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QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: Ugh. I was afraid of this..what do I do?
Posted by MrsERod
in that case - i'd forget about the $400 and walk away. not worth the aggravation IMO.
agreed
you just got a new job
you'll make more than that in a week
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JenniferEver
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Re: Ugh. I was afraid of this..what do I do?
Posted by Blu-ize
I have deposited other people's checks. I endorsed their name and then signed my name with my acct number. You can really do this.
But could I go to jail if someone found out? I mean 99% no one is going to know, and it's my dad's name, we have the same last name, so the bank would suspect nothing... but still. I don't want to do anything illegal.
I sign my mom's name all the time, but with permission
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Re: Ugh. I was afraid of this..what do I do?
Posted by BabyAvocado
Call (so he can't deny getting an E-mail) your Dad, tell him the check is coming and you expect him to endorse it and send it back to you...all the while considering yourself out $400. 
This is probably what I would do too.
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JenniferEver
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Re: Ugh. I was afraid of this..what do I do?
Posted by QuoteTheRaven424
Posted by MrsERod
in that case - i'd forget about the $400 and walk away. not worth the aggravation IMO.
agreed
you just got a new job
you'll make more than that in a week
That's true. I guess I am still not used to the idea of having actual money on a weekly basis.
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JenniferEver
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Re: Ugh. I was afraid of this..what do I do?
I think what I will do is email him with the number all of the information and what he has to do, and if he does it, great, if not, I have my health and my sanity. $400 is not the end of the world.
It is SOO tempting to just forge it and take the money and run.
Thanks for the advice. maybe he will have a heart. It is my birthday next week. It's the least the a-hole could do.
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QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: Ugh. I was afraid of this..what do I do?
Posted by JenniferEver
Posted by Blu-ize
I have deposited other people's checks. I endorsed their name and then signed my name with my acct number. You can really do this.
But could I go to jail if someone found out? I mean 99% no one is going to know, and it's my dad's name, we have the same last name, so the bank would suspect nothing... but still. I don't want to do anything illegal.
I sign my mom's name all the time, but with permission
yes, you could go to jail
plus, i know there are some legal wranglings between he and your mom still
He gets wind of that and uses it in the case against her, so in effect you'd be hurting her
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nrthshgrl
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Re: Ugh. I was afraid of this..what do I do?
Can you get it out from under his name & then get the $400 check?
eta. Tell him now that you're over 18, and based on the circumstances, you want everything under your name.
Message edited 3/29/2007 2:12:43 PM.
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suvenR
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Re: Ugh. I was afraid of this..what do I do?
I hate to throw you a wrench, but a few weeks ago, I tried to deposit a check written to my DH. He DID sign the check, but they wouldn't let me deposit it because it was written to him and not me.
I had to raise hell and they finally deposited the check because I've been banking there for 10 years and know the manager now.
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QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: Ugh. I was afraid of this..what do I do?
Posted by JenniferEver
Posted by QuoteTheRaven424
Posted by MrsERod
in that case - i'd forget about the $400 and walk away. not worth the aggravation IMO.
agreed
you just got a new job
you'll make more than that in a week
That's true. I guess I am still not used to the idea of having actual money on a weekly basis.
you will
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JenniferEver
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Re: Ugh. I was afraid of this..what do I do?
Posted by QuoteTheRaven424
Posted by JenniferEver
Posted by Blu-ize
I have deposited other people's checks. I endorsed their name and then signed my name with my acct number. You can really do this.
But could I go to jail if someone found out? I mean 99% no one is going to know, and it's my dad's name, we have the same last name, so the bank would suspect nothing... but still. I don't want to do anything illegal.
I sign my mom's name all the time, but with permission
yes, you could go to jail
plus, i know there are some legal wranglings between he and your mom still
He gets wind of that and uses it in the case against her, so in effect you'd be hurting her
That's a very good point. I could never hurt my mom over $400, or go to jail for that matter.
And you're right, as soon as I get my first paycheck, I will have more than $400!
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QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: Ugh. I was afraid of this..what do I do?
Posted by JenniferEver
Posted by QuoteTheRaven424
Posted by JenniferEver
Posted by Blu-ize
I have deposited other people's checks. I endorsed their name and then signed my name with my acct number. You can really do this.
But could I go to jail if someone found out? I mean 99% no one is going to know, and it's my dad's name, we have the same last name, so the bank would suspect nothing... but still. I don't want to do anything illegal.
I sign my mom's name all the time, but with permission
yes, you could go to jail
plus, i know there are some legal wranglings between he and your mom still
He gets wind of that and uses it in the case against her, so in effect you'd be hurting her
That's a very good point. I could never hurt my mom over $400, or go to jail for that matter.
