such anxiety...

hey girls so i am 13 wks n 4 days preg and my anxiety is getting worse evry day. I have been having nightmares of losing this baby like the last time. Just need a lil extra support this week. I think i am also freakina bit becasue i get my cerclage next week and concerned about that as well.... I guess i just needed a place to vent a lil.

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I am sorry, i know how stressful it must be after going through everything. I think it's def normal to be scared and anxious. I know prior to my last miscarriage...( I was a wreck). I tried to do yoga and excercise while pregnant to help releve some anxiety & stress and it helped!!

Try to think though of the positive and that everything will be ok & soon enough you will hold that little one in your arms.

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I'm so sorry, and know exactly what your going through. Its hard not be anxious all the time now, but we must continue to think positive! And if you ever need to talk or vent feel free to FM

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I know what you're going through also, and I think it's totally normal to be nervous after what you have gone through. It's so hard not to be anxious, but when I feel myself getting overwhelmed, I try to remind myself that a stressed out, anxious mommy is not going to help my baby. It took a LOT of repeating this to myself, but I think it's starting to work! I agree with Rachel, I have also been trying to walk and do yoga to relieve some of the stress. I was never a yoga person before this, but I am finding it very relaxing. Try to stay positive and definitely FM me if you want to talk

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I know how you feel. I miscarried at 8 weeks.

It took 6 months before I for pregnant again. I am only 5 weeks now and I am freaked out. Every little pain or feeling and I find myself going to the bathroom to check.
I still haven't gotten over it. I have been reading statics and information on the internet driving myself crazy!


It is so scary for us. All I can say is pray on it and try to think positive. It is in God's hands.


Good Luck!

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i completely understand the stress you are feeling right now...the best thing you can do is enjoy your pregancy and try to keep the stress levels down, its the best for you and baby! Good Luck next week, and don't worry i'm sure it's just nerves and everything will be ok!

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ahhh
I'm soo sorry!

I'm hopefully going to be in the same boat as you soon though.... not that it's the best boat to be in. But I just went through this ordeal... and i'm waiting to get word from the doc that it's OK to ttc. I KNOW once it happens and I do get pregnant again... i'm going to be an absolute disaster. So I empathize with you on that. it's perfectly normal. Just do your best to remain calm.

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i am with you on the anxiety.
i had a late loss a well.. i had a cerclage put in for this pregnancy and everything is going great! its good that you are getting the procedure done.. it really does help!

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I'm 35 weeks this week and still have anxiety after my loss, but I know I have no control over the situation so I have to relax. Once you feel more movement you will feel better. I promise!

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thanks for all the support i go for a sono and check up on friday and i cant wait to hear the babys heart beat after that ill feel better too xox