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MetsGirl07
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still no AF .. getting really upset
i am sooo confused.. i dont know what is going on with me 
i was supposed to get AF yesterday and i have no signs at all that she is coming.. the last time i tested was early Sat morning.
is it too late to get a BFP ?
should i even test again?
i just didnt think you can get a BFP 14DPO or 15DPO.. is it possible?
thanks girls!
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Posted 6/30/08 9:41 AM  |
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headoverheels
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Re: still no AF .. getting really upset
you can definitely get a BFP now. there are several girls on here who didn't get a BFP until they were a few days late. i hope that's the case for you
keep in mind, though, that since your m/c your cycles may not be perfectly regular for a while.
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| Posted 6/30/08 9:42 AM |
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JennyPenny
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Re: still no AF .. getting really upset
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| Posted 6/30/08 9:45 AM |
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MetsGirl07
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Re: still no AF .. getting really upset
Posted by headoverheels
you can definitely get a BFP now. there are several girls on here who didn't get a BFP until they were a few days late. i hope that's the case for you
keep in mind, though, that since your m/c your cycles may not be perfectly regular for a while.
yea i was thinking it might have something to do with my MC.. but i just assumed that since i got AF exactly a month after my MC, i was regular.. but now im not so sure.
thanks for the advice!
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| Posted 6/30/08 9:50 AM |
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Porrruss
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Re: still no AF .. getting really upset
Are you charting to confirm O? It is VERY possible that you ovulated later than you used to since your body is still likely getting itself back on track after your loss.
I know that PP, I didn't ovulate nearly as early as I used to for awhile.
GL- I really REALLY hope you get your BFP!!!
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| Posted 6/30/08 9:50 AM |
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Daisy32
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Re: still no AF .. getting really upset
I dont remember her name but there was a very sweet girl on here that got her BFP at 17dpo!! So dont give up just yet
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| Posted 6/30/08 9:52 AM |
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Porrruss
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Re: still no AF .. getting really upset
Wanted to add- after I had DD, my cycles went right back to a 28-29 day cycle- BUT I was Oing at like day 19 or 20 whereas before I Oed on day 13-14.
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| Posted 6/30/08 9:53 AM |
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MetsGirl07
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Re: still no AF .. getting really upset
Posted by Porrruss
Are you charting to confirm O? It is VERY possible that you ovulated later than you used to since your body is still likely getting itself back on track after your loss.
I know that PP, I didn't ovulate nearly as early as I used to for awhile.
GL- I really REALLY hope you get your BFP!!!
no, i didnt chart when i O'ed.
we just BD around the time i thought i was. you can be totally right though.. maybe i just O'ed late or something.
i think if i am out this month then i will maybe buy the kit for next time to see if i am off from the MC
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| Posted 6/30/08 9:55 AM |
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MetsGirl07
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Re: still no AF .. getting really upset
Posted by Porrruss
Wanted to add- after I had DD, my cycles went right back to a 28-29 day cycle- BUT I was Oing at like day 19 or 20 whereas before I Oed on day 13-14.
yea i guess this could be happening to me as well..
when i first got my BFP, i O'ed at 14 days.
so maybe since the MC , my body is different.. could that be ?
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| Posted 6/30/08 9:56 AM |
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newwife08
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Re: still no AF .. getting really upset
It def could be that your cycle is just readjusting itself...but def test if you haven't yet, but like one of the girls said it may take a few days for it to show up positive, so we will keep our fingers crossed for you
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| Posted 6/30/08 10:06 AM |
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Jenhos
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Re: still no AF .. getting really upset
With my first child I didn't get a BFP till 2 days after my period was due and with the second not until 4 days after so there is still hope!!!
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| Posted 6/30/08 10:22 AM |
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babyfaith
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Re: still no AF .. getting really upset
I would guess that you may have O'd late this month. I would def. use some sort of charting method next month to avoid this stress and any surprises. OPK is the easiest if you don't want to get involved with temping. Charting CM is also very easy and accurate as well. Best of luck!
