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The Passing of time and TTC

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beachgirl
LIF Adult

Member since 7/05

7967 total posts

Name:
sara

The Passing of time and TTC

This is our third cycle of ttc and I can honestly say that I have wished away most of the past three months and I feel so guilty about it. I do have lots of fun with our DD but I feel like despite my best efforts I am totally consumed with ttc and that until we get our BFP I will continue to wish the days away.

Does anyone else feel this way?

Message edited 11/6/2008 10:47:59 AM.

Posted 11/6/08 10:47 AM
 
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sweetdreamz1181
Baby Girl on the way!

Member since 1/08

2186 total posts

Name:
Jackie

Re: The Passing of time and TTC

i feel the same way Chat Icon

Posted 11/6/08 11:08 AM
 

CoutureMaMa
nicholas is one!!

Member since 9/07

6081 total posts

Name:
Michelle

Re: The Passing of time and TTC

definitely! i feel like i am always say i cant wait till tomorrow to test agan. lol. its driving me crazy!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/6/08 11:08 AM
 

Ang-Rich
Beyond Compare

Member since 5/05

17988 total posts

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Re: The Passing of time and TTC

Word for word I did until after the third month. At that point I stopped because like you...I was feeling that I was taking time away from my child. That was this weekend...it was all about him...and it felt really good to stop thinking of my life in terms of 2 weeks and test. Kinda like a rush so I am trying to keep with it. Who knows...maybe it's just what I needed.

Posted 11/6/08 11:18 AM
 

MetsGirl07
LIF O2 Vendor

Member since 12/07

16202 total posts

Name:
Deanna

Re: The Passing of time and TTC

although i dont have a child yet , i can completely understand where you are coming from.. it just consumes everything! that you wish the next day will come already.. but you havent enjoyed that day! where we really should, i am learning all this , little by little Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/6/08 11:42 AM
 

DanandNette
Love my baby boy!

Member since 9/08

2830 total posts

Name:
Jennette

Re: The Passing of time and TTC

TTC is definitely consuming me! We are trying ot have our first, but the time between AF an O and then testing and or waiting for AF just seems to take forever. It is so hard not to blurt out all the details of TTC to everyone I come within three feet of!

Posted 11/6/08 11:51 AM
 

Diana1215
Living on a prayer!!!

Member since 10/05

29450 total posts

Name:
Diana

Re: The Passing of time and TTC

Actually when I am with my DS I don't really give TTC a second thought.

It's when I'm on the computer and sitting here alone with my own thoughts that it gets the best of me.

Posted 11/6/08 12:03 PM
 

BlueDiamonds
mommy to 3 boys

Member since 2/07

3885 total posts

Name:
proud mommy

Re: The Passing of time and TTC

yes! we are trying for our first but the months are slipping by and all i've done is put off this or that b/c of TTC. this month i've decided to do something for myself totally unrelated to TTC and it feels great. i just wish i could get back to feeling "normal" again.

Posted 11/6/08 12:08 PM
 

ETAB
Mother Mary Pray for us

Member since 7/07

2052 total posts

Name:

Re: The Passing of time and TTC

Believe me that is the way I have been feeling. It is not healthy it is all I think about .. Since I had a mc/ 6 months ago... i have been obsessed to the point that I could not sleep at night worrying and thinking and hoping.

But I just recently starting going to the gym, I am looking for volunteer opportunities. I need to do something for myself, something that makes me feel good ...

Posted 11/6/08 1:00 PM
 
 

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