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Do your parents get along with your ILs?

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Bugaboo
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Spinoff: Do your parents get along with your ILs?

They're cordial when we get together for an occassion, but they really don't have anything in common. I prefer it this way because if my parents spent more time with my ILs, they would know what wackos they really are, especially my MIL.

Edit: Took the poll out.

Message edited 9/8/2005 6:19:25 PM.

Posted 9/8/05 6:17 PM
 

Janice
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Re: Spinoff: Do your parents get along with your ILs?

my parents have never met my FIL. I hope they never meet. My parents met MIL at the wedding. So much was going on that day, I really don't think they even spoke that much.

Posted 9/8/05 6:21 PM
 

julz33
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Re: Spinoff: Do your parents get along with your ILs?

Yes, my mom and MIL get along great! Actually, my IL's are closer in age to my grandparents than to my mom. My FIL and grandfather are like old friends when they get together.

Posted 9/8/05 6:24 PM
 

05mommy09
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Re: Spinoff: Do your parents get along with your ILs?

my mother cant stand my MIL...however will always be cordial to her...

Posted 9/8/05 6:26 PM
 

Bugaboo
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Re: Spinoff: Do your parents get along with your ILs?

I think my MIL has something against my parents, or more like she has a complex. I just feel bad for my mom because she asked me if my MIL was mad at them about something. My parents sent a Christmas card to them and my ILs didn't send them one, and my parents had me give some things to my MIL and she never called my parents to thank them. I think my MIL is a total fake and two faced. She talks about everyone and anyone and gets mad and holds grudges against children. She's just a total beotch.

Posted 9/8/05 6:38 PM
 

suvenR
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Re: Spinoff: Do your parents get along with your ILs?

My MIL is VERY nice to my grandmother (little old lady who was born in Italy), but isn't very polite to my mother.

Sometimes I think my MIL thinks that since she's older than my mom, my mom should bow down to her.

She's not outright rude, but I wish she'd treat my mother as well as she treats my grandmother.

Posted 9/8/05 6:49 PM
 

AnnBrunoXO
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Re: Spinoff: Do your parents get along with your ILs?

My parents and inlaws get along well.

They will occasionally call each other and get together.

Posted 9/8/05 6:56 PM
 

AJsMommy122
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Re: Spinoff: Do your parents get along with your ILs?

My mil hates my mom... they are such opposite people its not even funny.

My dad and my IL's get along.

Posted 9/8/05 7:20 PM
 

Jax430
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Re: Spinoff: Do your parents get along with your ILs?

They get along well.

Posted 9/8/05 7:47 PM
 

MrsProfessor
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Re: Spinoff: Do your parents get along with your ILs?

My parents and my ILs really hit it off, which surprised me a little (though I didn't worry that they'd dislike each other). Both sets are really different and my ILs are about 15 years older than my parents. But they really like each other, my mom and my MIL talk on the phone every week long distance!

Posted 9/8/05 8:27 PM
 

WoodIAm
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Re: Spinoff: Do your parents get along with your ILs?

We are very lucky. My Mom and his parents get along very well. They are actually closer to my sister and her husband's ages, so everyone gets along.

Posted 9/8/05 9:34 PM
 

lvdolphins
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Re: Spinoff: Do your parents get along with your ILs?

My parents and my inlaws get along very well. My dad and FIL always talking about Navy and Army.
Mom & MIL always talking about whatever!Chat Icon

Posted 9/8/05 9:40 PM
 

neenie

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Re: Spinoff: Do your parents get along with your ILs?

Posted by julz33

Yes, my mom and MIL get along great! Actually, my IL's are closer in age to my grandparents than to my mom. My FIL and grandfather are like old friends when they get together.



same exact situation here!! my mom is closer in age to my SIL than my MIL.

they all get along Swimmingly Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/8/05 11:43 PM
 

Stefanie

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Re: Spinoff: Do your parents get along with your ILs?

I don't know...they're never together...

Posted 9/9/05 12:08 AM
 

VickiC
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Re: Spinoff: Do your parents get along with your ILs?

Posted by AnnBrunoXO

My parents and inlaws get along well.

They will occasionally call each other and get together.



Yep, this is how it is with us too. I'm glad they get along so well.

Posted 9/9/05 12:53 PM
 

LadyMaravilla
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Re: Spinoff: Do your parents get along with your ILs?

Posted by Bugaboo

They're cordial when we get together for an occassion, but they really don't have anything in common. I prefer it this way because if my parents spent more time with my ILs, they would know what wackos they really are, especially my MIL.

Edit: Took the poll out.



I agree 100% my MIL has been a total crazy person sometimes & she's put me through $h!t so my parents don't really like her. They are cordial but don't go out of the way to build a relationship, on either ends.

Posted 9/9/05 3:58 PM
 

CowgirlChick97
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Re: Spinoff: Do your parents get along with your ILs?

We live across the street from each other (we arent married yet), so they get along together pretty good! His father will come over for a beer....his mother will come over to go in the pool....and yea, they hang out!

Posted 9/9/05 5:01 PM
 

Diane
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Re: Spinoff: Do your parents get along with your ILs?

yes, they get along very well.

Posted 9/10/05 10:05 AM
 

steph4777
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Re: Spinoff: Do your parents get along with your ILs?

They don't see each other much bc my parents live in NY and IL live in Chicago. But they do get along. Whenever I talk to my parents they always ask about the ILs and vice versa.

Posted 9/10/05 11:20 AM
 

Moehick
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Re: Spinoff: Do your parents get along with your ILs?

They get along fine...they don't get together without us but occasionaly will talk on the phone and send cards

Posted 9/10/05 11:35 AM
 

emilain
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Re: Spinoff: Do your parents get along with your ILs?

wow!i'm surprised at how many of your parents get along with your ILs. I didn't think this ever happened, mine don't get along at all, but they're cordial to each other. Wait til you have kids, it really changes the scenario. Life would be a lot easier if everyone just got along.

Posted 9/10/05 4:45 PM
 

BaroqueMama
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Re: Spinoff: Do your parents get along with your ILs?

NOPE. My dad told my MIL to F*ck Off at the end of our wedding because they were leaving without saying goodbye Or thank you for hosting and paying for their son's wedding. Chat Icon

Posted 9/10/05 7:48 PM
 

Holly
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Re: Spinoff: Do your parents get along with your ILs?

Posted by prncssrachel

NOPE. My dad told my MIL to F*ck Off at the end of our wedding because they were leaving without saying goodbye Or thank you for hosting and paying for their son's wedding. Chat Icon




unfortunately...my dad did not say this...but it was thought about after the reception, and is still thought of until this day, almost a year later....


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Posted 9/10/05 9:15 PM
 

Buttafli1277
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Re: Spinoff: Do your parents get along with your ILs?

Yeah! My mom and MIL go to the movies together and talk on the phone.

Posted 9/10/05 10:55 PM
 

05mommy09
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Re: Spinoff: Do your parents get along with your ILs?

Posted by prncssrachel

NOPE. My dad told my MIL to F*ck Off at the end of our wedding because they were leaving without saying goodbye Or thank you for hosting and paying for their son's wedding. Chat Icon



Sounds like my dad and MIL at my baby showerChat Icon

Posted 9/11/05 1:34 AM
 
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