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Are you still with your child's father?

Forum Opinion Poll
Yes, we got married. 9 25.71%
Yes, we're together but not married. 0 0.00%
No, we're not together I'm a single mom. 6 17.14%
No, we're not together but I'm dating someone else. 1 2.86%
No, we're not together. I've since found someone else and married them. 6 17.14%
Other - Please explain. 13 37.14%
 

Spinoff to the NEW Abortion Poll: To those of you who had unplanned pregnancies and kept your child...

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HoneyBadger
YourWorstNightmare.

Member since 10/06

15979 total posts

Name:
BahBahBlackJeep

Spinoff to the NEW Abortion Poll: To those of you who had unplanned pregnancies and kept your child...

...Are you still with that child's father?

Posted 9/10/08 2:17 PM
 

My4GirlsMyLife
My 4 girlies

Member since 2/08

9702 total posts

Name:
Valerie

Re: Spinoff to the NEW Abortion Poll: To those of you who had unplanned pregnancies and kept your child...

I had #1 when Dh and I were together for 1 yr then #2 5 yrs later we got married last yr after being together for 10 yrs and now I have another

Posted 9/10/08 2:25 PM
 

lucyloo
nope

Member since 1/06

9758 total posts

Name:

Re: Spinoff to the NEW Abortion Poll: To those of you who had unplanned pregnancies and kept your child...

I voted other just because I wanted to see the results. Chat Icon

Posted 9/10/08 2:30 PM
 

MarathonKnitter
HAPPY

Member since 2/07

17374 total posts

Name:
EMBRACING CHANGE

Re: Spinoff to the NEW Abortion Poll: To those of you who had unplanned pregnancies and kept your child...

i think i fall under "other"

i did marry my son's father. he hit me while i was pregnant, so i divorced him.

and now, i'm back to being a single-mom

Posted 9/10/08 2:37 PM
 

DaniJude
You're My Home <3

Member since 11/06

14815 total posts

Name:
Danielle

Re: Spinoff to the NEW Abortion Poll: To those of you who had unplanned pregnancies and kept your child...

my nephew was unplanned.

my nephew's mother and my brother talked about getting married but their relationship was just not working out so they broke up - never getting married. they now live in the same town - very close so that christopher can take the school bus from either ken's place or his mother's place. it works well.

they are amicable and make sure to always do whatever they can to help christopher and always put him first. she is dating other people and my brother is hurt now but was dating around before the crash.

Posted 9/10/08 2:42 PM
 

CCMommy
EVERYTHING CHANGES

Member since 12/07

2528 total posts

Name:
CC's Mommy

Re: Spinoff to the NEW Abortion Poll: To those of you who had unplanned pregnancies and kept your child...

I got pregnant when I was 19 and had DS at 20..obviously it was not planned.

DS is the best thing that ever happened to me. Looking back now I can't imagine not having him. Chat Icon When I found out I was preg I didn't even consider any other options, I just knew keeping him was the right thing, for me, no matter what happened with his father and I.

DH (his father) and I have been married for almost 4 years now. It hasn't always been easy being so young and everything, but DS lights up my life and every day I am so thankful to have him. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

EDA: Oops.. I put the wrong amount of time we've been married.. dummy Chat Icon

Message edited 9/10/2008 6:40:17 PM.

Posted 9/10/08 2:42 PM
 

Lisa
I'm a PANK!!!

Member since 5/05

22334 total posts

Name:
Professional Aunts No Kids

Re: Spinoff to the NEW Abortion Poll: To those of you who had unplanned pregnancies and kept your child...

Posted by dita

I voted other just because I wanted to see the results. Chat Icon



Chat Icon Chat Icon

You can see the results without having to vote Chat Icon

Posted 9/10/08 2:48 PM
 

SoinLove
Making big changes

Member since 5/05

16541 total posts

Name:
Kristin

Re: Spinoff to the NEW Abortion Poll: To those of you who had unplanned pregnancies and kept your child...

Like I said in the other thread, DH and I were 6 months away from our wedding when if found out that I was pregnant with DS. We had a small wedding two months after I found out, but went on with the big wedding anyway (it was already paid for) and DH and I are still together today, over 3 years later. I think regardless of whether we were engaged or not, we would have continued with the pregnancy.

