| Posted By |
Message |
Nikkibean
LIF Adolescent
Member since 6/08 647 total posts
Name:
I'm waiting for you to come back to me
|
Sometimes DH stands stands for Dill Hole!!
So I get yet ANOTHER email with ANOTHER one of my friends announcing that she is pregnant. This one was a little closer to home bc we were both pg the first time and we both m/c within a week from each other- now she's on her second baby.
I call DH up and ask him if he read the email and he said no. So I told him about it and I start naming all the people who are pg that are my friends. He interrupts and says, "Am I going to have to hear this every time someone says they are pregnant?"
 Yes, you moron!! You are!!
I just looked at him and said "Thanks for the support. Don't speak to me until you look up the word, supportive and appologize."
I can't believe how some men just don't get it. If I say it a million times a day, 5 days a week he should listen every time.
Maybe HIS AF is coming!
Message edited 8/13/2008 8:24:50 PM.
|
Posted 8/13/08 6:23 PM  |
| |
|
Long Island Weddings
Long Island's Largest Bridal Resource |
Googlie
LIF Adolescent
Member since 3/06 532 total posts
Name:
|
Re: Sometimes DH stands stands for Dill Hole!!
 I'm sorry! I can sympathize with you feeling the way you do when you hear someone else is pregnant...this must be so hard for you...just know that we are in it together!
|
| Posted 8/13/08 6:38 PM |
| |
|
BABYMAMA13
LIF Infant
Member since 7/08 270 total posts
Name:
blue eyes
|
Re: Sometimes DH stands stands for Dill Hole!!
Posted by Nikkibean
So I get yet ANOTHER email with ANOTHER one of my friends announcing that she is pregnant. This one was a little closer to home bc we were both pg the first time and we both m/c within a week from each other- now she's on her second baby.
I call DH up and ask him if he read the email and he said no. So I told him about it and I start naming all the people who are pg that are my friends. He interrupts and says, "Am I going to have to hear this every time someone says they are pregnant?"
Yes, you f***ing a- hole- you are!!
I just looked at him and said "Thanks for the support. Don't speak to me until you look up the word, supportive and appologize."
I can't believe how some men just don't get it. If I say it a million times a day, 5 days a week he should listen every time.
Maybe HIS AF is coming!
im agree, mine is the same way. he gets mad at me something b.c i stress about it so much!!
he gets his AF regularly.
|
| Posted 8/13/08 6:40 PM |
| |
|
Serendipity
Summer!
Member since 4/07 7631 total posts
Name:
PrayingWishingHopingALOT
|
Re: Sometimes DH stands stands for Dill Hole!!
Posted by Nikkibean
So I get yet ANOTHER email with ANOTHER one of my friends announcing that she is pregnant. This one was a little closer to home bc we were both pg the first time and we both m/c within a week from each other- now she's on her second baby.
I call DH up and ask him if he read the email and he said no. So I told him about it and I start naming all the people who are pg that are my friends. He interrupts and says, "Am I going to have to hear this every time someone says they are pregnant?"
Yes, you f***ing a- hole- you are!!
I just looked at him and said "Thanks for the support. Don't speak to me until you look up the word, supportive and appologize."
I can't believe how some men just don't get it. If I say it a million times a day, 5 days a week he should listen every time.
Maybe HIS AF is coming!
I think that as supportive they are, they dont FULLY understand! i am sure my DH would say the same thing! Vent to us, its ok. We all get it and would let you say it 10000000 times a day!!!
Message edited 8/13/2008 7:20:49 PM.
|
| Posted 8/13/08 7:20 PM |
| |
|
maybeamommy
Blessed beyond belief
Member since 10/07 17048 total posts
Name:
|
Re: Sometimes DH stands stands for Dill Hole!!
Oh, I'm so sorry! I'm sure that must have hurt your feelings.
I bet he is just upset and frustrated with the situation himself and this is his way of expressing it.
Go have some make up sex! 
|
| Posted 8/13/08 9:00 PM |
| |
|
SummerMiracle
LIF Toddler
Member since 7/08 465 total posts
Name:
Brianne (Bri)
|
Re: Sometimes DH stands stands for Dill Hole!!
Posted by Serendipity
I think that as supportive they are, they dont FULLY understand!
I agree
|
| Posted 8/13/08 9:09 PM |
| |
|
MrDeeNMe
whatcha doin!?
Member since 1/08 1705 total posts
Name:
Nikole
|
Re: Sometimes DH stands stands for Dill Hole!!
Posted by maybeamommy
Oh, I'm so sorry! I'm sure that must have hurt your feelings.
I bet he is just upset and frustrated with the situation himself and this is his way of expressing it.
Go have some make up sex!
I second that... make him work!
|
| Posted 8/13/08 10:18 PM |
| |
|
JennyPenny
?
Member since 1/08 12702 total posts
Name:
Jen
|
Re: Sometimes DH stands stands for Dill Hole!!
My DH is pretty supportive when it comes to that. MOST days. Other days he says "don't sweat it" and changes the subject
|
| Posted 8/14/08 8:44 AM |
| |
|
Terry34
So Grateful for All We Have!
Member since 6/08 1104 total posts
Name:
Terry
|
Re: Sometimes DH stands stands for Dill Hole!!
Posted by SummerMiracle
Posted by Serendipity
I think that as supportive they are, they dont FULLY understand!
I agree
I agree too.
|
| Posted 8/14/08 9:09 AM |
| |
|
QueSeraSera
Sugar & Spice
Member since 7/08 1351 total posts
Name:
Liz
|
Re: Sometimes DH stands stands for Dill Hole!!
I'm sorry- I know how hard it is to hear that kind of news....
I think men have a hard time "getting it" when we are just venting....they hear venting and want to solve the problem- if it's something that can't be "solved", they get frustrated and don't know what to do/say. I am sure he is feeling bad b/c he can't help the situation and take away your pain......
|
| Posted 8/14/08 9:35 AM |
| |
|
MetsGirl07
LIF O2 Vendor
Member since 12/07 16202 total posts
Name:
Deanna
|
Re: Sometimes DH stands stands for Dill Hole!!
i feel ya..
my DH does the same thing.. he says i talk about it too much and he gets frustrated.. part of me knows i am at fault.. but the other part thinks HE should be a little more supportive..
|
| Posted 8/14/08 9:52 AM |
| |
|
BellaRock
I am all the Me I will ever Be
Member since 5/06 9746 total posts
Name:
She who shall remain nameless
|
Re: Sometimes DH stands stands for Dill Hole!!
Posted by SummerMiracle
Posted by Serendipity
I think that as supportive they are, they dont FULLY understand!
I agree
I totally agree.
|
| Posted 8/14/08 12:12 PM |
| |
|
Reese1106
Family of 4! :o)
Member since 8/06 6655 total posts
Name:
Theresa
|
Re: Sometimes DH stands stands for Dill Hole!!
Boys are just so dumb sometimes. I'm sorry.
|
| Posted 8/14/08 12:32 PM |
| |
|
