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Gertyrae
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Sort of depressing news...Update 2/15

Went today for CD2 checkup and when the PA did the sono, my ovaries are still huge...so now she says Dr. K may cancel the frozen cycle and wait a month or two. I was happy that at least we were moving forward and now that we may not be, I'm actually depressed. I guess cuz there isn't anything to focus on now.
On top of that, she said no exercise until they give the okay, I can only go for walks...so I have to live with the fat gut from the OHSS.

Haha...Happy V-Day to meChat Icon

BTW, part of me is praying the bloodwork is okay and they go on with this cycle.


UPDATE: 2/15 - Now they are going ahead with the Estrace and Dr. K is going to see me himself on Monday and make a final decision then. I guess I'll just stop the Estrace if he decides against the frozen cycle. At this point, I'm just going with whatever they decide.
Thank you everyone for your support...it really means a lot cuz I haven't said anything to anyone else.

Message edited 2/15/2007 8:41:40 PM.

Posted 2/14/07 12:48 PM
 
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dm24angel
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Re: Sort of depressing news...

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Im so sorry sweetie.

I know how the prospect of moving on quickly is the best thing at times like this, But remember that you want this FET to be a BFP and not a waste of your time, so you need to be 100% healthy.

I will pray that the blood comes back ok and you can move forward NOW.

Hang in there!!!!!!!

Posted 2/14/07 12:54 PM
 

CAT215
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Re: Sort of depressing news...

Oh Gerty I'm sorry Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon
But I think as Donna said it is better in the long run that you are 100% going into next cycle. If you are only allowed to walk at least Misty will be happy!! I hope your blood work comes back with positive results. Hang in there Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/14/07 1:09 PM
 

CellarDweller
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Re: Sort of depressing news...

I'm sorry. Chat Icon

Something to focus on is taking care of YOU so when it's a go, you're as healthy as can be.

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon the bloodwork comes back so you can move ahead though!

Posted 2/14/07 1:18 PM
 

jellybean78
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Re: Sort of depressing news...

I'm sorry Gerty but I agree with Donna...it's best for your body to be 100% healed from the OHSS. I'm praying that your body starts healing fast and the time flies by so you can get your BFP!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/14/07 1:26 PM
 

leighla
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Re: Sort of depressing news...

That stinks! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/14/07 1:29 PM
 

lulugrrl
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Re: Sort of depressing news...

I'm so sorry Gerty..I know you just want to move forward. However, this is your chance to get your body 100% healthy, and have the BEST chance of your next try to turn into a BFP! I pray that happens for you soon!

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Posted 2/14/07 1:30 PM
 

karacg
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Re: Sort of depressing news...

Considering I was expecting you to say that they LOST the embies.....this is actually a relief, so to speak.

I totally agree with Donna -- it SUX to wait but then you will have 10 more moths of waiting anyway so-- what's one more or less? As long as your body is ready and STICKY!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/14/07 1:30 PM
 

Gertyrae
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Re: Sort of depressing news...

I know I sound like a spoiled brat...it just wasn't what I expected so it caught me off guard. I know it will be better if my body is 100%, I just feel like I'm not getting anywhere sometimes.

I guess I'm finally hitting the feeling sorry for myself stage.

Posted 2/14/07 1:38 PM
 

lulugrrl
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Re: Sort of depressing news...

Everything you feel is absolutely okay! The is the biggest emotional roller coaster of your life, and you would not be human if you did not have down days! I just hope Up days are going to come fast!

Posted by Gertyrae

I know I sound like a spoiled brat...it just wasn't what I expected so it caught me off guard. I know it will be better if my body is 100%, I just feel like I'm not getting anywhere sometimes.

I guess I'm finally hitting the feeling sorry for myself stage.[/QUOTE

Posted 2/14/07 1:53 PM
 

jellybean78
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Re: Sort of depressing news...

You don't sound like a spoiled brat at all. I would be disappointed too. You have every right to feel like that!

Posted 2/14/07 2:06 PM
 

jms100303
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Re: Sort of depressing news...

I can understand why you are depressed and it feels like a letdown. But Donna is so right, you want to be at your healthiest so they stick. Feel better and best of luck! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/14/07 2:09 PM
 

Red
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Re: Sort of depressing news...

It sucks, but in the end it'll be worth it - hang in there Chat Icon

Posted 2/14/07 2:24 PM
 

Sharon
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Re: Sort of depressing news...

I'm sorry Gerty. But, like Kara said, I was expecting something worse, so a month's delay feels like a relief instaed of what I was anticipating. I know you are disappointed, but this time next year when you are celebrating your baby's first valentine's day - this setback will just be a distant memory. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/14/07 2:50 PM
 

boosh1002
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Re: Sort of depressing news...

I am sorry Gerty, praying that these two months go by quickly for you!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/14/07 3:01 PM
 

calendargrl
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Re: Sort of depressing news...

I'm sorry you have to wait. Hopefully the bloodwork comes back good and you can move forward.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/14/07 4:09 PM
 

halisa
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Re: Sort of depressing news...

sorry gerty-waiting and feeling like things aren't progressing is such a sucky feeling. just try to remember ALL of those beautiful embryos waiting for you!! it will happen before you know it!!

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Posted 2/14/07 4:52 PM
 

rose825
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Re: Sort of depressing news...

Posted by Gertyrae

I know I sound like a spoiled brat...it just wasn't what I expected so it caught me off guard. I know it will be better if my body is 100%, I just feel like I'm not getting anywhere sometimes.

I guess I'm finally hitting the feeling sorry for myself stage.



coming from the Queen of delays (at least thats how I feel lately) I understand all to well. BUt be healthy first. YOu dont want the OHSS to come back when you get that BFP.

Posted 2/14/07 5:14 PM
 

dm24angel
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Re: Sort of depressing news...

OMG, YOU DO NOT sounds like a spolied brat! NOT AT ALL!!!!!

The worst I ever cried was about a delayed cycle....

Hang in there. WE do understand!

Posted 2/14/07 5:16 PM
 

LisaW
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Re: Sort of depressing news...

Gerty, I am so sorry!!!

But, I have to say I was surprised when you said that you were moving right into an FET...your body definitely needs to heal after what you went through!

It will be here in no time!!!

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Posted 2/14/07 5:58 PM
 

LIBOUND
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Re: Sort of depressing news...

Give your body time to heal.

That way you know you have the best chances possible with the FET.



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Posted 2/14/07 6:45 PM
 

angel7
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Re: Sort of depressing news...

I am so sorry Gerty!
But it is better for you to be healthy.
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Posted 2/15/07 6:37 AM
 

mrsmck
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Re: Sort of depressing news...

I'm sure it stinks to have to wait a little longer, but when your body's ready, LOOK OUT.....here come the BFPs!!!!!

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Posted 2/15/07 7:35 AM
 

skygirl
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Re: Sort of depressing news...

Gerty, I am so sorry. You definitely want to go forward with this with your body being 100%.

I think there will soon be a light at the end of this tunnel.

Thanks goodness now you are being treated properly and I really feel that you will be bfp bound soon.

No, you are not being a brat- you are entiltled to feel frustration @ this point. Your patience is to be commended.



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Posted 2/15/07 8:32 AM
 

Diane
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Posted 2/15/07 9:34 AM
 
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