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Spinoff to 25 Things Not To Say
I am dealing with a friend (Tracy) who is gossiping about me (#20 on the list) and I'm taking it pretty tough. I just hate it.
She was able to easily conceive two kids (she is currently preg with #2 and complains about it ALL THE TIME) and I just am so mad. She is pumping another friend (Jen) who knows that I'm going to the dr and getting iui for info. Luckily Jen is not telling her a THING but she texted me to tell me that it was going on. I seriously want to defriend Tracy. UGH.
Thanks for listening to me vent!!
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Posted 4/11/14 10:16 AM |
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Re: Spinoff to 25 Things Not To Say
I would call her out on it but that's just me. Something along the lines of "I heard that you have been asking about my personal medical issues. If I wanted to share this with you, I would"
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Posted 4/11/14 10:33 AM |
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ANewDayHasCome
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Spinoff to 25 Things Not To Say
I love how you name dropped.
I would be pissed to and it happened to me. I only recently confronted the person who was telling everyone my business, after having dd mind you. I know it wasn't done maliciously so I wasn't mad. I'm just a very private person and it wasn't her info to share with people that we did Ivf.
Just keep your distance. She should get the hint.
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Posted 4/11/14 10:36 AM |
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ANewDayHasCome
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Re: Spinoff to 25 Things Not To Say
Posted by secretlyTTCagain
I would call her out on it but that's just me. Something along the lines of "I heard that you have been asking about my personal medical issues. If I wanted to share this with you, I would"
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Posted 4/11/14 10:36 AM |
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MrsM0829
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Spinoff to 25 Things Not To Say
I'd have your friend that knows what's going on feed the other one totally ridiculous information, so if/when she repeats it, she'll look like a fool.
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Posted 4/11/14 11:16 AM |
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jessnbrian
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Re: Spinoff to 25 Things Not To Say
Posted by secretlyTTCagain
I would call her out on it but that's just me. Something along the lines of "I heard that you have been asking about my personal medical issues. If I wanted to share this with you, I would"
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Posted 4/11/14 11:19 AM |
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hazel2
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Re: Spinoff to 25 Things Not To Say
That is so annoying and something you do not need at this time!!
I have only shared our journey with a few close friends and one of them a few weeks ago said to me...."so what is the real problem?" Then was suggesting in a round-a-bout way she thought a lot of it was mental and in our heads....
At that moment I realized I cannot spend my time with people that bring me down or make me want to murder ...so I distanced myself from a lot of people. It's making me rethink a lot of my relationships.
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Posted 4/11/14 11:52 AM |
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