And you're right, as soon as I get my first paycheck, I will have more than $400!
a good point from me?
well, i guess even a blind squirrel finds a nut once in a while 
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Re: Ugh. I was afraid of this..what do I do?
Posted by JenniferEver
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I say sign his name to the check
I signed my Dad's on a DVM refund- and desposited it no problem (he told me to keep for waiting on line for him)
As this is ILLEGAL without permission, is there any way this could come back to me?
you are forging his name on a check, it is absolutely ILLEGAL.
I cant believe people are telling you to sign it.
even if your bank lets you deposit it (they might not), they have years that they can take recourse if they find out.
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JenniferEver
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Re: Ugh. I was afraid of this..what do I do?
Posted by nrthshgrl
Can you get it out from under his name & then get the $400 check?
eta. Tell him now that you're over 18, and based on the circumstances, you want everything under your name.
They won't do it. I even explained that it was my car and I assumed the repsonsibility and could prove that I had paid the bill. They still need his permission. I understand where they are coming from, they don't want people to be able to make claims against other people's warranties. it's just super annoying.
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JenniferEver
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Re: Ugh. I was afraid of this..what do I do?
Posted by QuoteTheRaven424
Posted by JenniferEver
Posted by QuoteTheRaven424
Posted by JenniferEver
Posted by Blu-ize
I have deposited other people's checks. I endorsed their name and then signed my name with my acct number. You can really do this.
But could I go to jail if someone found out? I mean 99% no one is going to know, and it's my dad's name, we have the same last name, so the bank would suspect nothing... but still. I don't want to do anything illegal.
I sign my mom's name all the time, but with permission
yes, you could go to jail
plus, i know there are some legal wranglings between he and your mom still
He gets wind of that and uses it in the case against her, so in effect you'd be hurting her
That's a very good point. I could never hurt my mom over $400, or go to jail for that matter.
And you're right, as soon as I get my first paycheck, I will have more than $400!
a good point from me?
well, i guess even a blind squirrel finds a nut once in a while
That's not hard 'cause there are lots of nuts around here!!!
I don't disagree with EVERYTHING you say, just politics. Despite being a republican  you are a stand up guy and I appreciate that
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QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: Ugh. I was afraid of this..what do I do?
Posted by JenniferEver
Posted by QuoteTheRaven424
Posted by JenniferEver
Posted by QuoteTheRaven424
Posted by JenniferEver
Posted by Blu-ize
I have deposited other people's checks. I endorsed their name and then signed my name with my acct number. You can really do this.
But could I go to jail if someone found out? I mean 99% no one is going to know, and it's my dad's name, we have the same last name, so the bank would suspect nothing... but still. I don't want to do anything illegal.
I sign my mom's name all the time, but with permission
yes, you could go to jail
plus, i know there are some legal wranglings between he and your mom still
He gets wind of that and uses it in the case against her, so in effect you'd be hurting her
That's a very good point. I could never hurt my mom over $400, or go to jail for that matter.
And you're right, as soon as I get my first paycheck, I will have more than $400!
a good point from me?
well, i guess even a blind squirrel finds a nut once in a while
That's not hard 'cause there are lots of nuts around here!!!
I don't disagree with EVERYTHING you say, just politics. Despite being a republican you are a stand up guy and I appreciate that
not to hijack - but who said i was a republican?
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Re: Ugh. I was afraid of this..what do I do?
Why can't they just send the check to your Dad in his name. Ask him to deposit the check to his own account. Then have him write you out a check from his account for the $400. And you don't lose a penny.
I don't see what the big problem is. It may take a little while, but so will the whole rigamoral of endorsements and attorneys and whatnot.
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JenniferEver
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Re: Ugh. I was afraid of this..what do I do?
Posted by bomb-blast
Why can't they just send the check to your Dad in his name. Ask him to deposit the check to his own account. Then have him write you out a check from his account for the $400. And you don't lose a penny.
I don't see what the big problem is. It may take a little while, but so will the whole rigamoral of endorsements and attorneys and whatnot.
This is assuming he would agree to this, and not just take the money and run.
As of the way its set up, they were going to send the check to my address in his name. I would never have them send it to him. He'd just take it and cash it. If I could forward it to him via certified letter at least I'd have a paper trail and could sue him for the money if need be.
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Re: Ugh. I was afraid of this..what do I do?
This is assuming he would agree to this, and not just take the money and run.
As of the way its set up, they were going to send the check to my address in his name. I would never have them send it to him. He'd just take it and cash it. If I could forward it to him via certified letter at least I'd have a paper trail and could sue him for the money if need be.
