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Janice
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TMI question for BFers...
Does your DH ignore your boobs in bed?
Mine was always into them, now doesn't even look at them..says he can't. I think he is being selfish. I am asking you to grab them, not feed your kid 8-10 times a day with them. I don't know why this bothers me so much.
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Re: TMI question for BFers...
I voted "other"
when I was BFing, they were off limits (they would leak). That was MY call though.
I've never been so into the boob arousal though, so I didn't miss it.
Message edited 3/15/2007 5:07:13 PM.
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| Posted 3/15/07 5:05 PM |
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Juliet
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Re: TMI question for BFers...
DH wants to touch them and I am actually considering letting him help me build my milk supply. Is that gross? Instead of pumping when DD is finished nursing, maybe I will make DH pump them and he'll feel really excited and I will accomplish something
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| Posted 3/15/07 5:06 PM |
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Janice
Sweet Jessie Quinn
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Re: TMI question for BFers...
Mine still leak..but I have gone as far now as pumping beforehand..and wearing a tight white shirt, he doesn't even have to see them! for some reason, still a no go.
I think its hard, my stomach is such a stretch mark mess, it grosses me out...then I am trying to do the right thing with BFing..and I am being avoided because of it.
not to mention..totally TMI..lately its been quickies, so can we try and do all that is possible for the short timeframe allotted?
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| Posted 3/15/07 5:11 PM |
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MelToddJulia
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Re: TMI question for BFers...
My DH is a total boob man!
I BF Julia for 11 months, and my DH wasn't turned off at all, I only leaked the first 2 months so that never got in the way of him not touching them--lol
I think I was the one that got a little nervous with him touching my boobs cause Julia's mouth was on them 24/7!
Message edited 3/15/2007 5:50:51 PM.
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| Posted 3/15/07 5:17 PM |
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beachgirl
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Re: TMI question for BFers...
not a lot puts DH off doing the deed - poor guy doesnt get it to often so a leaky boob or two wasnt going to stop him ..I feel a bit weird about them though..kind of like they are DD's property now and their function is for nouishment not fun!! weird I know....I am sure that will all change when I eventually wean DD.
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| Posted 3/15/07 5:21 PM |
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MommyofG
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Re: TMI question for BFers...
the little I breast fed, DH was still a boob man. TMI, and may be gross but when my supply was low, DH would help with my supply and he loved it!!!!! I thought it was weird at first but hey its me and it was helping to give our DD what was left of my supply.
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| Posted 3/15/07 5:48 PM |
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Juliet
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Re: TMI question for BFers...
Posted by girlygrl33
the little I breast fed, DH was still a boob man. TMI, and may be gross but when my supply was low, DH would help with my supply and he loved it!!!!! I thought it was weird at first but hey its me and it was helping to give our DD what was left of my supply.
So I am not crazy in thinking he can help me and get some fun out of it.
Maybe I should let him and it might release some good hormones or something and help get the milk supply up.
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| Posted 3/15/07 5:53 PM |
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Janice
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Re: TMI question for BFers...
after sex, my boobs are full. I think it definitely releases something.
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| Posted 3/15/07 5:54 PM |
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Juliet
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Re: TMI question for BFers...
Posted by Janice
after sex, my boobs are full. I think it definitely releases something.
I wonder if after my midwife appt on Monday and we get the green light to do the deed, maybe I will start to feel better.
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| Posted 3/15/07 5:56 PM |
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Janice
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Re: TMI question for BFers...
Posted by Juliet
Posted by Janice
after sex, my boobs are full. I think it definitely releases something.
I wonder if after my midwife appt on Monday and we get the green light to do the deed, maybe I will start to feel better.
 I think sometimes we forget what our bodies went through..you grew a baby. Its crazy. I know its natural and all that..but we grew babies. Now we are being milked! That is taking a toll on everything! Each day I started to feel a little more like me.
My mojo finally came back. I swear Josh sleeping through the night made life worth living again.
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| Posted 3/15/07 5:59 PM |
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MommyofG
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Re: TMI question for BFers...
Posted by Juliet
Posted by girlygrl33
the little I breast fed, DH was still a boob man. TMI, and may be gross but when my supply was low, DH would help with my supply and he loved it!!!!! I thought it was weird at first but hey its me and it was helping to give our DD what was left of my supply.
So I am not crazy in thinking he can help me and get some fun out of it.
Maybe I should let him and it might release some good hormones or something and help get the milk supply up.
oh no you are not crazy and I will say it helped. We started the deed at 5 weeks when we got the green light and I have to say it released a lot, my BF was horrible and frustrating and being intimate helped me a great deal with the stress.
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| Posted 3/15/07 6:09 PM |
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SuzyQ
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Re: TMI question for BFers...
Posted by Janice
I think sometimes we forget what our bodies went through..you grew a baby. Its crazy. I know its natural and all that..but we grew babies. Now we are being milked! That is taking a toll on everything! Each day I started to feel a little more like me.
My mojo finally came back. I swear Josh sleeping through the night made life worth living again.
I think my DH is more of a boob man now because they're so big. The few times we have "done the deed" I have left my oh so attractive nursing bra on so that I don't leak all over the place. Fun! Does wonders for my self image! My mojo still has not come back, except for one time when I had 2 glasses of wine. Maybe if and when Lily sleeps through the night in her own room, it will help.
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Disneygirl
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Re: TMI question for BFers...
Until I'm done BF my boobs are off limit to DH. It's my choice they're still a little on the sensitive side and I still occasionally leak.
ETA: He was never really a boob man to begin with. As long as the rest of my body is fair game he's fine with it!
Message edited 3/15/2007 8:24:22 PM.
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