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Have you ever had the police called on your for domestic violence

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Spinoff to Domestic Violence: Have you ever had the cops called on you & your SO?

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nrthshgrl
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Spinoff to Domestic Violence: Have you ever had the cops called on you & your SO?

Have you ever had the cops called on you & your SO for domestic violence?

Not necessary to elaborate..

Posted 7/19/10 11:17 AM
 

headoverheels
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Re: Spinoff to Domestic Violence: Have you ever had the cops called on you & your SO?

No - but there was one time where DH and I were yelling SO loudly that my MIL might have wanted to Chat Icon (we were living with them at the time).

Posted 7/19/10 11:18 AM
 

summerBaby10
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Re: Spinoff to Domestic Violence: Have you ever had the cops called on you & your SO?

No & if I ever felt like I had to/will have to, we would not be together.

Posted 7/19/10 11:31 AM
 

pinkandblue
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Re: Spinoff to Domestic Violence: Have you ever had the cops called on you & your SO?

nope but we have had some knock down drag out fights (screaming, etc, no physical violence) - not in a long time though, now I just tell him to eff off and walk away when I am mad Chat Icon

Posted 7/19/10 11:37 AM
 

Shorty
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Re: Spinoff to Domestic Violence: Have you ever had the cops called on you & your SO?

nope, never had a fight loud enough for it.

Posted 7/19/10 11:43 AM
 

debsabourin13
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Re: Spinoff to Domestic Violence: Have you ever had the cops called on you & your SO?

Nobody ever called the cops on me and my EXDH but I wish they had. That would NEVER happen with my current DH...which is why I love him so much!

Posted 7/19/10 11:50 AM
 

MrsPJB2007
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Re: Spinoff to Domestic Violence: Have you ever had the cops called on you & your SO?

I remember one fight that DH and I had in our old apt. I think we were lucky that it was a basement apt and the landlord lived on the 2nd floor...the way we were screaming, (well mostly me Chat Icon) someone could have thought it was phone call worthy.

Since that night, we've never had anything like that...but I could see how someone could have called the cops if they heard us.

Posted 7/19/10 11:57 AM
 

saraH
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Re: Spinoff to Domestic Violence: Have you ever had the cops called on you & your SO?

no, but we had a doosy this weekend.

Posted 7/19/10 12:05 PM
 

CrankyPants
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Re: Spinoff to Domestic Violence: Have you ever had the cops called on you & your SO?

No, we don't yell and scream during fights and never hit or throw things so there hasn't been anything questionable to call on.

Posted 7/19/10 1:07 PM
 

pinkandblue
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Re: Spinoff to Domestic Violence: Have you ever had the cops called on you & your SO?

Posted by CrankyPants

No, we don't yell and scream during fights and never hit or throw things so there hasn't been anything questionable to call on.



what does a fight consist of then?Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/19/10 1:36 PM
 

Ophelia
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Re: Spinoff to Domestic Violence: Have you ever had the cops called on you & your SO?

no. we are not screamers. especially my husband.

he would let his head explode before raising his voice at me...not for my protection but b/c it's just not who he is.

I have taken many pains to reign in my vicious temper....it is just not a place I care to visit.

Posted 7/19/10 1:42 PM
 

Kara
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Re: Spinoff to Domestic Violence: Have you ever had the cops called on you & your SO?

Never.

I don't even think I've ever heard my DH raise his voice to anyone -- certainly never to me. We don't yell when we argue. We're certainly not throwing things or doing anything that would make someone think a call to the cops would be warranted. It's just not how we argue.

We're louder when we're excited / really happy than we are when we're disagreeing or arguing.

Posted 7/19/10 2:02 PM
 

eddiesmommy
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Re: Spinoff to Domestic Violence: Have you ever had the cops called on you & your SO?

Posted by Dani10

No & if I ever felt like I had to/will have to, we would not be together.



agreed.

Posted 7/19/10 2:09 PM
 

NinaLemon
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Re: Spinoff to Domestic Violence: Have you ever had the cops called on you & your SO?

Posted by Dani10

No & if I ever felt like I had to/will have to, we would not be together.



That is how it would be for me too, if I were afraid or felt I needed to call the police that would be the end of the marriage.

Posted 7/19/10 2:13 PM
 

MissMeliss
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Re: Spinoff to Domestic Violence: Have you ever had the cops called on you & your SO?

Posted by Dani10

No & if I ever felt like I had to/will have to, we would not be together.



ITA.

Posted 7/19/10 2:23 PM
 

MrsFrizzle
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Re: Spinoff to Domestic Violence: Have you ever had the cops called on you & your SO?

We're italian we are both loud and we both yell.....which is not the best idea because we live in a condo, however our neighbor is practically deaf lol


ETA - but no never any phone calls ever

Message edited 7/19/2010 3:05:54 PM.

Posted 7/19/10 3:05 PM
 

GioiaMia
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Re: Spinoff to Domestic Violence: Have you ever had the cops called on you & your SO?

No BUT I bet if we lived in an apartment building that would change Chat Icon

Heck, we fight almost daily now b/c he wants me to stop working and driving LOL and they get L O U D

Posted 7/19/10 3:11 PM
 

PaddysGirl
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Re: Spinoff to Domestic Violence: Have you ever had the cops called on you & your SO?

In the past with my ex - yes.

With my BF now - never. If we do get loud with each other, that has never lasted more than a few minutes.

Posted 7/19/10 3:13 PM
 

MsSissy
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Re: Spinoff to Domestic Violence: Have you ever had the cops called on you & your SO?

No, not in any relationship.

Posted 7/19/10 3:15 PM
 

maxsgirl
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Re: Spinoff to Domestic Violence: Have you ever had the cops called on you & your SO?

I've never been in a fight where I would think the cops would need to be called. DH and I have had arguements but nothing extreme.

Posted 7/19/10 3:17 PM
 

Cheeks24
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Re: Spinoff to Domestic Violence: Have you ever had the cops called on you & your SO?

Nope, never.

Posted 7/19/10 3:33 PM
 

CrankyPants
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Re: Spinoff to Domestic Violence: Have you ever had the cops called on you & your SO?

Posted by pinkandblue

Posted by CrankyPants

No, we don't yell and scream during fights and never hit or throw things so there hasn't been anything questionable to call on.



what does a fight consist of then?Chat Icon Chat Icon



Oh, it's usually me getting sarcastic and condescending and rolling my eyes and then Chris starts the next 10000 sentences with "Lenore, can I say something" or "Lenore, when you are done interrupting me let me know" or, my favorite, "Lenore, my patience has limits"

It's just so much fun.

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

So, not much better!

Posted 7/19/10 3:34 PM
 

DRMom
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Re: Spinoff to Domestic Violence: Have you ever had the cops called on you & your SO?

NEVER. Though we always lived in our own houses so who knows if someone would have?

Posted 7/19/10 4:02 PM
 

Janice
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Re: Spinoff to Domestic Violence: Have you ever had the cops called on you & your SO?

no! dh has never even named called before...i don't think he has ever cursed at me either.

he is the ying to my yang because I am a naming calling bucket of ugliness.

Posted 7/19/10 4:22 PM
 

luvsun27
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Re: Spinoff to Domestic Violence: Have you ever had the cops called on you & your SO?

Yes...hence one of the reasons he is EXH now Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/19/10 4:26 PM
 
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