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Today is DH's b-day and I have no gift. Opinion needed

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pharmcat2000
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Catherine

Today is DH's b-day and I have no gift. Opinion needed

For the first time, I have no idea of what to get him. He wants a tatoo. I don't want him to get one. Anybody who has them, don't get offended. I just don't care for them for me, or for my DH. I have seen a lot on other people that are very nice, but I would just prefer he not have one.

Do I svck it up and let him get one, even though I really don't want him to? Or do I find something else to give him?

Posted 6/1/11 9:09 AM
 
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headoverheels
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LB

Re: Today is DH's b-day and I have no gift. Opinion needed

I can't imagine saying no if it was something he REALLY wanted and has wanted for a while.

Can you have a say about where he gets it?

Posted 6/1/11 9:11 AM
 

Irishgrl13
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Member since 6/09

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Colleen

Re: Today is DH's b-day and I have no gift. Opinion needed

I would probably find something else to give him.... In the end, he is a grown man and will get one if he really wants it...but if you are against it, I would encourage it by buying it for him.

DH and I are in the same situation...I want another one, but he REALLY doesn't want me to get it. I probably won't, b/c I know how he feels about it...but if he were to give me a GC to a tatoo place, then I would definitely get it done.

Posted 6/1/11 9:15 AM
 

LightUpOurLife
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Name:
Bonnie-Jean

Re: Today is DH's b-day and I have no gift. Opinion needed

Depends on how much I REALLLLLLY didn't want him to get one.

Posted 6/1/11 11:15 AM
 

CrankyPants
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Mama Cranky

Re: Today is DH's b-day and I have no gift. Opinion needed

Posted by Irishgrl13

I would probably find something else to give him.... In the end, he is a grown man and will get one if he really wants it...but if you are against it, I would encourage it by buying it for him.




I agree-he can make his own decision but there is no need for me to allocate funding for it. I would pick a new gift.

Posted 6/1/11 11:34 AM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: Today is DH's b-day and I have no gift. Opinion needed

I don't like tattoos either so I get where you're coming from. If you're stuck on a gift, then yes, I'd give him a gift cert for a well-researched, well-respected tattoo parlor. That way it's two gifts - the gift of the tattoo & the gift of understanding.

Plus if he's getting it anyway, I'd look at it as saving some money.Chat Icon

Posted 6/1/11 12:22 PM
 
 

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