Wait, we ARE talking about your Dad here, right? So unless you and your Dad have some issues that are unknown to us, I don't know why he wouldn't do you the favor. It's not costing him anything more than a trip to the bank.
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QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: Ugh. I was afraid of this..what do I do?
Posted by bomb-blast
This is assuming he would agree to this, and not just take the money and run.
As of the way its set up, they were going to send the check to my address in his name. I would never have them send it to him. He'd just take it and cash it. If I could forward it to him via certified letter at least I'd have a paper trail and could sue him for the money if need be.
Wait, we ARE talking about your Dad here, right? So unless you and your Dad have some issues that are unknown to us, I don't know why he wouldn't do you the favor. It's not costing him anything more than a trip to the bank.
you're new bomb-blast
their issues are VERY known to us
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JenniferEver
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Re: Ugh. I was afraid of this..what do I do?
Posted by bomb-blast
This is assuming he would agree to this, and not just take the money and run.
As of the way its set up, they were going to send the check to my address in his name. I would never have them send it to him. He'd just take it and cash it. If I could forward it to him via certified letter at least I'd have a paper trail and could sue him for the money if need be.
Wait, we ARE talking about your Dad here, right? So unless you and your Dad have some issues that are unknown to us, I don't know why he wouldn't do you the favor. It's not costing him anything more than a trip to the bank.
All you need to know:
My dad is an a-hole.
I posted above how he wouldn't sign the car over to me even though he just left it about to be repossed and I didn't even know it, and I had to pay $4K within 2 days.
I think that gives you an idea...
EYTA: if my dad were normal, it wouldn;t be a problem, I could A) get his permission to sign the check, or B have him cash it and give me the money...unfortunately that is NOT the case.
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Re: Ugh. I was afraid of this..what do I do?
Posted by Blu-ize
I have deposited other people's checks. I endorsed their name and then signed my name with my acct number. You can really do this.
I have done it with my Dad's name and with Jake's- Jake normaly signs it and then I put it into my account - which he is not on ( b/c he is too lazy to come to the bank with me)
but I had permission when I signed my Dad's name- the check was only for $25
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MrsERod
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Re: Ugh. I was afraid of this..what do I do?
Posted by QuoteTheRaven424
Posted by bomb-blast
This is assuming he would agree to this, and not just take the money and run.
As of the way its set up, they were going to send the check to my address in his name. I would never have them send it to him. He'd just take it and cash it. If I could forward it to him via certified letter at least I'd have a paper trail and could sue him for the money if need be.
Wait, we ARE talking about your Dad here, right? So unless you and your Dad have some issues that are unknown to us, I don't know why he wouldn't do you the favor. It's not costing him anything more than a trip to the bank.
you're new bomb-blast
their issues are VERY known to us
exactly
Jenn - i'm sure whatever you decide to do, it will work out in the end.
and you're exactly right, if he does right by you, great. if he doesn't, then at least you know YOU did the right thing! 
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Re: Ugh. I was afraid of this..what do I do?
All you need to know:
My dad is an a-hole.
Sorry, didn't know that.
I posted above how he wouldn't sign the car over to me even though he just left it about to be repossed and I didn't even know it, and I had to pay $4K within 2 days.
I think that gives you an idea...
EYTA: if my dad were normal, it wouldn;t be a problem, I could A) get his permission to sign the check, or B have him cash it and give me the money...unfortunately that is NOT the case.
Well, in that case, unless you try going the 'forging' route, I don't see how you're gonna get your money cleanly. Sorry.
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Maathy317
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Re: Ugh. I was afraid of this..what do I do?
Posted by JenniferEver
Posted by Blu-ize
I have deposited other people's checks. I endorsed their name and then signed my name with my acct number. You can really do this.
But could I go to jail if someone found out? I mean 99% no one is going to know, and it's my dad's name, we have the same last name, so the bank would suspect nothing... but still. I don't want to do anything illegal.
I sign my mom's name all the time, but with permission
If you don't want to do anything illegal, then don't do this and, yes, you could be arrested and prosecuted. My niece was arrested for this not too long ago (she was 22) and her parents spent a great deal of money to get the charges reduced and for her to not spend any time in jail. If your father would not have any problem causing trouble for you, it will cost you alot more than $400 to straighten out the mess. He has the car registered in his name and the insurance as well. He could, easily, find out about this. You need to get the car in your name and you may have to sue to do it. This is forgery, pure and simple, and, could cause you a world of trouble. If you can't get him to sign the check over to you, then you may have to take the loss.
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Re: Ugh. I was afraid of this..what do I do?
$400 is not worth the aggravation of getting involved with him IMO
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