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evenedan
Need a little sunshine
Member since 9/05 3843 total posts
Name: D
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Re: Toxic Friends
Yep, I've got one, though I don't really see her as a "friend" anymore. I'm annoyed at myself over the whole thing because I thought I was a better judge of character than that. It's taken me a while to realize that this person just can't stand to see anyone else happy and I don't need a friend who wishes me ill will.
Message edited 8/30/2007 3:07:34 PM.
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Posted 8/30/07 3:03 PM |
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pmpkn087
Life is good...
Member since 9/05 18504 total posts
Name: Stephanie
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Re: Toxic Friends
Yep! That's why I only have one friend right now
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Posted 8/30/07 3:08 PM |
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Re: Toxic Friends
I have a toxic co-worker. Everything turns into a HUGE drama issue - both professionally and personally.
I wish I could phase her out, but it looks like I'm in for the long haul!
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Posted 8/30/07 3:11 PM |
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LaurenExp
Waiting patiently for baby sis
Member since 8/06 11613 total posts
Name: L-Diddy EDD 11/11/11 :)
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Re: Toxic Friends
That's happening right now to me. So sad, we've been friends since high school.
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Posted 8/30/07 4:00 PM |
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Chrisnamy
Summer is coming soon
Member since 1/07 3991 total posts
Name: Amy
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Re: Toxic Friends
Yes, i have a friend who just exhausts me all the time!
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Posted 8/30/07 4:28 PM |
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danielle
LIF Infant
Member since 7/05 137 total posts
Name:
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Re: Toxic Friends
Yes! I now refer to her as negative nancy. I mean, my lord, the most negative person in the world. The worst part is it took me so long to realize that she was bringing me down to her level.
Now I am back up to mine. :)
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Posted 8/30/07 5:13 PM |
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partyof6
b nice like u want ur kidz 2
Member since 7/06 7752 total posts
Name: jeannine
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Re: Toxic Friends
**** yeah..I call them emotional vampires. I'm getting ready to cut one more out very soon too.
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Posted 8/30/07 6:44 PM |
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codybear
Our Family is Complete!
Member since 11/06 2064 total posts
Name: Christine
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Re: Toxic Friends
emotional vampires, how appropriate!
She's a total drain, and good riddence, although I know I will miss her after a while I just can't take it anymore.
I agree, I think its part of a maturing process, these things happen as we grow, right?
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Posted 8/30/07 7:45 PM |
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dooodles
When you wish upon a star
Member since 5/05 11997 total posts
Name: Because 2 people fell in love
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Re: Toxic Friends
Yes, I have had a toxic friend in my life who gladly is no longer in it. She did bring some good qualities to the friendship but when it becomes too much work to be friends with someone - it's time to cut them loose
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Posted 8/30/07 7:46 PM |
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justthe4ofus
I hate hypocrites!!!!!
Member since 5/05 6905 total posts
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Re: Toxic Friends
I had two that I have recently parted ways with and I couldn't be HAPPIER! Their problems have been consuming my life for two years. I helped them through life changes and it was unappreciated. They USED my family, my home and my trust and I was so tired and done with their lies and bs. They didn't care about anything that was going on with me it was only about their lives and their warped perception.
My family was done helping too. My DH didn't even want one of them in our house anymore. Well needless to say when I told him that this was done, first he was LIVID at the things that one person said to me but then he literally danced and sang a song that starts with ding dong
My mother on the other hand feels very betrayed by one because she was so ingrateful to all the help that she had given her and advice. Now I know better never to let my friends use me or my family again. Seriously I have not felt this free in 3 years it AWESOME!!!!!!!! Back to only dealing with the normal and the sane!
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Posted 8/30/07 8:51 PM |
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CheeChee
HI THERE!!!!
Member since 5/05 3416 total posts
Name:
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Re: Toxic Friends
Yes I had one a while back. She needed a great deal of help. It was sad, but it was definitely for the best.
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Posted 8/30/07 9:38 PM |
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conigs25
So in love with this kid!
Member since 5/06 11197 total posts
Name: Michele
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Re: Toxic Friends
I know how youre feeling. Its very hard to deal w/.
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Posted 8/30/07 10:16 PM |
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