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Spinoff from the Drama post!
I never realized people saw "thank yous" as ways of bumping your post!
When I post pics of Cailen, and people comment, I honestly say thank you, or sometimes respond to something someone says, so it bumps the post from my response...
I never knew people saw that as "oh look - she's bumping her post that way!"
Am I a dolt, or what?
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Posted 12/27/07 8:38 AM  |
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Re: Spinoff from the Drama post!
You know what's funny about this. I sometime don't respond with a "thank you" because I don't want people thinking she's bumping her own post. I just hope I don't come off rude by not saying Thank You.
Seems you can't win either way
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| Posted 12/27/07 8:42 AM |
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Re: Spinoff from the Drama post!
Posted by Mssissy
You know what's funny about this. I sometime don't respond with a "thank you" because I don't want people thinking she's bumping her own post. I just hope I don't come off rude by not saying Thank You.
Seems you can't win either way
Actually, now that you mention it, sometimes if I'm gone all day, and I see a whole bunch of responses, but my thread moved on to page 3, I will leave it alone unless someone says something super spectacular in my thread, because I'm like - eh, why bring it to the front page again!
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| Posted 12/27/07 8:43 AM |
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headoverheels
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Re: Spinoff from the Drama post!
Posted by lipglossjunky73
I never realized people saw "thank yous" as ways of bumping your post!
When I post pics of Cailen, and people comment, I honestly say thank you, or sometimes respond to something someone says, so it bumps the post from my response...
I never knew people saw that as "oh look - she's bumping her post that way!"
Am I a dolt, or what?
 i never thought of it like this - when someone makes a particularly interesting or thoughful comment i will thank them, i never thought anyone would do that to bump their post count 
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| Posted 12/27/07 8:50 AM |
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LisaW
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Re: Spinoff from the Drama post!
I think it was more that certain people go back and thank every single person on the thread individually 
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| Posted 12/27/07 8:51 AM |
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Goldi0218
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Re: Spinoff from the Drama post!
If I post something early in the day and it has moved down the pages quite a bit, I do not feel the need to bring it up again unless there has been a "critical" update. If I have a need to thank someone for support, I willl do it privately. I do not think I need that much attention - unless of course Rallye Lexus writes me again. Then it is open season.
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| Posted 12/27/07 9:00 AM |
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Waste06
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Re: Spinoff from the Drama post!
I never noticed before either.
I guess I was always naive and thought if someone wanted their post to be up top, they'd just bump it.
Thanks and you're welcome.
 
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| Posted 12/27/07 9:17 AM |
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lvdolphins
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Re: Spinoff from the Drama post!
Ooopsss Im guilty...I guess.
I always Thank people for responding to pics of Bryan.
Never thought of it as bumping...Ummm Big DUUUUUuuuuhhhhH on my part.
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| Posted 12/27/07 9:30 AM |
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Re: Spinoff from the Drama post!
Posted by lvdolphins
Ooopsss Im guilty...I guess.
I always Thank people for responding to pics of Bryan.
Never thought of it as bumping...Ummm Big DUUUUUuuuuhhhhH on my part.
I absolutely do this too.....I really thought they were talking about me in the drama thread that is, until I realized...I'm not really that important
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| Posted 12/27/07 9:39 AM |
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Re: Spinoff from the Drama post!
Posted by lvdolphins
Ooopsss Im guilty...I guess.
I always Thank people for responding to pics of Bryan.
Never thought of it as bumping...Ummm Big DUUUUUuuuuhhhhH on my part.
Oh Dawn - everyone knows you are an attention wh0re!
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| Posted 12/27/07 9:42 AM |
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lvdolphins
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Re: Spinoff from the Drama post!
Posted by lipglossjunky73
Posted by lvdolphins
Ooopsss Im guilty...I guess.
I always Thank people for responding to pics of Bryan.
Never thought of it as bumping...Ummm Big DUUUUUuuuuhhhhH on my part.
Oh Dawn - everyone knows you are an attention wh0re!
Just for that Im "Thanking You"...LMAO OOhhh and bumping this thread!!!
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| Posted 12/27/07 10:28 AM |
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pinkandblue
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Re: Spinoff from the Drama post!
I thank people for comments alot. I do not see the big deal
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| Posted 12/27/07 10:32 AM |
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Re: Spinoff from the Drama post!
I never viewed "Thank You" posts as bumps, but as sincere thank yous.
If someone wanted to bump their thread, I figured they'd write "Bump". I guess I see no shame in bumping a thread.
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| Posted 12/27/07 10:45 AM |
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trnity44
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Re: Spinoff from the Drama post!
