure.

Posted 4/18/07 2:43 PM
 

conigs25
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Re: Someone said I need to lose weight today...

OMG!!! HOW RUDE!!! Chat Icon

Posted 4/18/07 3:51 PM
 

TheLorax
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Re: Someone said I need to lose weight today...

beyotch! I would never speak to her again. That is just rude and nasty. I hate people.

Posted 4/18/07 3:54 PM
 

beautyq115
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Re: Someone said I need to lose weight today...

I was hoping to see her today because I was going to say something. I am so sensitive about my weight and have had many issues and still continue to have issues. I was so upset about this last nightChat Icon

Posted 4/18/07 4:44 PM
 

Bri
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Re: Someone said I need to lose weight today...

That was so mean of your co-worker . . . . As hard as it is, forget she said what she said. Do what you can on your termsChat Icon

Posted 4/18/07 5:22 PM
 

beautyq115
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Re: Someone said I need to lose weight today...

Just wanted to say thank you for everything ladies!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon YOUR kind words far out weigh her negative onesChat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/18/07 9:54 PM
 

Kristin616

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Re: Someone said I need to lose weight today...

You have to learn to ignore stupid people Chat Icon

Posted 4/19/07 8:19 PM
 

mrsv
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lol

Re: Someone said I need to lose weight today...

Igonre the biotch, I cant believe someone would say that, I have seen you at some gtg's and you are beautiful and in no way need to loose weight.

some people are so rude.

Posted 4/22/07 10:06 PM
 

lorich
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Re: Someone said I need to lose weight today...

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W T F!!!!!!! OMG I have no words for how absolutely rude and inconsiderate that comment was to you. It's no one's place to tell you you need to lose weight, it is a very personal thing. Plus, I totally empathize with you because I have gained a lot of weight in the past couple of years and the last thing I need is someone to put me down because of it, especially since I'm sure you already feel self conscious of it.

Just try and let it roll of your back. You are a beautiful person and I really mean that. Screw em!!!

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Posted 4/23/07 10:53 AM
 

Lauren
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Re: Someone said I need to lose weight today...

Don't listen to people who say things like that. Of course, it is upsetting and discouraging, but they are saying it to bring you down.

I am sorry. I am very sensitive about my body and that would have crushed me as well.

The best thing to do is ignore it. I don't understand at what point people learn to act that way and that they think it's acceptable.

Posted 4/24/07 6:47 PM
 
 

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