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Usually early 41 32.80%
Usually right on time 38 30.40%
A couple of minutes late 16 12.80%
10 minutes late 9 7.20%
15 minutes or more late 11 8.80%
50/50--half the time I am late, the other half I am on time 10 8.00%
 

Spinoff to not having time--LATENESS

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DiamondGirl
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Spinoff to not having time--LATENESS

Okay so are you someone who is punctual or are you someone who is always, habitually 5, 10 ,15 minutes late?

And why?

Posted 12/15/09 8:19 AM
 

headoverheels
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LB

Re: Spinoff to not having time--LATENESS

I always try really, really hard to be on time but when you have a kid something ALWAYS comes up and I'm sometimes 5-10 minutes late. Not often though. And I always try and prepare myself, to have everything ready to go wayyyy ahead of time, and there's always that one thing that I forgot to do/bring!

Then of course when we are going out I change my outfit 80 times and that makes us late Chat Icon

Posted 12/15/09 8:28 AM
 

KGools
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Re: Spinoff to not having time--LATENESS

I try so hard to be a few minutes early or right on time.

Being late (to anything) gives me such anxiety.

Posted 12/15/09 8:30 AM
 

greenfreak
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Re: Spinoff to not having time--LATENESS

I can't remember the last time I was late to anything. I pride myself on it, and being reliable. However, I know plenty of people who are constantly late with one excuse or another, or who don't care to explain at all.

It's a peeve of mine.

Posted 12/15/09 8:38 AM
 

HeathKernandez
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baby fish mouth

Re: Spinoff to not having time--LATENESS

I'm always running late... I try my best but something ALWAYS comes up.

this is for personal things... for anything school/work related I'm either early or on time.

Message edited 12/15/2009 9:09:08 AM.

Posted 12/15/09 9:08 AM
 

Shorty
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Re: Spinoff to not having time--LATENESS

Posted by KGools

I try so hard to be a few minutes early or right on time.

Being late (to anything) gives me such anxiety.



me too!

however, now with the baby, i'd rather be 5-10 minutes late than drive quickly or rush. I'm lucky that i have a boss that would do the same, so he understands. (eta: his sitter is right by my office, so i drive 35 mins each way with him in the car)

Message edited 12/15/2009 9:37:13 AM.

Posted 12/15/09 9:36 AM
 

Candy Girl
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erin

Re: Spinoff to not having time--LATENESS

I am always, always early. I have terrible anxiety about being late, so even if I am right on time, I was probably having a heart attack about being late a few minutes prior to my arrival.


ETA: I was once so early to a Mommy GTG that i took DD for a 1/2 hour walk around my friend's neighborhood to kill time. I always find something to do with my extra time--get coffee, a newspaper, sit in a cafe...whatever. And I NEVER rush. I just leave plenty of time to get where I am going. If I am running late, it has to do with circumstances out of my control like the traffic.

Message edited 12/15/2009 9:43:34 AM.

Posted 12/15/09 9:40 AM
 

MrsPJB2007
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Re: Spinoff to not having time--LATENESS

I'm always on time or a few minutes early.

I DESPISE lateness -- its a GIANT pet peeve of mine, so I make sure that I am not late when it comes to meeting up with others.

Posted 12/15/09 9:47 AM
 

LightUpOurLife
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Bonnie-Jean

Re: Spinoff to not having time--LATENESS

I'm always early. Now if it is something DH and I have to do together, I'm late because of him. I've already decided to tell him Christmas eve starts an hour earlier than it really does.

Posted 12/15/09 9:53 AM
 

Jenn627
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Re: Spinoff to not having time--LATENESS

I am either right on time or 3 mins late.

Rarely early.

Posted 12/15/09 9:59 AM
 

DiamondGirl
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Re: Spinoff to not having time--LATENESS

I am usually early..which annoys me bc I am always the first person and waiting for people Chat Icon I dread being late..

I can totally see if you have a baby or young children why you would run a cple minutes late, but I find it rude when people are constantly late for no apparent reason!Chat Icon

Message edited 12/15/2009 10:05:46 AM.

