i swore i was going to ebf my children... and, well, since ds was drinking 65 ounces a day and now #2 is following suit i had no choice

i also was set on having my children be able to fall asleep while out and then be transferable... to the point that my parents have a crib set up.. that lasted until ds #1 was 4 months old and dh started working overnights... then, once i was alone every night i started valuing my evening time alone

i thought we would go out more often... but that has not been the case due to out lack of babysitters (my parents refuse to not wake up my children when they watch them so that they can play)

we have stuck to the no children in our bed rule, but that it about it