Posted by lvdolphins
Ooopsss Im guilty...I guess.
I always Thank people for responding to pics of Bryan.
Never thought of it as bumping...Ummm Big DUUUUUuuuuhhhhH on my part.
I do this too! Never even thought about it like that before!
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| Posted 12/27/07 10:47 AM |
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Phyl
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Re: Spinoff from the Drama post!
Thank you for the obvious and blatant busting me for my gratuitous and post upping of my threads
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| Posted 12/27/07 10:52 AM |
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SoinLove
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Re: Spinoff from the Drama post!
Posted by lvdolphins
Ooopsss Im guilty...I guess.
I always Thank people for responding to pics of Bryan.
Never thought of it as bumping...Ummm Big DUUUUUuuuuhhhhH on my part.
When I posted more regularly, I did this as well. Oopsie
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| Posted 12/27/07 10:53 AM |
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luvsbob4603
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Re: Spinoff from the Drama post!
Posted by Little-J-Mommy
Posted by lvdolphins
Ooopsss Im guilty...I guess.
I always Thank people for responding to pics of Bryan.
Never thought of it as bumping...Ummm Big DUUUUUuuuuhhhhH on my part.
I absolutely do this too.....I really thought they were talking about me in the drama thread that is, until I realized...I'm not really that important
I'm at fault with this too, i guess i like to thank everyone... I never thought about it as bumping as well, My bad i guess i need to do less bumping than..
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| Posted 12/27/07 10:56 AM |
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GenLCSW
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Re: Spinoff from the Drama post!
Posted by lipglossjunky73
I never realized people saw "thank yous" as ways of bumping your post!
When I post pics of Cailen, and people comment, I honestly say thank you, or sometimes respond to something someone says, so it bumps the post from my response...
I never knew people saw that as "oh look - she's bumping her post that way!"
Am I a dolt, or what?
I agree...I always like to say thank you when I post pics of Jacob or get responses to a post where I am asking for suggestions or advice
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| Posted 12/27/07 10:57 AM |
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CkGm
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Re: Spinoff from the Drama post!
Posted by lipglossjunky73
I never realized people saw "thank yous" as ways of bumping your post!
When I post pics of Cailen, and people comment, I honestly say thank you, or sometimes respond to something someone says, so it bumps the post from my response...
I never knew people saw that as "oh look - she's bumping her post that way!"
Am I a dolt, or what?
I never thought of this either I feel awful when I post pics and forget to say thank you. I guess I won't do it anymore.
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| Posted 12/27/07 10:58 AM |
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CrankyPants
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Re: Spinoff from the Drama post!
I do this, sometimes with the intention of bumping my post sometimes not-eh, whatever.
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| Posted 12/27/07 11:01 AM |
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pinkandblue
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Re: Spinoff from the Drama post!
I never thought of this either I feel awful when I post pics and forget to say thank you. I guess I won't do it anymore.
why would you not do it anymore? I don't get it. I think it is polite to say thank you and that is it....if someone thinks it is annoying and views it as me bumping the post, so be it. I do not intend on stopping
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| Posted 12/27/07 11:08 AM |
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headoverheels
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Re: Spinoff from the Drama post!
thank you for posting about thank yous liza!!
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| Posted 12/27/07 11:10 AM |
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DRMom
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Re: Spinoff from the Drama post!
Posted by stephanief
I thank people for comments alot. I do not see the big deal
me too. I actually get a little annoyed when I write someone a detailed response and they don't say anything or worse when someone asks a question and you FM them and they don't respond
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| Posted 12/27/07 11:27 AM |
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DeniseMarie
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Re: Spinoff from the Drama post!
Posted by lipglossjunky73
Posted by Mssissy
You know what's funny about this. I sometime don't respond with a "thank you" because I don't want people thinking she's bumping her own post. I just hope I don't come off rude by not saying Thank You.
Seems you can't win either way
Actually, now that you mention it, sometimes if I'm gone all day, and I see a whole bunch of responses, but my thread moved on to page 3, I will leave it alone unless someone says something super spectacular in my thread, because I'm like - eh, why bring it to the front page again!
thats what I do.
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| Posted 12/27/07 11:33 AM |
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Candy Girl
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Re: Spinoff from the Drama post!
I don't know, I guess I never really became accustomed to this online forum/chat method of communication. I posted on LIW quite regularly and when someone said "You looked so nice!" I would say "thanks" just like I would in real life. I didn't thank each individual poster for a compliment, but I would say "Thanks ladies" or something like that...
I never saw it as bumping a post. Sigh. Now it is?
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| Posted 12/27/07 11:34 AM |
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