Posted 9/10/08 2:51 PM
 

HeathKernandez
Our Ron is an awesome Ron

Member since 4/07

9091 total posts

Name:
baby fish mouth

Re: Spinoff to the NEW Abortion Poll: To those of you who had unplanned pregnancies and kept your child...

nope.

haven't seen him since DS was about 2...

have since married the most amazing man (and father)

Posted 9/10/08 2:53 PM
 

BellaRock
I am all the Me I will ever Be

Member since 5/06

9746 total posts

Name:
She who shall remain nameless

Re: Spinoff to the NEW Abortion Poll: To those of you who had unplanned pregnancies and kept your child...

Yes. We didn't get married right away but we lived together ever since DS was born. We got married 2 years ago.

Posted 9/10/08 2:53 PM
 

watersdeb04
Back to school is here

Member since 12/07

1052 total posts

Name:
Deb

Re: Spinoff to the NEW Abortion Poll: To those of you who had unplanned pregnancies and kept your child...

I can't answer for myself but my bff did not marry her baby's father, got married to someone else, and now is divorced.

Posted 9/10/08 3:42 PM
 

headoverheels
s'il vous plaît

Member since 6/07

42079 total posts

Name:
LB

Re: Spinoff to the NEW Abortion Poll: To those of you who had unplanned pregnancies and kept your child...

Posted by Lisa

Posted by dita

I voted other just because I wanted to see the results. Chat Icon



Chat Icon Chat Icon

You can see the results without having to vote Chat Icon



until you said this i never knew this Chat Icon i just noticed the link!!

Posted 9/10/08 4:01 PM
 

VirginiaDeb
Don't eat me, hippo!

Member since 5/05

9252 total posts

Name:
Deb

Re: Spinoff to the NEW Abortion Poll: To those of you who had unplanned pregnancies and kept your child...

I've never been pregnant, but on the flip side, my friend's brother's ex girlfriend had the baby, they got engaged, and then she left him with the little boy.

He's 4 now and so amazing. Mom has since married, had another son, and has very little to do w/ the 4 year old.

My friend's brother is an amazing (though still slightly confused) father.

Posted 9/10/08 4:29 PM
 

Rycois
Blessed with 2blue/2pink

Member since 12/05

13341 total posts

Name:
J

Re: Spinoff to the NEW Abortion Poll: To those of you who had unplanned pregnancies and kept your child...

Posted by dita

I voted other just because I wanted to see the results. Chat Icon



Me too! Annoying you have to vote to see !

ETS: I never knew you could see Chat Icon Sorry Chat Icon

Message edited 9/10/2008 4:37:03 PM.

Posted 9/10/08 4:36 PM
 

MsSissy
xoxoxo

Member since 3/07

39159 total posts

Name:

Re: Spinoff to the NEW Abortion Poll: To those of you who had unplanned pregnancies and kept your child...

No I'm not. But than again we were 15 & 16 and he didn't even stick around for the pregnancy.
Best thing he could have done for me and my daughter.Chat Icon

Posted 9/10/08 4:39 PM
 

DC HJJ M

Member since 8/07

3732 total posts

Name:
Crystal

Re: Spinoff to the NEW Abortion Poll: To those of you who had unplanned pregnancies and kept your child...

We were together for a little while after I found out I was pregnant but then he left me when I was 4 months along. Either way it doesnt matter because my dd is the absolute BEST thing that has ever happened to me. I wouldnt change anything.

Posted 9/10/08 5:14 PM
 

rojerono
Happiest.

Member since 8/06

13803 total posts

Name:
Jeannie

Re: Spinoff to the NEW Abortion Poll: To those of you who had unplanned pregnancies and kept your child...

Well - we had only been 'officially' dating for about 6 months when I got pregnant - and I didn't want to get married - but we decided (when I was 8 months pregnant) to move in together.

We did - eventually - get married. But we had a 2nd child and bought a house before we took that step.

We are still married.

Posted 9/10/08 5:24 PM
 
 

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