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IGLover
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Kristen
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UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!
About a year ago, Rob and I were driving, and he says to me "Allison sent me a text message at 3am".
A little background: Allison is a girl who was a friend of his. They never had a relationship other than friendship. But she definately had the hots for him, and I think still does. When Rob and I met, they were still friends, and she was so distraught that he met someone that he fell in love with, she stopped talking to him. About 3 years ago, I get a phone call from an operator in California, saying that they have Allison on the line, and it's an emergency. Now, I have no idea its her, so Im like, OK..They put her through, she is HYSTERICAL crying, and asks for Rob. I ask her who the hell it is, she says It's a FRIEND OF ROBS. Can you believe the nerve of this jerk, going through ALL that trouble, to get in touch with my husband, to talk to him because SHE GOT DUMPED after 5 years of never speaking to him. My husband gets on the phone, and asks her to kindly NOT contact him ever again. She proceeds to tell him "We were always such good friends, and I need a friend to talk to, blah blah" We didnt hear from her after that.
Now back to the text message. My husband shows me his phone, and it says "Are you still with Kristen". Then he shows me his reply, and it says, "Yes, were getting married, dont call me anymore".
I freak out after reading it, and call her cell phone. She picks up, and I basically tell her to stay the f*** out of our lives, and cut the crap. I felt kinda bad after, so, I looked her up online, and sure enough, found her screen name. I see her on one night, IM her, tell her it's me, apologize for yelling, and that I didnt appreciate her contacting my husband.
(She moved to Cali 4 years ago)
Not FIVE MINUTES AGO, I get an IM and shes like "HEY, GUESS WHAT, IM MOVING BACK TO NY"
I havent even told Rob yet. I am livid right now.
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TheInfamousOTG
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!
 Don't worry Bri, Red, and i have your back! If you need me to get rid of her I will. I can be a nasty ******* when I want to.
Message edited 9/6/2006 7:58:08 PM.
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dm24angel
Happiness
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Donna
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!
TELL her thats nice, but PLEASE dont think you will be having a friendship again with my husband because it makes me uncomfortable!
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| Posted 9/6/06 7:49 PM |
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munchkinbugs
My little loves!
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Lisa
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!
I see why you're mad but I wouldn't worry about it. She's crazy!!!!
I'm sure if she contacts DH he will put her straight.
What a wacko!!!!!!!!
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| Posted 9/6/06 7:51 PM |
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Tany
Becoming a different woman
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Tania
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!
I can understand why you are mad but dont even worry about it! Ignore the IM.
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| Posted 9/6/06 7:54 PM |
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janet
WITH LOVE MY ANGEL MISS YOU!!!
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janet
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!
if she comes well we are all here for you sweety don't worry!
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| Posted 9/6/06 7:56 PM |
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Redhead
You Live, You Learn
Member since 5/05 31871 total posts
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Jennifer
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!
UGH....
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MABLE03
I <3 SATC
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Fabulous
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!
How did she get his cell phone # to text message him last year 
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| Posted 9/6/06 7:57 PM |
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IGLover
Y'all come back now, ya hear!!
Member since 9/05 2361 total posts
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Kristen
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!
He has had the same cell phone number for 12 years.
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| Posted 9/6/06 8:21 PM |
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dooodles
When you wish upon a star
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Because 2 people fell in love
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!
You could always just say "I'll mention it to my husband"
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| Posted 9/6/06 8:24 PM |
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Moehick
Ready for the sun!
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!
Posted by missus-hbradio
I can understand why you are mad but dont even worry about it! Ignore the IM.
I agree....she is no threat to you
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| Posted 9/6/06 8:25 PM |
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saraH
happy birthday sweet kate!
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I know that God exsists, I held her in my arms...
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!
ok, the broad is crazy. i would pay her no mind, she is not worth the aggrivation
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dpli
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!
I thnk that any response to this IM or future messages will only feed her need for drama. Try to ignore her and hopefully she will stay away.
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| Posted 9/6/06 8:26 PM |
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Redhead
You Live, You Learn
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Jennifer
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!
just get b!tchy again and pooof hopefully she will be gone
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| Posted 9/6/06 8:26 PM |
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Stefanie
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!
Wow...
Be sure to have a restraining order with her name on it because she's a PSYCHO!!!!
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| Posted 9/6/06 8:29 PM |
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05mommy09
Family of 5!
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!
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Wow...
Be sure to have a restraining order with her name on it because she's a PSYCHO!!!!
I agree!
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| Posted 9/6/06 8:32 PM |
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Liz
LIF Adolescent
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Liz
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!
I cannot believe her!!! She sounds really jealous and I"m sure she will be trying to interfere in your lives soon  . I would be so mad right now! I think that you were right for telling her to stay out of your lives! She sounds nuts! At least your DH tells her to back off.
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| Posted 9/6/06 8:42 PM |
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Jenziba
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Member since 5/05 6265 total posts
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Jennifer
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!
Don't worry about it...
But, is it possible for your DH to change his #??
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| Posted 9/6/06 8:49 PM |
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IGLover
Y'all come back now, ya hear!!
Member since 9/05 2361 total posts
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Kristen
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!
I refuse to make my husband change his number. Too many people have it,both personal and for business. He would ignore her anyway. He knows shes nuts.
I am not even sweating it.
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baghag
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!
I'd ask DH to get a new cell phone #.
If you have a house phone, make it unlisted.
Google your name, maiden and married, whether you changed it or not, and make sure there is no info floating out there on zabasearch or the internet white pages, etc.
If there is any internet screen name she may know about that you or DH use, get rid of all identifying info if possible.
Ugh, I am sorry you are dealing with this. But if she's crazy enough to move back here, then she's crazy enough to look for you using the stuff I mentioned.
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Jenziba
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Member since 5/05 6265 total posts
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Jennifer
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!
I figured that...
Definitely don't sweat it...she's a lunatic.
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| Posted 9/6/06 8:57 PM |
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Nicole728
My Happy Girl
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Me
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!
tell her if she ever tries to contact your DH that you will boot her in the teeth!
she sounds like a desperate person, my god!
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| Posted 9/6/06 8:57 PM |
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Mrs-Boop
My Babies
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Jaime
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!
Did she think you'd start turning cartwheels, why would you care if she is moving back. I'd IM her back saying good luck on your move and please do not try to contact us on your return as you are happily married and the previous situations in the past have made any future friendship impossible.
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Reese1106
Family of 4! :o)
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Theresa
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Re: UGHHHHHH, Long, but please read!
Completely understand why you're mad. She sounds like a complete psycho!
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