Posted 12/15/09 10:05 AM
 

pinkandblue
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Re: Spinoff to not having time--LATENESS

I am always on time if not early...i HATE being late, it actually sends me into a panic Chat Icon

Posted 12/15/09 10:08 AM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: Spinoff to not having time--LATENESS

Late. It's a horrible flaw that I really do need to correct. It does show a lack of respect to the person waiting.Chat Icon

Posted 12/15/09 10:45 AM
 

Kara
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Re: Spinoff to not having time--LATENESS

Posted by pinkandblue

I am always on time if not early...i HATE being late, it actually sends me into a panic Chat Icon



Same here.

Lateness is an enormous pet peeve of mine, probably because I am so busy. No, I don't want people speeding or something to avoid being 5 minutes late for coffee -- but I really hate when people are habitually 15, 30, or more minutes late. Of course things sometimes come up and you run a few minutes late... but I find habitual lateness disrespectful.

Message edited 12/15/2009 10:46:34 AM.

Posted 12/15/09 10:45 AM
 

Jax430
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Re: Spinoff to not having time--LATENESS

I hate being late. I get to work early every day, even if there is traffic. I leave plenty of extra time. I am typically early to things, but I try not to do that for parties, b/c then I end up standing around waiting for people. I really, really like to be on time though.

Posted 12/15/09 10:51 AM
 

Phyl
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Re: Spinoff to not having time--LATENESS

I am very punctual. My whole family is. I think it is so rude to keep people waiting. It's a HUGE pet peeve of mine.

Posted 12/15/09 11:03 AM
 

seaside
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Re: Spinoff to not having time--LATENESS

Always punctual. It relates to what we said about people with "no time." At the end of the day, you are what you do. If I am late I am screaming to someone else that I am more important than they are. If I claim to have no time, but then I find it for stupid things, I am chossing to prioritize the stupid things over the things I claim I wish I had the time to do. It's all about accountability.

Posted 12/15/09 11:04 AM
 

Nifheim
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Re: Spinoff to not having time--LATENESS

i am always on time if not early but if i do run late i call way before i was supposed to be somewhere and update.

My pet peeve is at work, now i understand having kids can be challenging at times getting them up and ready and to daycare (which is right at work) but to be 45 minutes late 3-4 x's a week DRIVES ME INSANE! And they get away with it all the time. Grrr...

Posted 12/15/09 11:06 AM
 

glinda-goodwitch
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Re: Spinoff to not having time--LATENESS

It very much depends. Interviews, meetings, appointments, dinners at someone's house, or meeting a small group of people somewhere: early

For parties where I know there are a lot of people: I like to be fashionably late, i.e. 30 mins late

For happy hours, and other lax things: on time to a few minutes late.

Posted 12/15/09 11:25 AM
 

evnme
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Re: Spinoff to not having time--LATENESS

i am usually early, or right on time

Posted 12/15/09 1:31 PM
 

PotofLuck06
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Member since 11/06

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Betsy

Re: Spinoff to not having time--LATENESS

I'm early for nearly everything, but sometimes even I can't help it and I end up being there as a mtg begins or a few min late.

Posted 12/15/09 1:34 PM
 

hazeleyes33
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Re: Spinoff to not having time--LATENESS

Posted by MrsPJB2007

I'm always on time or a few minutes early.

I DESPISE lateness -- its a GIANT pet peeve of mine, so I make sure that I am not late when it comes to meeting up with others.




Ditto. My dh HATES when people are late. I would say that most of the time there is NO reason for someone to be late.

Posted 12/15/09 1:40 PM
 

lvdolphins
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Re: Spinoff to not having time--LATENESS

I used to always be on time, or, even early...Now, with 2 kids, no matter how hard I try, Im late.

Posted 12/15/09 1:54 PM
 

Pray4Baby2010
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Re: Spinoff to not having time--LATENESS

its my dh's fault- he's always late- I was always ontime till I met him and he's sucked me into his evil ways

Posted 12/15/09 1:57 PM
 

CaseyGirl
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Re: Spinoff to not having time--LATENESS

Posted by KGools

I try so hard to be a few minutes early or right on time.

Being late (to anything) gives me such anxiety.



same here - I figure, I can control that (except for unexpected traffic etc), so if it is in my control I try to be on time or early.

Posted 12/15/09 2:47 PM
 
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