Those that had a failed ivf cycle

Are the odds as good for the next one? I have 3 frozen I am going to try first but I wonder why it didn't work? I'm sure after my beta I will meet with my doc but I knew I had some odds against me naturally conceiving. dd was conceived after lap surgery and removal of a hydrosalpinx tube and endo. I got pregnant with iui and cLomid. Then started trying when she was a year old ang got pregnant naturally the first month, almost had heart failure. Lost it at 2 months past due to a hematoma that bursted above gestational sac and baby was gone by my next soon,sucked bc I had heard the heartbeat for weeks. Since then I couldn't get pregnant again. Tried iui etc..decided not to do injectable iuis as I only have one tube and decided to be more aggressive with ivf. I am bummed it didn't work but I am 9 days past transfer and I have never gotten bfp this late.....strip is stark white lol.
Anyhow, did 3 day transfer. Wondering if the odds are less if it doesn't take at all or maybe I had a crappy cycle. I had never stimmed b4 and I was on an antagonist cycle....
Any hope a second time will be better?

Re: Those that had a failed ivf cycle

I know everyone (and every time) is different... but for my 1st IVF we had only 1 embryo make it to transfer on Day2. BFN. For my 2nd, we transferred 3 on Day2 and are now expecting .

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Re: Those that had a failed ivf cycle

My fresh cycle was a BFN I had 3 good embryos transfered day 3, Second FET 3 embryos transfered day 3 BFN, 3rd FET we changed it up and transfered 2 good embroys at day 5 and I finally got my BFP! I did do pinaple the day of the transfer and for five days following and i think it really helped. Don't give up it never makes sense when it doesn't work however it will happen. Sending you lots of baby dust!

Re: Those that had a failed ivf cycle

My first IVF, transferred 2, I did get pregnant (for like 3 minutes) but it was a chemical.

1st Fe-t transferred 2, M/C at 5 weeks.

2nd fresh IVF- transferred 3 and now 15 weeks pregnant with

My doctor told me the chances remain the same until your 7 or 8 th cycle then they decrease. Sometimes its just a game of numbers, the more you do it, the more your odds increase. Best of luck to you.!

Re: Those that had a failed ivf cycle

Thank you! I'm hoping the frozens might work! I just won't give up! Until I can't afford it I suppose!

Re: Those that had a failed ivf cycle

There is definitely hope. We got pregnant from an FET for DC#1 and we did get pregnant with another FET while trying for DC#2 but it was a chemical unfortunately.