Hang in there!! I know what you mean about the anesthesiologist. I still get neck pain that I think won't ever go away because of that darn epi! Things they don't tell you, or tell you when you're already drugged up.
I am really sorry to hear you are in so much pain right now. Can you follow up with your doctor? What did they tell you about how long this should last or is this a chronic condition?
You are a strong person, but going through anything like this with a baby is rough. I hope your pain disappears soon.
i'm sorry you're having a rough time and hope things get better for you very soon. Stay positive and the heck with whoever thinks whatever. Your DS and DH love you and you're a great wife/mother