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| Posted 6/30/08 10:33 AM |
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diva7531
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Re: still no AF .. getting really upset
You have to relax, your body just went thru something tramatic. You can absolutely get a BFP late, but have to relax, what's gonna happen is going to happen, just breathe!!!!!!!!!
But I am still praying for you!!!
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| Posted 6/30/08 11:12 AM |
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neener1211
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Re: still no AF .. getting really upset
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| Posted 6/30/08 11:15 AM |
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Angel321
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Re: still no AF .. getting really upset
i love you d....
you need to relax - i KNOW - i HATE it when people tell me that - but if you are just going to be flat out late....stressing is only going to make it later.
I learned this last month - when i CONVINCED myself that I was PG and made myself 4 days late because of it..
When AF eventually showed up it hurt so much more...
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| Posted 6/30/08 11:15 AM |
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Bridex100
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Re: still no AF .. getting really upset
I think you still have a chance. Maybe you O'ed late this cycle?
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| Posted 6/30/08 11:56 AM |
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Rycois
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Re: still no AF .. getting really upset
Posted by MetsGirl07
Posted by Porrruss
Wanted to add- after I had DD, my cycles went right back to a 28-29 day cycle- BUT I was Oing at like day 19 or 20 whereas before I Oed on day 13-14.
yea i guess this could be happening to me as well..
when i first got my BFP, i O'ed at 14 days.
so maybe since the MC , my body is different.. could that be ?
Your cycles can def. be off after a miscarriage and change (you may O at a different time or your luteal phase could change). Good luck!!
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| Posted 6/30/08 12:06 PM |
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neener1211
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Re: still no AF .. getting really upset
Check out the chart thread, if you look at my chart, you'll see that the first cycle after we lost the baby, I O'd a week later than I originally thought. So I had been testing a week earlier than I should have.
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| Posted 6/30/08 12:27 PM |
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MetsGirl07
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Re: still no AF .. getting really upset
thank you girls sooo much!! i appreciate all the support, and i feel a little better about things now, and learned a few new things!
so next month i can see when i am REALLY Oing.. lol
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| Posted 6/30/08 12:32 PM |
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futuremommy
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Re: still no AF .. getting really upset
Posted by SweetCaroline
Posted by MetsGirl07
Posted by Porrruss
Wanted to add- after I had DD, my cycles went right back to a 28-29 day cycle- BUT I was Oing at like day 19 or 20 whereas before I Oed on day 13-14.
yea i guess this could be happening to me as well..
when i first got my BFP, i O'ed at 14 days.
so maybe since the MC , my body is different.. could that be ?
Your cycles can def. be off after a miscarriage and change (you may O at a different time or your luteal phase could change). Good luck!!
Definitely agree.
Plus, things can take a while to settle down. My first cycle after MC was seemingly normal - I o'd just two days after I normally would've. But the two cycles since have been really wacky. My hormones are totally out of whack, so even though I'm back to my normal O date, I have spotting at random times and my temps have been all over the place. Give your body some time.
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| Posted 6/30/08 12:49 PM |
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fullofhope13
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Re: still no AF .. getting really upset
Love ya!!
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| Posted 6/30/08 1:14 PM |
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katiebug
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Re: still no AF .. getting really upset
I agree with everyone else and just wanted to offer some and
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| Posted 6/30/08 1:22 PM |
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Lizzy
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Re: still no AF .. getting really upset
Did you test just to be sure?
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| Posted 6/30/08 1:26 PM |
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MetsGirl07
LIF O2 Vendor
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Deanna
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Re: still no AF .. getting really upset
Posted by Lizzy
Did you test just to be sure?
last time i tested was sat.. so that was 13DPO and BFN.. so i might test tomorrow morning..
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| Posted 6/30/08 1:54 PM |
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