SOOO ANGRY - long sorry

dh and i didnt tell his side of the family when i found out i was preg just bc the way they are. I mc last week and was relieved i didnt have to tell them anything. They are the type of people who will say O why dont u want till ur 12 weeks u never know u can miscarry and its hard to tell people. (thats what i was told last pregnancy in april when we told them i was 8 weeks along ) Of course i mc a week later after we told them. They knew we were going thru IF. But for some strange wicked reason they love rubbing in my face how easy it is for them to get "knocked up". The one daughter kept sending me messages on facebook of her sonos and telling me she hates being preg bc she has ms. I honestly dont need to hear that.. The other one is preg and due in feb but NO ONE is supposed to know bc shes unwed and doesnt have the father around. WHO CARES?!?!?
Anyway enough of me ranting about this heres the part that PIS*ES me off. In september when dh husband aunt found out her other daugher was expecting she called me up and asked how i was feeling. I said fine why? she said o i was wondering how u were doing in ur pregnancy... I FLIPPED out. I miscarried in may and she had the balls to ask me that?? she rectified that statement saying i NEVER called her to tell her i mc. I hung up the phone with her and called my mother in law ASAP. I asked my mother in law if she told her sister that i mc in may. Mother in law said yes of course. thats where i said THATS it i cut ALL ties wtih them. they are BIT*HES!!!
They keep calling me and i ignore their phone calls. I even took the cousin off my friend list on facebook and she complained about it to my mother in law. My mother in law didnt tell them anything that i mc this week bc i asked her not to. Well my husbands aunt called him at work and said why arent i calling her back so he decided to tell his bit*h aunt that i mc again last week. She calls me up and leaves me a message how sorry she is and if i need antyhing to call her. I am fuming at my husband bc they are the last people i want to know about my personal life. They are sadistic and make it a point to tell me how easy it is to get pregnant, how they have 5 kids each and every time it was first shot to get preg. Even the one one who no one is supposed to know is preg has gotten 2 abortions b4 this pregnancy and that is joked about on how fertile she is. OMG im just angyr. sorry this doesnt make sense but im so mad!

Re: SOOO ANGRY - long sorry

I'm so sorry that happened to you. People can really be clueless. This girl at my job knows about my IF issues, yet she continues to tell me about how fertile she is and how last month if she got pg that she would have had twins, the OB told her. I mean, seriously, who cares?

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It makes sense, it really does. It's so hard when family isn't supportive.

But DH was really just trying to support you in telling her off. I know you were saying how difficult this loss was for him to. These people aren't being nice about it, but don't be too hard on DH, he was defending you and trying to take some of the pressure off you. I'm sure he was caught off guard by the phone call at work and was caught up in his own emotions too.



Feel better Ann! Call me if you want too!

Re: SOOO ANGRY - long sorry

Awww Ann Marie I'm so sorry. You have every right to be ****** but I agree with IrishLass in that your husband was probably trying to get them to understand why you were so hurt by their words/actions to begin with.
Honestly I really do hate people sometimes. i just dont get the insensitivity to such a heart wrenching situation.